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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Could it be smegma or semen? Or is it evidence of cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - this is a serious question if a man has a white powdery ring around his foreskin head does that mean he cheated and had sex? is that smegma? He is uncircumsized ....when he pulled back the skin I saw white clumpy stuff under the skin looks like ...

He needs time to think about it? What can I do? I am left wondering and waiting if he's planning to break up with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I am hoping that my boyfriend and i eventually make-up. At the moment he is really angry with me because of something i should have not said to him in the heat of an argument. I have sent him 3 apologies, via texting. After i asked him if he wante...

An Angry Boyfriend? What to do with him when he is like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I feel like lately things have escalated way out of control. So the other day he and I decided to see each other for a couple of hours before he starts work. While I was waiting for him to arrive, we spoke on the phone and got into a small disagr...

I called my girlfriend fat. I was joking but she's upset. How do I make it up to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

31 October 2013 (M) - I have got a problem which needs your help. I met my girlfriend in Singapore two years ago and living with her in her small apartment there provided to her by school where she teaches. I do odd job there and grateful to her for that. She is an ...

How do I break up with him? I love him with all of my heart

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Well I've been in a relationship with a lovely guy for the last 4 years and I used to think he was the one. In fact I still do in some ways. However the last year or so has been very rocky because I've started to want more from the ...

Does my boyfriend wish things had worked out with him and his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - Why would my boyfriend (31m) look at his exes pictures on facebook all the time if he says he hates her because of the way she treated him. Is it really because he dislikes her or because he still has feelings for her - wishes things had worked out? ...

I want to know about him but don't want it to look like I'm hitting on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4041 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - Hello! I recently met a guy friend and it seems that we get on well and have bonded over a few subjects. However, there are a few minor problems, I think I like him but I can't be sure because we don't see each other very often, and when we do s...

No experience with players. How do you know if a guy is one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I need advice on dating. So, I haven't gone on dates for over 12 years. My ex-fiance and I were together 11 years and we did not even dated we were collage buddies. We have been separated for over a year now. I recently signed up for online ...

Should I just let him go? He doesn't like me as I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 October 2013 (?) - Hi everyone.. I promise ill try to keep this short but I just tend to vent a lot and I apologize..But I live in new york and from brooklyn..and had to go to a town two hours away from where I live because I had to attend this modeling thing.....

How do I stop thinking about a lying cheating ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I started seeing a guy about six month ago, a few months into 'seeing him' he tells me he has a girlfriend. Gave me the whole as soon as he met me he planned to end it with her but couldn't bring himself to do it but he couldn't lie to me any ...

I feel like I'm being disrespected, used, and attacked by my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 13 months now, and I have never loved someone so much before. I recently started my first year of college, and my first job. My motivation was him, it was for our future. He on the other hand wont ...

Will the Way He Treats Me Be Enough For this to Work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (M) - Me and my bf have been together a couple of months. WE moved in together already. People think it was to fast but we are happy and in love. We work together sometimes too so we spend most of our time together. I met my bf when he first came back ...

Can I stop him sleeping with a new woman, Just this weekend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Hi I hope you guys can give me some advice? Here's the story... Sorry it's so complicated. i came to this city to build a career and get over a bad break up.. i built my life up, had a fantastic high paid job i was very good at and got on br...

If I don't call her or ignore she is sad, so does she love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (M) - I've being friend with a girl for quite a while. We do talk a lot whenever we're together. She gets amused to every of my jokes. She likes complimenting my physical features like am cute all the time i do prepare for an occassion. She compliments ...

Are my standards too high when it comes to dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

30 October 2013 (M) - Now I don’t mean for this to sound shallow at all , but I am really buggered with girls for the past 3 years , I don’t know if I my standards are too high , it just seems the girls I am interested in give me some interested but don’t actually ...

Will my boyfriend lose interest when his son (to another woman) is born?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is having a baby with his ex and is due very soon, I'm worried once the babys born me and my boyfriend will grow apart as he will be looking after his son and being there for his son, I don't want that to happen me and him are very ...

Will taking this break help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - My fiance and I are on a break to give us time to think and figure things out. He didnt want to take time out but I forced it because we constantly kept fighting and he constantly broke his promise never to get angry at me over small things. And ...

What should I do about a guy I met online? He didn't reply to a text but had time to log in to dating site.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Please need some advice! I have been going out with a guy I met online. He told me he only had one other girl friend in his life ( hes 37). He was quiet and seemed lovely. Well it's been 4 dates. As we have great chemistry he has spent the...

Not being in a relationship doesn't degrade you or reduce your worth.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - Attention beautiful ladies of the world, you don’t need a man to be happy. You can be happy with just about anything. Whether it’s fixing your hair real nice, doing your makeup, or going out in the fresh air. Doing something that you love can be ...

My boyfriend said "I love you" so quickly! How long does it take for them to know they're in love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I'm 18 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He told me he loved me for the first time very early in our relationship (2 weeks) and it kinda freaked me out how early he said that. For a while I just wouldn't say it back ...

Does this man's mother feel I am competition?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I am with a man 16 yrs my senior. His mother is in her 80s and is so jealous of our relationship. She gets mad at how much time we spend together. She tells him alot of negative things about me and says he ignores her. I have never heard of this ...

I need help to get back to where we're happy with one another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

29 October 2013 (M) - This is a bit of a complicated question to ask... There's a man and a woman, and they went to high-school with one another. After they both graduated, the man decides to ask this woman on a date, etc. they start dating and become a solid relation...

Should I believe that he wants me for more than just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - Hi, I am from Malaysia. I met a Persian guy online. We talked for few days and he came to meet me up. I kinda like him and we were in love fast, till now its like a month we are together. I dont know him well, yesterday I was asking him about his...

Are we headed for a future break-up? I don't want to lose him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - I'm needing some serious advice/help with my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends/any times we can find in our work schedules together. Over the last few months things have gotten really rocky. We've ...

Am I allowed to have these thoughts towards a friend? The "what if" might have happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - ok so there's this friend of mine, lets call him *dave, who i get on with famously. but friday night he had far too much to drink and ended up making a pass at me. now thankfully he didn't force me or anything but he didn't exactly stop pre...

I'm tired of being labeled "The Nice Guy"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - Now this isnt a post of how the jerks get the guys and nice guys dont ... ha lets be fair the main thing that women like in these is the confidence and assertieness that they have .. but what winds me up is Im never going to one of them guys , you ...

I think he's interested but hasn't asked me out. Should I suggest something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4046 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - Hey I really need a mans advice here. I'm 18 and I'm interested in a man of 25 and I think he's interested in me too despite the slight age gap as we have very similar interests and are in similar worlds of gigging and music etc.. He's shown signs...

I hit it off with my builder but now he's blowing cold. What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - A builder came to do some work on my house. We hit it off straight away. We had so much in common. We exchanged numbers and have chatted everyday since. Saturday he sent me a text asking what I was up to. I said I was just home bored I invited him ...

Should I start a relationship with someone that is leaving in a year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - This guy and i have been hanging out for a month and a half, and we have been enjoying our time together, we go out all the time, we are affectionate towards each other, in other words we act like were together. I really want to be with him, because ...

He asked me for a date but its been 5 days since I've heard from him. Is it rude to break the date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - Over email, a guy asked me to go out with him on day xyz. I replied, said yes that day sounds good. It has been five days and I haven't gotten his reply confirming the date and time with me. I know he can be busy or had an emergency but re...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend's behavior with her phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - I love my girlfriend to bits..but I have noticed from day 1 she is a very private person but she has opened up to me in the months that we got to know each other better..but one thing that irks me sometimes is she carry's her phone with her ...

FWB wants to meet up but hes dating someone. Is it moral?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - my fwb just asked me to meet up even though I thought it was over because he apparently had a girlfriend, he then explained that she wasn't his girlfriend and it wouldn't be cheating because they haven't defined the relationship. is it moral to ...

I want to go slow -- are guys not willing to wait anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - I used to be in an very emotionally unhealthy relationship of five years which was my first one i was 19- and it lasted until i was 24. I finally left the abusive relationship and have taken three years to really recover and get my self to start ...

New relationship -- when do I tell her about my fetish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

28 October 2013 (M) - hi i have fetish for satin/silk and only get aroused when a female is wearing satin preferably nightdresses , i am considering a new relationship with a female of similar age to me but how do i go about telling her of my liking of satin/silk , i do ...

In love with 2 guys but they both come in and out of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3903 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I'm really in love with two guys, one I met over a year ago we finishd after two and a half months together, it was real sudden and I don't know what happened one day I just got a text saying we were over im really confused especially as hes still ...

Is my negativity taking control? How do I stop being jealous and bitter about my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - This is not so much a question, but more looking for perspective or feedback on what you think the underlying problems are with my life at the minute. I should on the grand scheme of things be content with my life, I am starting a new job next mon...

Is a friend's ex really off limits forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (M) - I'll just go straight to the question. What is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend. I mean they are no longer together for 2years now. We both want to go for it,i can bet on that but its just as if we should never cross. She has been my ...

Haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday, worrying that something's happened to him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - This is probably more of a vent-my-feelings post than anything else, but I suppose I'm also looking for reassurance! I'm 22, he's 26, in a serious relationship etc. We're going on holiday together next week and I'm going out of my mind that somethin...

Am I turning into an old lady by not wanting clubbing every weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I am in my early twenties, and I don't like hanging out with my friends at clubs. But this is all they do: as soon as weekend comes, it's a club time. I don't mind going there few times a year, but not that often. Then we stay up late, my next day ...

Boyfriend has a problem with me catching up with a male friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I met my bf on an online dating website ( you can look for partners or friendship). We've beem together For 5 yrs. About 8 months before i chatted to a guy on there and we met. I wasnt interested but he was a bit but knew nothing would happen e...

I am really stressed over my bi polar boyfriend behavior

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - What should I do about these problems with my boyfriend?. He has Bipolar Disorder. He was very drunk a couple of nights ago. I was on the phone to him. He was shouting and swearing at people going past. He put the phone down for a second , and I ...

Does she really want to go out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (M) - This girl I like now "used" to like me, I'm not sure if she still does or not, but she gives off the signs she does, and is interested in me still (possibly), but every time I ask her if she wants to come over, or go out to see a movie/eat sometime, ...

I found a sex video on my boyfriend phone and it has just devastated me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I recently found a video on my boyfriend's old mobile phone of his ex giving him oral sex, and a few photos of her just in her underwear. I can't help feelings like he kept them because I'm not enough for him. I've never had much confiden...

I feel unappreciated by my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I do everything for my boyfriend but he never says he loves me and I feel unappreciated. I have taken him on business trips across the country, expensive sporting events, weekend trips paid for by me, and drive him everywhere when we are together. I ...

I don't think she's the type to use someone, but that's how I feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

27 October 2013 (M) - So, I've been talking to this girl since late July, and I have no idea what to do. We both have emotional concerns, and I care about her a lot, and like her quite a bit. However, we've only seen each other in person a few times, despite texting back ...

How do I tell him I'm ready for him to enter "through the front door?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Hi, So I'm ready to have vaginal sex with my boyfriend. We've done oral and anal. Before him, I had only done oral so he was my first for the backdoor. I'm ready for him to enter through the front too haha The problem is that I'm not sure how...

Is he afraid to commit because of his past... or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - I dated a man for 3 months. He was very good to me and chased me. I had no doubt that he was really into me. Things were going well and progressing. However, Towards the end he was pulling away from me and very distant. We broke up and went no ...

Is it normal for guys to ask their girlfriend for gifts at the start of a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Is this normal for a guy to ask his girl friend to buy him gifts at the very beginning of their relationship and telling her what to buy for him? If she says no to buy then he remarked her as money minded? And if she buys, he becomes very happy and ...

Gay and ginger, is there any hope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 October 2013 (M) - Hi all, I would be very grateful for any advice so here it goes. Im a 22 year old guy and I have just accepted that I am gay and I'm not out to anyone. I'm also very unfortunate to have Ginger hair too. I have been a quiet and shy guy all my life ...

Do men prefer feminine and delicate women? Please can someone explain from a male perspective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Strange question, I know, but I'm curious to hear from a man's perspective what it is about femininity and feminine women they find attractive. I don't understand it - unsurprisingly, since I'm a het. female - and I was just curious if feminine ...