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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Boyfriend will not take down sports illustrated calendar that his mom bought him!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - This question is really weighing me down. This Christmas, my boyfriend of about a years mother bought him a sports illustrated swimsuit calendar. Now, before you roll your eyes and dub me insecure, know that my irritation and issue with this has ...

I am ready to end this relationship! I'm tired of being alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I am sitting here in tears as I type this.... my so called 'partner' has given me no time at all this Christmas and the final blow...he has just told me he is apparently going round to his mums tonight instead of spending it with me the way he usual...

I'm afraid I'll lose my b/f of 4 years if he finds out I cheated on him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 4yrs and I'm afraid that I will lose him if he ever finds that i have slept with another guy who have know for about 3days.what can I do to prevent this from happening...

I feel so guilty about how I act, but how to communicate this to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I always feel like i am being used for sex. I know rationally this isn't true, but I can't help feeling that way and it ruins all of my relationships. I was in an extremely manipulative relationship from 15-20 in which I was definitely used ...

He doesn't mention me on facebook so I don't feel special to him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - So I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what. But i have been dating my boyfriend for a year. We both have a Facebook and there's something really bothering me. He doesn't mention me or anything about me on there. It bothers me because all the ...

I want to find a special girl but I am too shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Hi everyone, bit of a long question here. So I am a 22 year old male who has never dated or even kissed a girl. I hadn't really thought about it until recently. Seeing quite a few of my friends getting into relationships be it through Facebook ...

I finished the job, now can I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Not so much a problem, more a dilemma. I am a single self employed tradesman of 25 with not to much confidence/luck in the lady department. I have recently been doing a bit of work for a lovelly girl who seems about the same age and from what i ...

I need to move on, how should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, yet, he hasn't talked to me about marrige. He knows that I would like to get married and have kIds but I'm 28 he's 29, and I feel like I'm getting to that point where I need to move on. How should I bring u...

Now that she appears to have moved on I miss her in my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Can someone help me understand this. I broke up with this girl about 7 months ago and I wont go into what happened and why I ended it. But it wasn't a nice break up, I ended it in a terrible way, unintentionally of course but as a result I was a j...

He says I wont have to wait long for him to pop the question!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he was thinking of asking me to marry him a couple of weeks ago. It would have been an impulsive ask. We were in a hotel for a couple of days and the weather was terrible so we spent the day in bed eating pizza and vegging ...

Younger guys are attracted to me, but I would like to date an older guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Just a simple question.... I hope :) I seem to attract all of the younger guys. It must be me. :/ Im only 23 and I just need an older, more mature man and I wanna know guys of age 25+ what do you find attractive in a woman? I can be childish...

Should I give up now or wait and hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can give me some guidance with a problem I have. I have been seeing my partner for a year now and I'd say it's a beautiful relationship. We get along fine and don't have any problems. We have little rows now and the...

While he is planning our future, I am just not feeling 'it'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hey all, just hoping for some advice. I've been meeting a guy for about 6 weeks. At first, we met up and I didn't feel it but we agreed to be friends. However, I knew he kind of would have liked more, but he said he was happy as friends was better ...

How can I be myself when I have no confidence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I am a 36 year old man. I Have no confidence when it comes to chatting to ladies. People always tell me to just be myself but that seems to me like i am not good enough. Any advice would be very appreciated. ...

Why do I always have to pay? She never offers!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - Help! I'm dating this girl I really like for a few months. Problem is I end up paying every time we're out and she never, ever offers to pay. I've talked to her about this but she says I'm the first guy she's dated who complained. I really like her ...

How to deal with previous sexual partners?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - Hey guys, I'm really stuck, I may be young but I am sure of this relationship I am in, there's literally one issue. The girl has had 6 sexual partners before me, and whilst there's worse things and worse numbers, I really really can't get ...

Boyfriend spends no time with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi there iv bin seeing this boy for bout 3wks know and he has said we are girlfriend n boyfriend but every time I ask him to spend time with me he says yes then when it come to it he doesn't answer any off my phone calls or text! He said he needs ...

How do I find balance in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Ive been with my partner now 10 months. He is great with my son who Is 5 yrs old and we live together now.we seem to get into arguments because of me I admit that.i have a very hard time letting go over some past things and I no that I shouldnt be ...

More time apart than we've been together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for two weeks. We get along great and we really enjoy being with each other. I've been sleeping in her department the past few days but we haven't had sex yet because she "didn't feel completely sure yet", in her ...

What his response to my TEXT mean (met guy in a bar and he asked me to contact him)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid advisors, I am in my early 20s, finished college and am working as a Marketing Professional. So I met a guy in a bar (in Boston- we are both locals) and we really hit it off. We danced all night and talked all about our lives and ...

Is My Sex Life Ruined? Please I Need Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - I'm a 19 year old male, and i like watching porn, im worried that this is affecting me more at picking up girls, i don't just go porn surfing and watch every video i see, i just watch the porn stars who are my favorite, one in particular i have came ...

Who should I choose?? my boyfriend or my mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hii guys, i am a freshman in college. My mom found out that I was dating my friend for 4 months already. She got super pissed, and and she forced me to break up with him. She also forced me to promise her to never date him or be with him ever again. ...

Does he deserve somebody who will love him as he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on my situation. I have been with my partner for about a year and a half. It has been amazing. He is the most genuine caring person and i love him to bits. My problem is, I...

He feels our relationship is not healthy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for almost a year now. Everything was great and he always treats me like a queen. But recently, we started to fight over stupid little things. Due to that, he has tri...

I feel he is behaving badly on purpose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Why is he being like this? Should i cut him off? We've been seeing each other for nearly 4 months. I told him I wanted to take things slow as he kept asking me to be his girlfriend after the first date. We hit it but he's now coming off as bi...

I keep self sabotaging potential relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I''ve got a really bad pattern when it comes to guys. I meet someone I'm attracted to, I assume that they would never consider a relationship with me, I have sex with them and then freak out because I assume that they would never want to date me, ...

Was I just used for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hiya i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now he was in a very unhappy relationship when we met he broke up with her but is still living with her as they have twin boys who are a year old we recently slept together for the first time we had ...

His remarks made me feel uncomfortable. How do I tell him I don't want to see him again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - So this is my situation. I met a guy a while ago, and I found out from a mutual friend that he is extremely into me. I was really not especially attracted to him from the beginning, but since physical attraction is not always instant, I decided ...

My girlfriend's previous lovers made her come but I can't seem to

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

29 December 2013 (M) - Hello Aunts! I am a 20 year old male who has been with my girlfriend for over a year now. She is the only woman I have ever been intimate with. My problem is that I cannot make her orgasm except by rubbing her clit and she is getting very...

I really like her but we come from two very different cultures. Is this worth pursuing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (M) - I'm not sure about pursuing a relationship with this girl. Hi. I'm from Pakistan and currently studying at a University in London. There I befriended a Tunisian girl. I became attracted to her because of her character. At first I was just merely ...

I'm in a place where I feel I should stay single forever, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hi this isn't a problem as such but something that is bothering me. I am currently single and have been for just over two years, iv dated quite a bit over that time, I have no problem getting a date or a man (sounds big headed I don't mean it too!) ...

I'm feeling insecure because my boyfriend used to date a stripper

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple months already. He's great, he's very loving and I really trust him. He's very open about his past, though. That's great, because he's honest and it builds trust, and usually it doesn't bother me. But ...

I would like to be in a relationship with a quality guy ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I have been single for a long time and I am very excited about being in a relationship. I met a guy that is ten years younger than me. He is very smart (I like that) and very handsome. He has an ok job , but that is fine with me as long as he works. ...

I would like to know where my boyfriend is during the day, and night, 24/7.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hi all, I would like to know if its too much for me to ask my bf about his whereabouts. By asking about his whereabouts I mean just asking him his plans for the day and what he'd be doing, not the crazy gf sort of asking every hour. Personally I ...

She is the one I want, but am I the one she wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (M) - I've been really close friends with a girl for about six years now - she's helped me through some tough times and we've remained close friends despite living a few hours apart for the past two years. I've always been rather fond of her, but now, I'm ...

My ex's friend said he fancies me more than my ex does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I got a text from my ex a couple of days ago saying "I want you. I love you. ", and he said it was him texting me, and he was using his friend's phone. He has used his friends phone to text me before when he has no credit on his phone. I also got a ...

I am too attatched and clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I have a problem and I'm really hoping someone else has gone through this and can help me. I feel as if I'm too attached and clingy to my boyfriend. Not to like an obsessive point, but more like I'm with him as much as I can be, I drop everything ...

I haven't heard from him since we had sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi i met this man in April this year we had 4 dates i really liked him and we got on really well but due to problems on his side nothing came of it now boxing day we got back together he is still having the same problems not heath wise but family ...

Should I buy my boyfriend of 4 months the new Playstation 4?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid, I am in a LDR with a guy I met 4 months ago. We decided to make it official October of this year. Instead of exchanging gifts during Christmas time, it was a mutual decision for us to surprise each other with them in January when ...

He has been lying to me for two years, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - me n my partners relationship is really rocky at the moment as alot of things have gone on n im on the verge of breaking up with him, we have 2 children so im scared. i found out from him something about his past......he was an escort.....people ...

I feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Dear cupid agony aunts and uncles, I am writing because I do not know where to go from here. So the details: I am a gay man, and I met this wonderful gay man who lives a good 7 mins away from me. And well in the beginning he was very attentiv...

My b/f doesn't want me to get another tattoo

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi all, I could do with some advice. I'm 20 this year and in my country, it is legal to get a tattoo at this age. I've been meaning to get another tattoo next year. But my bf does not seem keen on me getting another tattoo. I am not a rash person ...

She's no good but I can't stop loving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I've no idea what to do? I feel like I've tried everything. I met a girl years ago who I thought was the woman of my dreams. She's beautiful, and she's been successful in life. I discovered she was cheating and as a result we split up. For...

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of ...

I love him so how can I tell him I am not ready for marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I've been with the same guy for three years. I love him very much, but like most young love we have problems. A few months ago he told me he didn't love me anymore, we didn't talk for 2 or 3 weeks but like always we kissed and made up. All of a ...

Wait for the ex, or be with the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex of almost two years way back in February. Things started off well in the relationship, but gradually things went downhill. He only had a job for the first two months of our entire relationship, and I was the one that had to pay ...

Could my ex-boyfriend want more, or just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4019 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - My exboyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. He told people different things about why he broke up with me but he told me it was because we didn't connect. Obviously i still have some feelings for him but im trying to get over him. We both ...

On exchange: Should I give up a good school and see him instead?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi :) He was the most gentlemanly, thoughtful and humourous person I've ever met. We met when he was travelling. At that time, he decided to cancel his next trip to stay longer with me. We had picnics, went biking and visited new places together...

Long distance, who should move where?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, I kind of have a question and would like to see what other people think about this or if anyone can give me some advice especially from someone who has been in a long distance relationship. Me and my boyfriend met online have been...

I'm standing up to my controlling boyfriend and he's getting more and more mad at me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Dear all. Please help. I.ve been seeing my bf for around two and a half years. I used to chase him like mad,and initiate contact. He is a controlling person,and got used to me doing that,and took advantage. I totally changed my pattern around two ...