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writes:Hiya i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now he was in a very unhappy relationship when we met he broke up with her but is still living with her as they have twin boys who are a year old we recently slept together for the first time we had been waiting as i wanted to see if he stuck around with no sex so that was a week ago now on my birthday the first time we had sex got together last year for 2 weeks but we couldn't make it work as he was working away so now i called him 2 days after no answer so i text him really enjoyed last night he replied me to and that has been it have i just been used for sex or could he just be busy any input would be greatly appreciated
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (30 December 2013):
 You write: "....he was in a very unhappy relationship when we met he broke up with her but is still living with her...."
Correction: It is not so that he WAS in an unhappy relationship...... he IS in an unhappy relationship.... AND, you are his bit on the side who helps him have a sex life that he (apparently) doesn't have "at home."
You'll be much happier when you part ways with this cad...
Good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2013): it was smart to wait on sex to make sure the guy stuck around. I would have been smarter (I'm sure you know) to wait until he was moved out of there and only talking to the woman about the kids before even getting in a relationship at all. Maybe she didn't know he was seeing someone (you) and told him to put a stop to it. maybe they made up and he's done. Sex may have been a conincidence, but I don't believe in coincidences really I think he waited until he had what he wanted and then left. I've been that girl before, thinking I'd waited, making him take me on dates a few times and as soon as we had sex, it became nothing but sex and no more dating. Some men are just jerks.
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reader, M Proops +, writes (30 December 2013):
How can he have broken up with her if he's still living with her? I'm afraid you've been used for sex and that's it.Get away from him,there are plenty more fish in the sea.
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