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*ustToonz
writes:I'm a 19 year old male, and i like watching porn, im worried that this is affecting me more at picking up girls, i don't just go porn surfing and watch every video i see, i just watch the porn stars who are my favorite, one in particular i have came in contact with via twitter and i really do enjoy watching this girl do her thing, so one night i got turned on by a photo she uploaded and i contacted her and a week later she told me her agents and i called the number she gave me and i felt so bad that i didn't even call it, i am starting to think my sex life is ruined, i stopped masturbating back in October, i have not done it since and i had been masturbating for about a year and i told myself that i need to stop this now so i stopped, I am Masturbation Anonymous.i have only been watching porn and looking at playboy magazines for about 2 years, and i know this is affecting me getting into a relationship i have been single for this whole year 2013 and i have not had sex once, is my life wrong? how should i stop this habit and become a normal guy, watching porn is pleasing but i don't the fact that i watch it, i have thought about deleting all my social media profiles which would help stop these urges by not seeing hot girls and would force my brain to find another way to help it be happy, i want to get a girlfriend and i really have forgotten how because of how porn has made me feel about sex, Please Help Me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2013): You are normal in the fact that this thing bothers you and you want to do something about it. My ex used porn for 20 years and not once did he feel bad about it, he then had me and had extreme failings in the bedroom. He couldn't find real women attractive.
He has modified his behaviour (ironically) now he is on the look out for someone, if he had done that two and a half years ago we still might of been together. So good on you for trying to quit early before it's too late.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 December 2013):
 This site would benefit you greatly:
www.yourbrainonporn.com
It's not a judgmental site, and it deals with people like you in various stages of porn addiction, which it sounds like you have. You might have a bit of celebrity obsession as well due to contacting the porn stars themselves. You're right about it affecting your sex life/relationships, and that is a common occurrence in porn addictions.
Seriously, look over that site. I'd be surprised if there wasn't anything there to help you out.
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