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male
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anonymous
writes:I've been going out with this girl for two weeks. We get along great and we really enjoy being with each other. I've been sleeping in her department the past few days but we haven't had sex yet because she "didn't feel completely sure yet", in her own words.But timing couldn't be any worse, because she had to go back to her house in her home town for one or possibly -though unlikely- TWO months, to spend New Year's eve and summer break with her family (she had warn me about this on our very first "date").We ended up agreeing to see other people in the meantime, because it was too soon to talk about exclusivity and because neither of us wanted to seem clingy or "rushed". But we've also agreed on keeping in touch through text. But now I'm thinking, I'm not going to see her in at least twice the time we've spent together. Texting will get old after a week or so and by the time she returns it'll be all weird and we'll have forgotten about each other.What should I do? I REALLY like her, so I don't want to, but should I forget about her and move on?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 December 2013):
 So stay friends, keep in touch, do not have sex and wait and see how it goes when she gets back...
YOU LIKE HER... two months apart is NOTHING... but don't be serious at this point.. wait till she gets back.
short term LDR (2 months is NOTHING) are very doable... and you two are not even a couple yet.
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