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I finished the job, now can I ask her out?

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Question - (31 December 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Not so much a problem, more a dilemma. I am a single self employed tradesman of 25 with not to much confidence/luck in the lady department. I have recently been doing a bit of work for a lovelly girl who seems about the same age and from what i gather she is also single, but can't be sure. From the off set there seemed to be some sort of spark between us, unfortunately the opportunity never arose to get to know her a bit better. All the work has now been completed and i need to send her an invoice, I was wondering if i also should ask her out on a date or leave it lying. I don't want her to take it the wrong way and make it awkward if I ever need to go back to repair something. Without knowing really a lot of information about her, but I would like to, and without knowing if she feels the same as she may have just been being nice, I don't want to make a fool of myself.

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A male reader, M Proops United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2013):

I suppose you could pin a note to the invoice asking if she would like to go out for a drink with your phone number.Nothing ventured nothing gained I say.If you don't get a reply you'll know the answer.Good luck.

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A female reader, Lieutenant United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2013):

The worse thing she can say is "no". Go for it, you'll keep kicking youself and wondering "what if" if you don't ask her out.

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