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writes:Why is he being like this? Should i cut him off?We've been seeing each other for nearly 4 months. I told him I wanted to take things slow as he kept asking me to be his girlfriend after the first date.We hit it but he's now coming off as bitter.He's quite rude about my appearance and offers to take me out, willingly paid, only to turn around and say I owe him half of the money and kept going on about it. Along with rubbing in and repeating the fact we're taking it slow or we're best friends ( he kept telling me he loved me and I'm scared of commitment but really like him so i had to remind him) I was prepared to let him go as I felt like i was leading him on but he said he doesn't mind seeing where things go.After that date I gave him the money and walked off. He followed and apologised, I said to him if he can't handle taking things slow then I'm not forcing him to stick around. He said he didn't know it was hurting hurting me and he'll stop and things died down. But today were chatting through txt and i asked him if he gets sent nudes and he replied "no comment LOOL" and i said why are you being like this? He said "why? U mad? Lolololol" then proceeded to ask me what I'm doing tomorrow.. I said to him is this why you're so touchy about your phone when I'm arround. And he said "i said no comment. Why you annoyed? I said don't worry. And he said alright then and stopped talking all together. I feel like he's doing this on purpose and it's putting me off so much. Help?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 December 2013):
Read your own post back. You'll see very quickly that this guy is a total fraud of a man. He's rude about how you look, he basically screwed you over on your dates when he pays then suddenly turns and says you owe him half, and to top it off he obviously has other women on the go, or wants to make it seem that he does, given his reaction over the phones.
Seriously, you can do better. Cut this one off. If you don't, all that will happen is he'll think he can get away with treating you this way.
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