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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I date him? I find his personality crazy attractive, but I just don't find him very attractive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - Hi, first of all thank you so much for any help! I'm in a bit of a bind. Backstory: I'm a freshman in college, and I entered college not looking for a relationship. In HS I had two year and a half long relationships, and I entered college wanting ...

I really like him. What is the best thing to do now? Is it best to just be casual and get to know him slowly, and later on see if anything develops?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I met a guy last week and invited him to a music jam night. He came along, and that was great, but by the time he arrived I was already talking to s group of guys and he then got cornered by a woman, who then asked 'is that your girlfriend? ' and he ...

I just discovered my boyfriend is giving his ex secret guitar lessons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I went to my boyfriend's house a couple of days ago and I saw the photo of us was face down. He went over to put music on and suddenly it was upright again. There were playing cards on the coffee table and empty glasses. I asked who had been playing ...

I don't want to seem clingy, but he's stopped calling and texting

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - Hi there. I need some help. I've recently started seeing a guy. We get on really well and have a great time when we are together. I've been round his house and stayed a few times and we've made love. The problem is he seems to have stopped texting ...

Is it weird to invite a friend along on quasi-dates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

10 December 2013 (M) - Is it weird to arrange a date and invite friends along. Someone I met online invited his friend along once, I had no objection, and thought what a great idea. It totally took the edge off the meeting and made it much more relaxed and fun. But I get ...

I'm considering changing my personality to become a jerk in order to date!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

10 December 2013 (M) - So, I've recently, after the same bullshit of "I see you more as a friend", decided to change myself into the complete opposite of what I am now, knowing that it will take a long time. Today I behave like a Gentlemen when dating, red roses as a ...

Was I wrong in turning down invitation to go away with BF and his family this weekend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I was wondering if I was wrong for saying no to going away with his family for the weekend? I've been in a relationship for just over 2 and a half years and I truly love this guy however the last few months have been really rough...A week can't go ...

Please help - I found dodgy photos on my boyfriend's computer.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm a bit confused and any insight would be appreciated as I can't talk to anyone else about this. My boyfriend is a sweet guy, I always knew he had a Pervy side but all guys do and that didn't really bother me.... Until I found pic...

Big misunderstanding with almost-boyfriend leads to me being ignored. I don't know what this all means.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I met M several weeks ago through a friend. We hit it off and a few days after having met him, we were pretty inseparable. Despite the 10-year age difference (I'm 25, he's 35), we seemed to get along really well. He works as a restaurant manager, ...

Why do guys ask for underwear?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I slept with this guy like more than 5 times. He asked for my underwear twice and on his third ask, I decided, why not? So I gave them to him. I just want to understand this phenomena... why do guys ask for underwear? I'm curious. I just hope I ...