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writes:I've been really close friends with a girl for about six years now - she's helped me through some tough times and we've remained close friends despite living a few hours apart for the past two years. I've always been rather fond of her, but now, I'm quite sure I love her. The problem is, she doesn't live the most dedicated lifestyle (she goes out drinking often and she is adorned with male attention). Additionally, she is convinced that she has commitment issues. I'm rather different in that I've never really had any sort of relationship before. Despite this, I'm sure that she is the one I want to be with. Whenever we're together, we have a nice time, but she still doesn't seem to notice how I feel and I'm slightly afraid of making it explicitly obvious. Please help me to figure out how to proceed. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2013): Man up and be honest about your feelings to her,even if it might severe your friendship with her because deep down you know you cant live like that,Or you could just wait until somebody else snatches her away from you since the chances of her confessing to you is pretty slim.Also you can depend on luck you know,it works sometimes.
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reader, sick and tired  +, writes (29 December 2013):
I would ask her out. Maybe , she is interested in you and oblivious that you like her. However, there are two red flags.First, she likes to go out and party alot, and secondly, she says she is commitment phobic. There is a saying , we miss 100 percent of the shots we do not take. Most women want the man to ask them out. If she says no, you have your answer. Best of luck.
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