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*tarryEyes101
writes:Just a simple question.... I hope :)I seem to attract all of the younger guys. It must be me. :/ Im only 23 and I just need an older, more mature man and I wanna know guys of age 25+ what do you find attractive in a woman? I can be childish but I'm also really mature and have been since my early teens. Thanks in advance people :) :) Reply to this Question
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (31 December 2013):
StarryEyes101 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I know exactly what you are all saying. I am not stereotyping! I am just stating that every guy that hits on me is younger than 21, and they have been complete morons. Yes I do get to know them a little before I make assumptions. Then I see my sisters and my friends who's partners are 30-44 and I just feel myself carrying a huge green monster on my back because of how amazing they all are. I don't care about money etc. I have a good full time job that is confortable for me. I can take care of myself in that way. Thanks for your opinions guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2013): I have never met a teenage girl or young woman who didn't think she was mature for her age.
If you want maturity then don't look for it with age. You will end up with less mature older guys who are interested in you because a younger chick is more at their level. There are guys your own age who are more mature than 35yo guys, trust me. Look for the maturity itself.
This is what usually stops most girls. Because they aren't really wanting a mature man, they are wanting an older man and maturity is how they justify it. They want to mingle with more money, the adult world, etc. These things are not maturity either, they are just age.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (31 December 2013):
 One thing that most all guys like in a woman is that she doesn't start out by putting in iron-clad parameters - based on stereotypes and conjecture - for the details of whichever guy(s) she might like to spend her time with.....
Good luck.....
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 December 2013):
Kindness, a good sense of humour, ambition, hard working, independent, loyal - well you get the picture. I'm sure you're those things and more, so it's really a case of making sure that you're out there meeting guys. You will find someone.
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