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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid,1'm 17, I have been in love with my best friend for 2 years now, but I know he doesn't see me that same way.Today he came to me to ask for advice on this fake as anything chick and how to make her go out with him instead of her new boyfriend. I gave him the advice any good friend would, regardless of my feelings, which he seemed to apreciate.I don't think I've ever wanted to cry so hard in my life. Nobody except me knows how I feel about him.Can anyone help me with any advice at all.This is killing me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): You have to tell him how you feel regardless of whether you "think" he feels the same way or not.
That's it, you can't go on like this, do you really want to spend another few years in absolute agony at the thought and sight of him dating other girls? No, so you have to tell him, you have no choice because it will come out eventually so it's better you tell him now before things get messy.
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reader, Da - Grinch  +, writes (10 February 2011):
Hi :)
The best advice that i can offer is that u turn your back on him.. act as if he never really interested you.. It's unlikely he will just switch from liking this other girl, if you tell him how u feel..
The more you want something, the more you chase after it.. the more it eludes you.
Once he wonders what happened to your friendship..Let him play lost pup for awhile =)
If this doesnt appeal to your morales etc.. tell him how you feel. Its better to have loved and lost, so they say
All the best =)
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