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writes:I met a guy on Saturday and hit it off really well. I had a great time and decided I really liked him. I am not one to play mind games but I wanted to try playing hard to get. It has been working well for me. He has initiated every contact and always plans another date before the nights over.I saw him yesterday and we had a great time. We are planning on going snowboarding together on Saturday. However he seemed less interested. I was wondering how I should go about showing him I'm interested while still playing hard to get. I was thinking of kissing him spontaneously. Is there any guys who would not want a girl to spontaneously kiss you?Should I hold back after kissing him and continue playing hard to get?
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reader, Mr.Joe +, writes (11 February 2011):
 A spontaneous kiss would suprise me, in a good way though.I would suggest looking for signs of subtlety that he wants you to kiss him. Listen to how he talks to you hinting he wants to kiss. If he compliments your lipstick/ lip gloss or if he looks at your lips like gels thinking about them. Look for some signs like these. When you know he wants it, do it when he's not expecting it. The kiss will really get him to like you even more.Still play hard to get. This could make him wanting more or make him think something he's doing is wrong. Look for some behavior signs that might look like he's frustrated or disappointed. Most importantly talk to him to see if he liked the spontaneous kiss and talk to him if playing hard to get show negative signs. I hope this helped you, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): I'm not a guy, but I think just by going with him on dates and hanging out with him is showing him that you're interested. A guy will always have more respect for you if you aren't too forward. It's few and far between girls nowadays that aren't ready and willing to jump into the sack pretty much straight away. Try being different to most and have fun in the meantime. If it's meant to happen, it definately will. Good luck!
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