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Dating: Help and advice

Would it be weird for a 17 year old male to date a 15 year old girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - I am a seventeen year old boy and I have a huge crush on a girl who just turned fifteen. She's very mature but would it be weird for me to date a girl two and half years younger than me?...

Does he like me more than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I really like my best guy mate and ive liked him for ages. a few weeks ago we were talking on msn and he asked me who i fancy and i said i didnt want to tell him. he then told me that he kinda has feelings for two people and he would tell me one of ...

Do men lie about a relationship status?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Will men say a relationship is fine and everything is ok even if not -- in order to break up at a convenient time for them or do they more likely really mean that everything is ok? And at the same time he did let you know that he almost changed t...

I have a confusing situation, here and I need help as I'm going crazy in my own head!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - i'm asking this because i'm just too confused, This girl has loved me for years, she asked me out 3 years ago, and due to my own stupidity and nervousness i turned her down, even though i had really strong feelings for her. subsequently, she...

He put our dating on hold because he has cancer! But he's kept in touch and I wonder if he is still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I met a man recently and we had three dates but seemed to click on an emotional level very deeply very quickly. Then he found out he had Cancer and told me he just wanted to be friends. I was heartbroken and felt like i was going through a ...

I don't feel like his girlfriend any more, I just feel used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 months now but we have known each other for 6 years as we used to have casual sex, on and off. I have doubts about us as he makes me feel used sometimes and I doubt his faithfulness. It all started when he kept ...

Choosing between friendship and love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I have been in love with a boy for the past 2 years but within those years he has been in a relationship with a friend. He finally confessed to sharing the same feelings and has ended the relationship. His ex girlfriend is absolutely devastated and ...

I wish he would give this another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after th...

Is it worth the effort to ask her out if we're only going to be together for 4 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - Good news: I'll be receiving my degree within 4 months. Bad news: I'll be moving where my future job takes me or back home until I secure a job fit for my career. Granted, I've lived my whole life leaving and trying to make new friends. It'll ...

I like two guys and I can't have either!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - please help me, my head is messed up. i like 2 guys and there best friends, im not using there names so im just gonna call the guy 1 and guy 2 , so guy one ive liked him for a long long time now he's one of those guy you cant get out of your mind , ...

My girlfriend doesn't want me and my wife won't leave...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - I have been in a 11 year relationship. The first few years were good. She treated me with love and was really nice and kind to me. Fast forward 10 years, and she started taking me for granted, cursed my parents, treated everyone i knew badly. On one ...

He seems interested but hasn't asked me out...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Okay, I've been friends with this guy for quite a while and I've known him for a few years... It's only until now that we've started getting closer. We hold hands and hug a lot, and he's even tried kissing me....But he hasn't asked me out :/ I...

How do I turn him on without being too up front?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend works really hard and it makes him tired so his sex drive is lower than mine. We have sex once or twice a week, and normally it just happens. It's really easy to get me in the mood but not quite so much with him. Sometimes I'm horny ...

Will I ever get past just dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I recently found out that a guy I dated for a while a few years ago is now married and has a daughter. I learned this as I am dealing with the end of my own 2 year relationship (the longest I have had). I feel that the guy who is married was a re...

She said I was a stalker! Is she mad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - right i like this girl so much . we have been talking for about 3 months and that included text , msn , phone and meeting up . she called me the cutest and sweetest guy she has ever met and she told me when she got to know me better we would talk ...

Will he ever like me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Erm I really like this guy and i mean when i think of him my heart goes weird i proper love him. we did go out but his granny died and he wanted to be alone and that was a couple of days after he asked me out and it was like i got my dream boy and ...

I can't help but find reasons to let go!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hi After I got divorced ( a 13 yr relationship) I met a man(7 yrs older) I really liked right away, first we were friends and then we became FWB( it lasted for 2 years) He was clearly using me since he never spoke of having any feelings for me nor ...

Do I ask him to apologise or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - i fell in love with my teacher last year and Ihonestly didnt want to stop these feelings whatsoever but i decided i had to let go for summer otherwise i would have a horrible summer and a depressing year when he wasnt my teacher again. but then he ...

I want to make a move on the boy from church

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I really need some help. There's this guy from my church who i really like. He's about 8months younger than me and in the year below at school (different school to me). I have liked him for over a year now and have allready asked him out once ...

Is my clingyness causing him to act distant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - So i've been with this super great guy for a year now -- and i had feelings that he maybe is losing intrust in me due to me being super clingy. I do know that i have been some what clingy buy not to the degree that he and my friends have stated. I ...

In a love triangle, at 40!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - well try on a 20 year relationship that i was always waiting on to be perfect nicest guy ever but after many years drug addiction did us in ! and i met someone else alot younger who makes me happier than i ever have been but my heart is still with ...

Getting to know him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - i would like to know how i could get to know this guy at school better. i like him alot, and he knows i do but he isnt really ready for a relationship yet. i understand this because i guess neither am i. but i really really want to get to know h...

Feeling guilty about my past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend on and off for a few years. We'v been back together and goin strong for five months.and things are better than ever. But lately I've started feelin this guilt about people that I've kissed or may have kissed when ...

What's holding me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hey people i need your advice. I dont understand myself. Its been awhile since i broke up with my ex boyfriend but i do find it so hard to start dating again. So many men have approached me but idont know whats holding me to do so. Am confused cause ...

She's having sex with another but I'm still not over her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - I'm sorry if this has been asked before. I've recently split from my girlfriend but we still live together cos I can't afford to move out yet. Anyways she goes out the other night with het "friends" but she doesn't get home till 9am the next day. ...

I disagree with my parents view on arranged marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - My parents are strictly orthodox and believe in arranged marriages. I love them a lot. I'm not that pretty either. I have two secret crushes, both of them complicated. Crush 1 I have been sent to an all girls school but we interact with the ...

Should I just settle for the kid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - My ex and I are having a baby. She's 11 weeks gone. Now she doesn't want to get back with me at all and I recently found out that when we were together she had cheated on me. I'm so stuck I don't know what to do, do I forgive her and hope we can w...

This whole situation is so messed up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - This is kinda LONG. But please i need some advice So ive known this guy 3 years.. (i ask a question refering to what specifically happened between us so im gunna brief you) So he always like me.. Even when i started dating my boyfriend he was saying ...

32 and never been in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - hi, I'm 32 and believe it or not, but I've never had a boyfriend :( No guy has ever really shown an interest in me. I've never been on a date or even kissed a boy. No one has ever asked me out. I'm starting to feel it's too late for me now, sinc...

Pushes me away, then comes running back. The cycle repeats

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for almost a year now. We are not officialy going out, but we do pretty much what every bf/gf does. I love him, and i'm pretty sure he loves me too. But the issue is, he is a very insecure person. He has never admited to...

Scared of making the same mistake as my Mum

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hey im 16, ive been with my boyfriend nearlly five months, it hasnt really been that long i think. but last nighht he was drunk and told me that he loved me more than anyone else and that he wanted to be with me always. this scares me cause im not ...

Could this be why I've never had a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - hi, im 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend. is thsi really strange? because i feel like everyone around me has had at least one serious relationship in their lives by this age. I've made out with many guys, too many to count, but all of ...

Complicated love-square

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - So, I slept with the man I love who also happens to be one of my closest friends. It happened two weeks ago and it was sincere and passionate and amazing, everything I had imagined it to be for all these months I had been in love with him. ...

Is it impossible to get over your first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - Has anyone gotten over their first love? How long did it take for you? Is it even possible??? Did you find love again??? It's been a year and a half since my ex-girlfriend dumped me for someone else. I don't think about her as often anymore, b...

Boyfriend's mom looked into my medical records and told him I had an STD!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I am not a bad person. Even though we weren't in a relationship I had sex with someone I cared about and I got an std. It was my first time. I don't blame him for what happened because he didn't know and he had the decency to tell me when he ...

Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend thinks that dating other women is not cheating,but I think it is cheating. Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating? Both male and female's opinion's is appreciated. ...

I'm so afraid of getting hurt that I end things with every guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hi After I got divorced ( a 13 yr relationship) I met a man(7 yrs older) I really liked right away, first we were friends and then we became FWB( he was clearly using me since he never spoke of having any feelings for me nor did he show it in ...

What is he trying to say!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about a year now, and everytime were together he says 'you're my baby, don't forget that' or we're in bed and he's about to fall asleep he'll say, you're my baby. He even says it while he's half asleep! What is he trying ...

I'm jealous because my boyfriend flirted with a friend, or were they just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing a lovely guy for 5 months. very complicated situation, we are both going through longterm breakups but have become very close. he has told me he loves me and has fallen in love with me. Things have been wonderfully intense but ...

Can't look at each other during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - hey guys my boyfriend and i hav been together for 4 years when we have sex we dont look at eachother ever!!! he took my verginity.. we do hav great sex.. when hes on top of me or going down on me the pillow goes over my face. when i...

He won't introduce me to his child -- how long should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I met this man on-line we met up and hooked up. We've been seeing each other for 9 months. About 5 months ago I told him that I wanted to be more than hook up buddies. Since that time we've gotten closer he's even met one of my children. One ...

Should I be concerned that he asked about open relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend just recently approached me about open relationships.. asking what i thought of them and if i would ever be in one. This kind of bothers me seeing as i feel we are growing apart. i told him i didn't like the idea and thought they were ...

He keeps saying I deserve better. Why can't he belive that I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - The guy I'm dating constantly wants to know why I like him, what is it about him..and says he cant understand why I like him seeing that im soo nice, a good girl..(ive never done drugs, stolen or anything like that) and he used to do drugs, fight ...

I'm 22, still a virgin, never had a boyfriend yet. Is that a turnoff for guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm a 22 year old girl. For some reason, I'm a virgin and I haven't even had a boyfriend yet. I'm not ugly; I do commercial modeling (not the big stuff though), and I do get hit on. My problem is that guys usually go too fast for me....

Third time that someone has "wanted a break"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Question: When he says he wants 'a break' does it always mean it's the end of the relationship? Should I hang in there or should I move on? Hello everyone, I am not used to replying to blogs or doing anything internet related, however I 'g...

I'm tired of being the 'gay' best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - Hello, 'dearcupid'. Having used this site before, and receiving excellent advice. I thought I would give my third, and hopefully final, teenage romance problem some exposure on here. Now that I am back on the dating scene after a two year br...

I don't think I can be just friends with her. Should I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

16 May 2010 (M) - I met this girl about 18-20 months ago when I started my new school to do my A-levels. I'm 18 years old, and so is she. About a month in, I decided to stand up and dance to Michael Jackson's Thriller in front of half the sixth form (like, 150 ...