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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Wait by the phone, or call him myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I am now in my 50s and recently was in contact with my first boyfriend back in my teens. He says he prefers not to look back/attend reunions and took 3 weeks to make contact. He asked me to marry him when we were both just under 18, I felt too y...

Struggling to get close to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I am in my early 20s, and I am a working professional. I went from one of the most social situations (college) to one of the least social ones. When I go out, I see interesting guys that I want to meet but I don't know how to make the icebrea...

What was he trying to say in this text?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - hello, i recently went on a date (first time) with a man who i met online, on the date he treated me very well, we got along great and he checked that i got home ok and also text the next day to say that he had a great time and would like to go out ...

She's so elusive! I want to communicate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - well I have been dating this girl for a year now. and i really do love her but we lost our communication skills with each other among other things too. my main issue is that she goes away for school and is so happy out there with her friends, and...

Our date's tomorrow and I don't know what's happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Alright, so I asked this girl out about a week ago and our date is coming up. We've been talking all week at school and through texting a lot. She really seemed like she liked me. Then, two days ago I texted her saying "hey". She didn't respond. ...

Confused about him playing with my hair and snogging

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Hello a quick question about a guy ive been sort of seeing OK yeah ive been sleeping with him, yeah in kindof falling for him But the one big question-- when i pick him up 2 give him lift home,we always end up snogging, with him playing...

Am I over reacting or is it normal for guys to just text you back when ever they feel like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Am i over reacting? or is this just generally how men/guys/lads are? i jsut dont understand i have a friend who appears to have feelings for me and i do him, i wont go into deatil but hes very shy and so am i, we havent had the best past and it...

Friend says the girl is just not worth my time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Hey y'all. I've got an important question. When I suspect the female I talk 2 now may have strong feelings for me and she tells me she doesn't knw if she wnts a relationship now. Well I'm fine with that 6ut when I have strong feelings as well n our ...

Is there hope for this relationship? If so, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I apologize for this long message, but I am looking for some insight and would appreciate your help. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We lived in he same city for 5 months and then I had to move away for school. We a...

I'm sooo in love with him and want to seduce him but he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - hey ^^ i've got more then one question actually: 1-there is this boy who asked for my msn and i gave it to him and then we kept talking and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused but it was ok we were still friends and everything was...

We've admitted we like each other. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - me and this lad have known eachother for years but recently we have been talking and we clicked imediantly. we get on really well and we both have told eachother that we like eachother but the thing is him and my sister are like best friends....

Should I ask out the guy I flirt with at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - There's a guy at my part-time job that I flirt with a lot. He flirts back (a tickle here or joke there). We swapped numbers after I asked him if he wanted to grab a bite to eat after work (we didn't get a chance to go out but he said yes). We ...

He says he needs to be with his friends but then texts me saying he's bored!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - every few weekends my boyfriend will go out clubbing/hang out with his friends and he will text me halfway through the night asking to see me and that he wants to hang with me. he tells me he needs to see his friends but why does he text me asking ...

He's lying, playing games and I don't want to play!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - i was seeing someone i really liked for about three weeks, i felt something was not right in relationship, i started to feel insecure, and he told me he had no job, rubbish car and said he was not ready for a relationship, we sorted this out and he ...

How do I get my girlfriend to start taking care of herself and looking better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - How do I get my girlfriend to start dressing better w/o me spending all my own money shopping for her? Also, she for some reason thinks it's ok to not paint her finger/toe nails or properly fix her hair anymore(she used to). How do I tell her these ...

How can I stop arguing with my boyfriend????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a year now, and we are always arguing all the time and i don't know what to do. he feels like i get mad at him for everything he does but i'm not doing it on purpose. he says me getting mad ...

I feel embaressed of my new date..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Hi everyone!! I have a question. I am a young looking 41 yrd old female who met a guy off an dating site last week. He was shorter than he stated in his profile, his teeth were more 'sticky outty' than in the photos, and he had this kind of ...

Six months ago she said she would wait for me, so how come she hung up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Hey everyone..I know this is a bit long..but plz read the WHOLE THING and help me out with this mess tht im in..:( Its been almost 6 months since i broke up with my gf!(she was my first and i wanted her to be my last too)we were together for 2 ye...

I am confused by my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - I am separated from my wife of 20 years, my marriage is over. My wife is seeing other men now. I have this female friend who has been my friend since grammar school. We meet for coffee dates once in a while. She still maintains an old friendship ...

How can I find out if he wants to commit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship...he says he loves me...he says he wants me...but i dont see he wants to commit him self...how can i find out if he really wants me ?...

I need to deal with my girlfriend's baggage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I am in my mid twenties and am in a relationship for about 4 months so far. Some history on my girl. My girlfriend is really pretty and treats me alright. However, she has many emotional issues, which affect our relationship. Firstly...

We moved too fast, but I want us to get back together again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - A few months ago I started seeing a guy who I have since really fallen for and would go as far as saying Im in love with him. Right at the start when we started going out he did say to me that he wasnt really looking for anything serious at that ...

I have never heard this about the pill before

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Question about my new girlfriend. We have just started seeing each other and I really like her, we have started getting intimate but she pulled away the other night and said we need to be careful because she has just come off the pill, when I asked ...

Can Love exist without trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Is it possible to love without trust,because my gf doesnt trust me but she says she love me,i dnt believe what she tells me.The reason she doesnt trust me is that am a naturally born social person of all class,if i may ask again could love exist ...

My boyfriend is being distant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Moderator's Note: Two questions from the same person have been combined. One minute my boyfriend was acting loving, affectionate and being really kind towards me as he has been for ages, now suddenly he is now distant? My boyfriend and I have been ...

I felt his birthday present to me was a bit tacky

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Iv been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and im questioning on how he really feels about me? When we email he does say he loves me but finds it a bit awkward to say !i love you" when we are together and i usually have to say it 1st.Thats not the ...

He says he doesn't want a relationship but still wants to kiss and all that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Well I sorta have a problem.... I really like this guy. And he says he is attracted to Me just does not want a relation ship right now. But he wants to act the same way he has been. Like kissin and all that with Me.... Idk what I should do.? Keep ...

How would I take this relationship further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - FIVE MONTHS BCK!!! I met this guy on a house party arranged by my best friend and that first meeting with him was quite a thing to remember for the rest of my life! He was extremely courteous and chivalrous to me n my girlfriend till he got d...

Into him and want him to know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I was a shy girl in highschool; i had my small group of friends and never dated (I always used to, and still do, assume I'm not most guys "type"). Up until i was 17, i'd never even kissed a guy! Needless to say, I'm no good at reading the "signs" ...

How to Kiss A Taller Guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - I'm still in high school and i have a new boyfriend. The problem is that he is 6feet tall and I'm 5'3. He hasn't had his first kiss yet and I can't reach him so I'm not sure how to get him to kiss me. :(...

Do you think he has met someone else and that is why he has not called?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Met a guy online about a month ago and we hit it off immediately. Had our first two dates in the same week and then went hiking on our third. During the hike he mentioned that he was going to his parents house after it for dinner so we couldn't do ...

I need advice for a first date.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - Got a question I got a question I'm going on my first date on may 29th basicly I'm going to take my date to a japenese steakhouse and see a movie possibly also to a amusment park and I get my contacts next week and will buy a hollister outfit ...

Two sides to this guy. Who should I believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - *OP's own title* I actually asked a question about the same guy about a week ago. But now, I'm singling out my main concern. Is he a womanizer? Yeah, yeah. I know, we've been through this. But not in great detail. I want/need to know before I fal...

Girl I liked just got dumped. What should I say to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

7 May 2010 (M) - *OP's own title* Ok, theres this girl i liked for almost 2 years. I didnt know who she was frshman year but now i do from this year since she was in one of my clsses. What i didnt know that during the summer she got a boyfriend. So they been goin...