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Dating: Help and advice

Can you really love those you once hated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have two questions. Are men attracted to women who have similiar personalities as they do? The other questions is I like this guy that I intially hated. Now I have a huge crush on him. Not sure how that happened but what I want to know is does ...

Am I wrong to date a reformed player?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have known this guy Steve for a few years, he is a friend of a friend. He was a total player,dating more girls then I can count and totally disrespecting them. A few months ago we were talking on facebook and we ended up staying up all night ta...

Have not had sex yet, invited to his house alone, what should I expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Yeah we are both in our early twenties and we only just made out (passionate) and some light touching. We've been seeing each other for a while and only just got physical. Now he's inviting me to his house no one there. Does he think we are...

My new boyfriend seriously ignores me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - For the past few days, my new boyfriend has been ignoring me, and not talking to me. Hes always with my friends and seems so much happier with them then me.... My friend who dated him said he was just shy, but this doesn't seem like shyness to me......

I am almost 15 and may be pregnant, what advice can you give me, totally confused??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - hello im 14 years old about to be 15 next week, and i think im pregnant i havent told anyone but my boyfriend and if i tell my parents they'd kill me,im just so scared and dont know what to do, i havent took a test yet but when i do and it comes out ...

Should we be together longer before we move in together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and in a months time hes looking for his own place and wants me to live with him, i stay at his at the weekend, and sometimes stay at his for 3-5 days at a time, and we get along fine, we've never ...

My boyfriend won't let me near his cellphone, is he cheating on me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My boy friend always locks his cell phone and always textin he dont let me answer his phone but i let him get my phone. i want to know is he cheatin on me....

We are back together, but it's really not feeling right, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - OK,so it's been two weeks since my ex and I started talking again, and wanting to work things out. He was the dumper, I the dumpee. I know it will take awhile for things to get back to how they once were, and I still have this uneasy feeling deep ...

Do I give up my dream for my girlfriend or my girlfriend for my dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, Since a young age I have wanted to move abroad. My rule of life is that the world is a large place and England is almost nothing on the globe, so go and explore!! I am 19 now and I know it will be years until I have the funds, ...

I'm afraid of getting close in case I get hurt again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - hello im a 17 year old girl and at my age i shouldnt be getting stressed out over boys but i am soo i need as much help as possible.... i finshed with my ex and we both moved on ....i seen him last week and he was drunk and he came up to my crying ...

What does "exclusive" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - so i've been seeing this guy for a minute now and i really like him. we act like a couple, he only dates me and me likewise with him. its all good! but when first asked about a month ago, he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. time has gone ...

Should I be content to be the mistress?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I am having an affair with a married man for 5 months now. He is older than me and has 3 children. I work with him for about an hour twice a day. We knew each other for over a year before anything happened. It started out as a bit of fun but ...

Caught between an ex and a rebound - help! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i have a bit of a situation, i was with my ex for 2 and a half years, we split up near the beginning of April, we had split up a couple of times before but this time i couldn't be dealing with it anymore so decided not to plead with him to come ...

Can't let go of the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 9 months now. He has been divorced for 2 years now but I feel he still has some feelings towards his ex. We have started arguing a lot lately and they all seem to be about the past! He blames me for still loving my ex ...

Do older men have different expectations in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I am 24, this man is 31. I've never dated someone older than 4 years and I am a little freaked out. I am used to being in control of the situation by dating guys around my age or younger. This new guy is good looking, has a job and seems like he is ...

Is my fiance cheating, or am I paranoid? Please Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I don't know how I can tell if my fiance is flirting and possibly seeing my best friend. He seems to be constantly tugging her hair or tickling her or something. When I talked to my best friend about him flirting with her she said she didn't think ...

We broke up, but she is still contacting me! How do I take these moves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I, or ex-girlfriend rather, broke up a week and a half ago. Actually she broke up with me due to unknown reasons. She just said she's not ready for a relationship this serious and needed time and distance to think. Well... n...

How do I deal with a boyfriend who has a problem with my weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hey, thank you in advance for any answers. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we were best friends for around a year before this. I've always wanted to be a bit slimmer and have been up and down with my weight and he knows this. I've...

How can I make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I have met a great girl who I care about she is 31 and I'm 29 she has 4 kids from another relationship I don't have any kids I would like to have a child but she doesn't want anymore children. I want this relationship to work but I don't know how it ...

Is she just playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I've strarted talking to this girl. We have been on a few dates ad at the end of the second she seemed to kiss me( I was going to make a move, but I kinda feel like ahe beat me to it). We talked about future hangout plans, she wants to drive or pay ...

Should I move out to be with my boyfriend and go against my parents wishes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I turn 18 in a few months, and I am in love with my boyfriend, i would do anything for him. My parents don't want me to see him so for about the past year we have been secretly seeing each other, but its getting harder and harder as my parents don't ...

Do men like it when you play with their hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I was wondering do (most) guys with longish hair like it when girls play with it or do they think it weird? I know its kinda a silly question but i don't just wanna be like "hey can i play with your hair" out of no where. Thanks....

His ex can't let go and its making me insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Ive been dating a man now for almost 7 months, we both have admitted to falling in love with one another...my problem is he was married before me for 10 yrs. and has been divorced for 3 yrs. already. Im having a hard time with a situation that keeps ...

He keeps saying love me but I do already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months now, and love each other deeply. The only thing that he confuses me with is this random saying he says."Love me..." I tell him i love him, but what is he expecting when he ask?...

She said "He dreams about me" and its true but I can't tell her that!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - Hi I'm a guy, 19 years, in the last six months have been in a class for adult education to improve my maths. In my class is a girl (21 years) who I think is really cute, nice and intelligent. Today when we were at the school to fetch some pap...

What should I do... I'm not the same person I used to be..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Okay im 16 for the record. So I met this guy Chris online in july. after meeting him, we totally fell for each other :) i'd do anything for him. so for the first time, he got me to send him underwear pics. and then eventually i also sent him a ...

How do I tell this man that I love him and would leave my life in a second for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Im a widow at 38 met a amazing man a year later,moved in together we never had that oh my god im in love feeling,and I feel like we both just settled,my friend died last year and Im very close to her husband and now as of 8 months ago we have been ...

What does he want by contacting me again?! He cheated on me and used me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - When we first met my instinct told me loud and clear that he was trouble but he was also very attractive and after hanging out a couple of times the sexual tension grew so strong that I couldn't help but giving in to the temptation. We started ...

Does this nice guy want me as a girlfriend or as 'friends with benefits'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Well about a year ago my best friend introduced me to this guy. We have gone out quite a few times nothing serious nor did anything ever happen. He is shy and an all around good guy, good job, doesn't drink or smoke. It is obvious that we are ...

Please help! My new sexual partner is keen but is having problems keeping it up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have been seeing this guy and we both talked about wanting to have sex. We discussed getting tested, past experiences, what we like etc. I told him that it seems like he is more experienced than I am and that he'll have to take charg...

I want my boyfriend off his online dating site, am I over-reacting here??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 6 months, my boyfriend lives with me and he tells me he loves me everyday. i thought our relationship was going great until, i got on the computer after him and saw he was on a dating sight connected to facebook. i ...

My very first date and kiss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy...we have both liked each other on and off since we were about six years old...But obviously it has gotten more serious now that were in high school. it has always seemed though that when he likes me he kinda gets shy so then ...

How do I regain his trust and interest in "us"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Well i have a problem, my ex broke up w/ me a few weeks ago he has a really bad perspective of me, he cant stand me. Until today he thought we might still have a future but now he doesn't believe that anymore. He tells me he wont ever change the ...

How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I'm in my first year at uni, and at one of the societies I got talking to a guy who's three years older than me. Since there are so many people I don't always get to talk to him, and when I do it's very very rarely just the two of us, but when I do ...

Did I mis-read the signals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Its silly, I've been married but I've never really been on a normal "date". I met my ex on the internet - our relationship was somewhat abusive and I was socially isolated for most our relationship so I tend to be socially behind my peers, and even ...

Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - So my ex and I broke up about 2 years ago, it was difficult at first, but we managed to maintain a pretty close friendship... But now things are a little different. The last few months, we have been hanging out alone a couple times a month, a...

I want that first kiss -- should I just go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been dating for a little over 3 months. He had been in a bad relationship before that and it really affected him. He tells me I'm not like her but you can see he was really hurt by her. We go to the same school (but we don't have ...

Attracted to my cousin, what do we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - im 20 years old and i have a cousin who is 21 and she's very attractive which i guess was the first thing i noticed about her and we weren't close at all, before all of this happened we had seen each other about 5 times in our whole life and we met ...

Nervous about 'the next step' because of past expereince

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - Hi. This is a bit of a weird one... I'll start from the beginning. I think things with my girlfriend are getting close to moving to the 'next stage' ie sex lol. BUT I don't think I can just yet, and probably not for a long time because I'm scared o...

He wants me in his life even though he has a g/f

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - i know this guy for over 2 years, we hangout everyday he introduced me to his friends i met his mom he met my mom and my sister. he tries hard to make me part of his life. he even told me he likes me but when it comes to actually being together he ...

I'm afraid that my father and his side of the family won't approve of the relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - some time ago i went to cuba to meet my family. there i meet a guy (his aunt is married to my uncle). we hit it off the second we meet. after that i went back to cuba a few times to see him and we have kept in touch. i have falling in love with him ...

Is having a few days of no contact helpful for the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - this isnt really a problem its just a curiosity that needs a little advice. a little back ground first... me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year and a half now and have been living together for the last seven months. over the...

I am gay, he is straight, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm gay. I've always known that so that isn't the issue. I've been having REALLY strong feelings for another guy, but he's straight. I don't know if it's love (I doubt it) but they're strong enough feelings to make me ...

Our values differ and I feel like a "test". Have I compromised and settled here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (M) - I've been with my BF for 6 months now. Our concept of sex differ quite greatly, I'm coming to realize. I've never had sex and have always thought that i'd give myself to someone whom i really love to. He, on the other hand, has been with 3 girls ...

I miss my ex, but there is a new guy in my life, should I give him a chance or clear things up with my ex first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Long story short, my ex-bf broke up with me almost 2 months ago. I miss him terribly. He wants to remain friends with me on skype and whenever he logs on and I am online tries to talk to me, but there are no other signs of him wanting me back (one ...

Is my relationship fading, or am I overthinking the situation? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - I'm so desperate, I really need help. I have been dating my bf off and on for about 2 years. Last year we decided to make it into a relationship. But this is my problem, I'm not sure if he still wants to be with me. When I ask him, he neve...

She texts the guys I meet and it is getting me down, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

25 May 2010 (F) - Hey, i have my friend and she always go for boys i like. I don't see why she is doing this. she flirts with everybody she sees, i get its a bit of fun but once i tell her I'm texting a boy shes like 'when am i going to meet him' and once she does ...