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Archived questions from: 29 May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Something always gets in the way of our meetings, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hello. Thanks for reading. Okay, so me and this girl have established that we like eachother, but when trying to meet up with her something gets in the way, and then she says how she wished we had met up. I think it has something to do with her l...

So unsure about how our date went? Your opinion please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if the first date went well. He acted kindof awkward and quiet...and when my father yelled at me for spilling coffee in his car, there was an awkward silence. We didn't hold hands, but we took pictures at the Apple store and both wen...

Do I pick the guy who I have the history with, or the guy who makes my heart skip a beat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i am torn between two guys. the first guy i have known him for 8 years, we have been friends with benefits on and off for about 6 years, i always felt like he was the love of my life. didn't matter who i was with i always ended back with him. but in ...

Birth control question!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I have been on birth control for about 4 months and after the first two months I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend a bunch. A condom is not used AT ALL. Do you think I should have less sex, sex with a condom all the time, or ...

Would you stick with your boyfriend if he was going to prison?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 20 - we have been together for 3 years. She is at college studying and lives at home with her parents but spends alot of time at my place. I have a bit of a criminal record and a year ago I got a suspended 2 year...

Am I just wasting his time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3years. And I love my boyfriend very much. We are at the age where people start talking about marriage and babies. We've been having this talk. I love him and can't imagine my life without him. But I don't know if I ...

She has stopped talking to me so much, has she gone off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for quite awhile now, and I really like her, but she's quit spending time with me at all. At first she wanted to see me everyday, and talked to me every minute we were apart. Now she tells me everyday she wants to see ...

Will I be able to find a woman if I follow my dream career?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Do people still meet potential partners after university? I'm 22 and the annoying thing is that I am confident now to talk to female strangers, particularly ones that I find attractive and used to find intimidating as most are the same in that the...

Language barrier!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - There's this guy I really like that is Mexican, and I am Vietnamese. This guy use to work with me and we've always been really close. My question is, he said he wants to be with me and I do too but, he only speaks full Spanish, and I only know a ...

Doesn't want a relationship but still likes me what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok for the past year me and a friend have been hanging out together at mine, theres always been flirting and a kiss. Recently its started to get more intimate. Now i told him a few weeks back that i liked him, and he said he didn't want a ...

Scars from cutting..will it put guys off?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i have a bad history of sexual abuse as well as physical abuse when i tried to prevent the sexual abuse from taking place.. because of this i started self-harming. ive cut myself pretty badly and deep and have really ugly scars from it on my arms ...

I don't know where I stand with my boyfriend, need your help to decipher this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I don't know where I stand with my boyfriend and would like your opinions. We have been seeing each other for a few months. He works hard but makes time for me. He calls and texts every day. He is gentle and caring and I can talk to him about ...

I really want to live in the family house! It's my lifelong dream.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - In some years to come I want to move out in the country to a house that has been in the family for generations. I grew up in the house surounded with a big family and relatives. They have houses just nearby or even a smaller house built into the ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my history of physical and sexual abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Should I tell my boyfriend about my history of physical and sexual abuse? I really love him and I know he loves me unconditionally and would do anything for me. Should I tell him or not?...

Has Facebook done it again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: I love my boyfriend and we have been together for almost two years and we have been living with each other the whole duration. My boyfriend has been acting weird and skiddish ever since he got on Facebook. He has married women on...

Trying to chose between him and my family! I want them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I belong to a family who does not approve of love relationship. My elder sister had love marriage and she and her husband always warn me not to follow their foot prints. She even said that if i fall into some relation then indirectly i am murdering ...

Boring boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i dont know what to do im torn between two men. my ex and my sons father, who stepped out of our lives for 5 months who is now back trying to get back together with me. or my current boyfriend who is great and would do anything for me but yet is ...

Does she deserve a second chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - There is a long history to this story, but I'll keep it as short as possible. If it's long, I'm sorry but this is really killing me. I have dated a girl for 15 years on and off...since 8th grade. We became very close and i knew she was the one ...

I want to be cool and trust him but I don't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy ...

Am I just paranoid? Or is he blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I met this guy a week ago and we totally hit it off via texts after we initially met. We clicked really well and he seemed to really like me so we planned a first official date, dinner and a movie. The date went well, I think, we had great ...

I want to know if there could still be an "us" but don't want to sound desperate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5245 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hey there, ok so there is this guy that i really like and we were kissing buddies and that wasnt good because i actually started liking him and i decided to tell him how i feel and when i did, he had told me that he liked me too. But there ...

I am scared and in love and don't know what to do :( Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Well, ok I have been dating this girl for about 5 1/2 months. And at first we were both a tad nervous so when we didn't do the little stiff it was ok, but now that is really starting to upset me. We started dating in December and first said I love ...

All kinds of boyfriend problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 3 posts combined: Okay So I use to spend every day with my boyfriend because we go to different schools so we don't see each other much. But it seems like now he only wants to hang every couple days. And it just makes me so mad that he ...

He has photos & letters of the woman he almost married..should I be upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have a problem, I started going out with this great man and I have known him for awhile before we started going out, so I know that he is an honest and hard working man. However, I am very insecure about things, my pervious relationships all ended ...

I'm beginning to consider walking away from the one man I've ever loved. Is this a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have a question about guys who get into their comfort zones. So I've been with the same guy for the past nine years. A typical Ross/Rachel type relationship - soulmates.. not always OFFICIALLY together.. but never really been apart.. you know...

He stresses me out 99 per cent of the time so why am I still in a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Lately, I've been feeling drained with my boyfriend of 5yrs.. mind you a very crazy relationship from physical abuse in the past.. he is always complaining about me like for instance he does stuff that i do not approve of and he wanted me to hang ...

Should I just let the liar fly???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I noticed he was acting strange. He stated that he had to have a meeting with his cousin for their new business in jersey. He tried to leave me to go to new jersey on my birthday... to have a "business ...

Help!!! How do you continue a romantic relationship with someone who is your blood relative?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year is my half-brother. Apparantly my father "got around" a lot more than I had thought. My bf and I have talked many times about our family and what attracted me to him was how much we have in ...

I feel like it's ending and I've fallen so hard for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I knew my current girlfriend in the beginning of this year, in February. She lives in the the countryside, in a city that i used to live and it's where my mum lives as well. So I go there almost every weekend or fortnightly.. after almost three ...

He is putting his friends before me and it's getting me down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 yrs and living together for 2(high school sweethearts). We are both 23. Lately all he ever wants to do is be with his friends playing ball,music,fishing or hanging out at the tennis courts. He doesn't come ...