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Dating: Help and advice

Why does my boyfriend hold my arm in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Why does my boyfriend hold my arm instead of holding my hand in public? I've been told that he's trying to "guide me", that he's being protective and guarding me. I'm still curious as to what this may mean when he does this. Thanks....

Having doubts about my LDR!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Dear reader ( i guess) any ways here's the thing i've known this guy since i was 17 thought the internet and we were friends for almots 5 yrs now( im 22 now) this year he conformed his love to me and i love him too but he lives far away so it's bas...

Should I get involved even though I'm going away to college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I've always thought high school relationships are a waste of time. I've always thought that senior guys and freshman girls getting together was wrong. Now, I met a girl who I really like and really likes me. We kissed for the first time recently. My ...

Will guys be interested in a girl like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I am indian ,a young girl artist who likes to draw things that makes everyone smile ,dance is my passion and i love cooking and i am considered beautiful among other indian girls but i am not that smart or intelligent that counts my low ...

Could I be reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I have a school ball coming up, and there's this boy that I really like. We were chatting the other day, and he asked who I was going with. I told him that me and my friends were going as a big group, and he said, 'ah, I would ask you but me and my ...

Why is my ex giving me such mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - okay so i dated someone 28 yrs for four yrs. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter arguments and ...

What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - He is turning 16 on June 7th and im still at a loss of ideas. We have been dating for almost 3 months, so i dont want to get him something too intimite, yet i dont want to get him something meaningless either. Hes an all-out country boy. He loves ...

We're becomming distant from each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) - Okay so I've been fighting with myself on an issue for months, and I just don't know what to do. I need some advice. So about a year ago I met a guy, lets call him Ben, and we connected almost instantly. We became really close, really fast, and we w...

How do I move past these thoughts of him and his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in the same group of friends since freshman year high school. We sorta drifted in and out over those years but were always in contact. He had a serious relationship for 2.5 years but they broke up. He's talked to a...

Will this "shyness" go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and just started dating my first boyfriend. I'm comfortable around him and we seem to get along great BUT he says i'm really quiet... specially around him. We've been dating for 2 weeks now, going on 3, and I think this could cause a problem. ...

Guys: how would you prefer a girl to tell you she likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) - I really want to approach a guy and tell him I like him, would any guys care to share the way they would like this done for them? What is your ideal setting for a girl to telly ou she likes you I get your all different but if I can get general...

Is this how a shy guy flirts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Two questions here: 1) would you consider a guy(someone thats not very forward with showing how they feel) putting :) at the end of texts suddenly a sign of flirting/ he likes you? 2)If you said to someone we might be going out one night if ...

Is he actually moving toward commitment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for just shy of two years in a long distance relationship. We see each other every weekend, go on frequent trips together, vacation with our children together etc. We live 500 miles away from each other now. Back in ...

She sees it as a one night stand, I thought we were going somewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Theres a Girl i like who ive gone pretty far with in the bed room but she only see it as a one night stand i thought that it was going some where and i dunno what to do if i just leave it or try and make it go some where . she say she likes me but ...

How do I deal with matchmaking friends who want to get me with my uncaring friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - A few days ago I texted my friend and told him something personal that happened to me. Thinking I would get support from him. Nothing, it seems like he never cares about me, or treats me like a friend so I texted him that I would never speak to him ...

Are these signals mixed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Me and my bf are both 16. We've been going out for 5 months. I'm confused about what he thinks about us 'doing stuff.' He's touched me everywhere but with the exception of a couple of times sticks to the outside of my pants when rubbing me 'down ...

Is this guy a player or what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - hello, its been a while now that iv been texting a guy who is 6 years older than me. when he first txt he wanted to know if im single. today i found out that he has a girlfriend and a baby boy. he always ask me out but iv refused till now. should i ...

She came back in my life...not sure if we should stay friends or just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Ok here is the situation; Ive been together with this girl for over a year, when she broke up with me. She had all kind of issues, like anorexia, etc. After the break up I decided to forget about her and move on, but now about 6 months later...

How do I ask him, who that blonde girl was in his car?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm in my 20s and not really had that much experience with guys and have slept with only 3 men. Anyway ive been on-off, seeing this guy who the other week said he sees me as a good friend. He's 10 years older then me. Anyways, we first...

How do I work through these trust issues I have, in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 10 months. She is 29, has a 2 yr old, I am 26, we now live together. She has somewhat of a past, I have had people tell me about things I really wouldn't want to hear. I have put that aside but lately I have been ...

My bf took me off his Top Friends list on Facebook!! Why would he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a top friend list on his face book for 15 people and i was in it. Today for some reason he took me out of it! We see each other everyday and he is so loving and kind. And when i got home from his house i noticed he replaced me with ...

I had a dream my bf cheated on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I had a dream my boyfriend cheated on me.? He had sex with some girl in a closet, then some where else too but he wouldn't confess that. Then he was telling me all of this like he didn't care, like this was nothing. I woke up with my heart poundin...

She cheated on her ex! Should I stay with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend and we are in a relationship since last six months. Her ex-boyfriend came to me and told me everything that existed between him and my girlfriend. They used to kiss a lot, even got physical but it was not proper. They were in a ...

In love with him and don't know how to contact him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - ok i,m not used to puttin these kinda things up so bear with me.... Hi i,m an 18 year old female from Ireland and I,m in love with a guy i fancied when i was 6 I fancied him for years and now we went to different school and now he's down the co...

A question for the players....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - This question is for someone who has been a player or is currently a player.If a player doesn't get sex from a girl or knows that he won't get sex from a girl,would he stay in contact with her.Should the girl be paranoid if he wants to stay in touch ...

What's up with him and what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I'm 13 he's 14. im VERY shy and he's just shy. we go to the same church and stuff. i liked him the first time i saw him (2 and 1/2 years ago) i dont talk to anyone in church much. mostly little kids and family. ...

How can I bring her former feelings for me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - the girl i love and i know she loved me back says she had strong feelings for me but she doesnt know what happend to them. what can i do to show her what she felt when she says its too soon for her to see me. how can i get her feelings back and why ...

How can I get her back, and find some new topics of conversation when we are on the phone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - im trying to get the girl i was seeing back. she says shes not ready for a serious relationship though. how do i change her views without being too pushy? and also when were on the phone we dont have much to talk about. can i get some ideas on how ...

He slept with someone during the time I needed space to think about my ex, what did this girl mean to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I went out with James about 5 times and we hit it off really well. I didn't sleep with him, just went on dates. My ex then contacted me and I was in a mess trying to figure out what to do. I broke it off with James because I wasn't sure how I felt. ...

How can I find out if he likes me when we live so far away from each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I really really like this guy A LOT, but he lives an hour and a half away from where I live. I got to see him and do an eyeball disection with him. We flirted a lot, and did a lot of fun stuff together, but I'm not sure if he likes me. What should i ...

All the good women are taken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I have been single for a while now and every once in a while I meet a fantastic woman. Now im not searching or anything, but Im not one to pass up opportunity. My standards are somewhat high I guess but since Im not wanting to rush into a r...

Boy trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Ok so i really like this guy at school and i got zapped on him (zap is where you write a name on someones hand and they cant look at the hand till a certain time or they have to ask the person out) and had a friend ask him out for me. (im not too ...

I love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I've been involved with a man I thought I new for 2yrs. He came along when it was a trying time in my life. We've had a lot of ups in down in our relationship to I always new he was up to something by playing the jeckle and hyde moods. Last week we ...

Did I loose my change at love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Ok, so ive been friends with this guy for 3 years. We attend the same college. My first semester at the college i met him, i liked him, but because he was 3 years older then me and a bit of a player, he told me that he'd make my life miserable if we ...

Ideas for a birthday without his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - help! I've been with my bf a year now and I'm totally bored with it. I know we both feel strongly inlove with eachother. Our physical life is good however I find our whole relationship boring. No matter what I do for him and how good I make him feel ...

How do I find out what I am to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - A week and a half ago, I met a guy, let's call him William. We hit it off and started talking. William asked for my number in the end. We have been texting almost everyday. We've been taking turns being the first one to text (although I don't know ...

How do you play hard to get in order to get a commitment?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hello Guys, I and my bf have been together for 9 months.. and during those times we had problems but in those time he was the one who always call me or telling me he wanna marry me or texting me.. then after 5 months everything start to change ...

Too young for this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now, and says he wants to give me a ring, engagement ring to be exact. I was thrilled when he said this, but as i laid in bed i thought. Im 17,almost 18, this is my first serious relationship. ...

I'm hot so how come I never get asked out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Im not ugly i swear everytime at school all the guys always say like DAMN when i pass by or LOTS of other things i never flirt with NOBODY though i dnt like to do tht cuz then they will call u hoe or somthin but the thing is that guys always check ...

Two great relationships, who to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Well, I'm in a little dilemma. About 10 months ago, I was dating this really, really, I mean REALLY nice guy. He was a great boyfriend, and our relationship was great. Thing is, by the time I met him, he had already signed up to go overseas and stud...

How can I stop getting rejected?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Im never gona find the girl i want. how to live life overcoming this? its like everytime i find a girl that i truly fall for either doesnt like me or i mess up for being to needy. everytime im rejected by a girl i feel like i was never in their l...