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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is 8 months long enough to wait to tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - So I have been with this guy I have been "seeing" since August, I am afraid I am catching alot of feelings for him, when I don't hear from him and don't see him I am cranky as all heck lol. I am afraid that I have these feelings while he may not ...

Should I keep chasing her or let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (M) - There is a girl at my job I like I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said yes I told her he was lucky cause I think she is pritty, I ask her if it was ok for me to call her she said yes then one day I ask her if could take her out to dinner and ...

Making him open up without criticizing him!

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3 May 2010 (F) - I met a guy about October last year and it started off quite casual. We started to see each other more and from January it has become more serious with us spending time together and classing ourselves as a couple. He's very inexperienced in ...

What to say to him when I see him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Soo,I was in the club 3 days ago and met this very handsome guy. He seems the playa-playa type (very good looking,best dressed,some girls were trying to talk to him) but he clearly made it seem that he was interested in me. When the girls came to ...

When will it be clear that he wants to see me again? I'm back into the dating arena after 8 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love some advice (esp. from any male readers) about first dates. I had my first date in 8 1/2 years on Saturday (split with my bf of 8 years 6 months ago, took a long time to feel better and get the confidence to date again). We talked for ...

Girls: what pet names do you like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

3 May 2010 (M) - So, I just started dating this girl and we've been texting a lot. I've called her "cute" a lot. I've called past girlfriends "beautiful" and I know they like that, but it feels like just using those two words isn't enough. I mean, it would get rep...

Could my ex-lover be dangerous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Ok...so I've written other posts regarding this situation. Long story short. I had a 9 month affair with a wealthy man. I'm married. My ex-lover knew that, but I didn't know that my ex-lover was married with children. I got pregnant and had a ...

Is equating love and sex causing me a hassle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I am looking for something that might help me-I am in a new relationship with a woman; I am her first girlfriend-and I am starting to feel frustrated with a perceived lack of sex, and with myself for being so pushy about wanting sex. My main p...

I still feel bonded to my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Please help it's torturous.? I cant help it but keep thinking of a relationship that's already impossible. I cant stop thinking of my ex. It's torturous. I cant help it but i feel so much for him i feel so bonded. i am tired of having this influenc...

Brother's friend has been using me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I was seeing a guy for over a year then 1day he told me hes got another gf and he loves her but i can still stay with him if i want but he cant give me what i want (commitment) i left him. he turned out to be my brothers Friend but i didnt know...

MSN conversation has left things sour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I'm feeling stressed at the moment, because me and my boyfriend have just had a bit of rough conversation on MSN. I really love him but I'm worried. He's way too good for me and usually we just joke about and I'm not the type of soppy person. But he ...

Why won't he call me his girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months. It's not normal dating....we are together 4 to 5 nights a week. He has met my family, I have met his, he has come to work functions with me, he is talking vacations in 5 months....yet he will not label me ...

He sees me in a bad light

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Last night my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me. Honestly, our relationship didn't start off on the best foot (he cheated on his ex girlfriend with me) I know, I know that's not good. He broke up with her right away though. All of a sudden ...

Is it normal to feel this happy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I'm 19 and I just had a general question. I have been good friends with my now current boyfriend for a few years. We have been dating for almost a month. I have never smiled so much in life, I feel like I'm glowing from the inside out and whenever I ...

Confused and hurt - why is he so different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Hey all. I have his boyfriend with whom I've been dating for 6 weeks, and have been exclusive with for 2. However, ever since we've been exclusive, he's been stressed out with school (it's his Senior year of college, I'm a Freshman), which I ...

What do you think about age difference relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm going to try and make this question as short as possible. I work with a lad [I'm a student with a part time job] and have started to develop feelings for him. We have been texting a lot recently, usually just before bed. In t...

What can I say to his mom to get her to let me talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - i met this amazing guy who i fell in love with very quickly we spent every day together just about for 2 months he left his g/f a week after we became friends we decided to be exclusive a couple days before he went out of state for his cusins b day ...

He said if he's not enough for me, he'd try viagra...what exactly does this pill do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Hi.. Any words of advice is welcome on this one, I really don't understand why I'm so confused or even hurt by this. Okay, a few times my bf and I have spoken about if his penis was longer or even thicker would I enjoy it more, I have told him lots ...

Met him on Facebook and fell in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I think am falling in love with this other guy I met on facebook. i love him so much but i have a boyfriend who really loves me.am so confused and dont know what to do.i need help...

I'm 18 and like a 14 year old!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I am 18 and I think I am starting to like a guy who is 4 years younger than me. I know it is wrong, but I don't know what to do about it. Please help me...

Will dating him, ruin our good friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I have feelings for one of my best guy mates and recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i really like him and want to go out with him but im scared that if it goes wrong it might ruin our friendship. what should I do?...

I have dreams of kissing girls, so am I bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - For anyone out there who is gay/ lesbian/ bisexual, how did you first know, I think I am bi, I've crushed on and dated quite a few guys but, although I have never had a crush on a girl, I do have thoughts about kissing them, and on occasion have had ...

We're not really dating but he interested. How do I break this off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - How do you break it off with someone you're not technically with? My and this guy aren't dating but liked each other and for the past 3weeks we've been meeting it his house and making out lots and cuddled up on his bed, but when I'm with him I keep ...

He really wanted my number but now he hasn't called!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Guys i realy need your help.I meet this guy last month and he seemed intrested in me. Well we didnt exchange number because i acted like im in a hurry, i realy didnt want 2sim desparet and all. He seems shy he didnt realy say much, he just asked me ...

I'm bi, thought he was gay but he likes girls too! Do I tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Hey :D Ok, I'm a bi-sexual girl, who broke up with her long time girlfriend about 7 months ago. I met this guy about 3 months later. I started developing feelings for him; he was the first person I'd had feelings for since my exe. However, this guy ...

Is he lying about his financial situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - please can anyone explain this-i feel like im going insane i work with this guy who ive developed feelings for. hes unaware but likes me a lot and we do get on really well. hes had a lot of stuff going on-his marriage ended last year and he hasnt ha...

Is she going overboard with the privacy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (M) - Why does my girlfriend countinue to talk shit to me when i get into her personal business when she is on her phone online and she ignores me when i ask her questions bout what she does or who she with?...

Do I go over to Thailand to be with her? It sounds horrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is from thailand. because of an exchange students organization she was in belgium for 1 year. there are 2 months left now, we've been a couple for 6 months and i can surely say we have strong love. i talked to her abt it and she said '...

How do I explain to a woman that I don't want to have kids?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (M) - I had a vasectomy years ago, and to be honest, I'm quite happy with the decision. I definetely don't want to have kids EVER. But how do I explain this to a woman if I ever find one. Will she hate me? Will she immediately leave? How should I...

He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...

What can I do? I think my boyfriend is dying!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Ok. Well im seventeen and like most teenagers, i have a myspace. Well i met this boy and we began talking a whole lot. We got closer and closer each and every day. I really began to like him. He like acorss the country from me though but we were ...

What do her comments mean?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

3 May 2010 (M) - This lady is a classmate of mine and i have known her for almost a month and a half. We came to know each other through a competition where we both were in the same team. From that day, apart from meeting everyday in college during college hours, w...

Am I "Undateable" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and a girl. Kind of small (5'1), blonde hair, blue eyes and i think i'm ok to talk to but i haven't had a properly dated a guy for 2 years and i'm starting to feel a bit lonely =/ I dont know weither its to do with my skin (i have a bit of ...

I'm pretty sure he's still seeing someone else but he denies it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - Ok so I have been kind of seeing this guy for a while. We've been really good friends for a while now, and recently it's developed into more. We've kissed and stuff but that's all, he's asked me on a date but we've not been on it yet. I just want ...

Men: Would you have treated a woman like this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - I when out with this guy from work with his friends. We when to a couple of bars and a sushi place. We really hit it off. He bought me drinks that night. He stayed the night over at my place. We did not have sex but pretty close. The next ...

Testing the waters...is it wrong to want to do so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - So heres the situation, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. He's the only serious and sexually relationship i've been in. I'll admitt he is a bit controlling and won't let me do much. And we've been dating since I was 15-16. Ever since ...

Confused on whether a guy likes me or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 May 2010 (F) - There's a guy i got to know during a certain program at my school,which lasted for 3weeks.We're both in our final year of the same college.During this period,i got to know the guy better and even noticed that he's kinda cute.Well,we've been talking ...