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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I give boyfriend the green light to do more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 16 and so am I. A while ago we were making out and he slipped his hands into my pants, I later said we should slow it down for a while. How do I now show him it's ok? And is this likely to lead to fingering?...

Great connection one day, the next she barely acknowledges me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - So I'm interested in a girl in a few of my classes. I began by just talking friendly with her, asking her for homework help, ect, and getting her used to me, as we are both shy people. It worked out well. We sparked a conversation after about a week ...

How can I show my love without saying it outloud?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - What are some ways to show my love and care for him without actually saying the words out loud, because I'm nervous and a little bit scared to say them? We have been friends for a year, and until 3 months ago, started to flirt and hang out more...

How can I seem less intimidating to my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old and never been on asked out, gone a date, had my first kiss, or anything of the sort. I have a lot of friends, basically equal amounts of guys and girls, and consider myself a people-person. Several of my friends have told me that ...

This isn't love when he treats me like crap...what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I`ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he treats me like shit. Sometimes i really dont believe he cares for me. I moved in with him about 2 years ago and he has bad anger management problems so we keep getting into fights over stupid things. He ...

How do I tell a family member, she's worn out her welcome and she's the reason my bf is unhappy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - How do i go about keeping my boyfriend happy in our relationship and not alienated by my family with a live in sister in law who doesn't know when to go home or know when her welcome mat is worn out. how do i tell her that she is the reason that he ...

I love her but I do all the pursuing! Is she just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - Hi Dear friends. I am going through a rough patch in my life at this time. I am married and seperated recently but still my wife has not accepted my papers so practically we are still married, we live seperate though. I met this girl in my gym ...

He likes me a lot, but wants no gf! Should I continue seeing him to 'make out' or let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Hey (: so... there's this boy i really like. And he says he really likes me too.... but there's alot of problems. Firstly, he doesn't want a girlfriend. he invited me around to his house the other day, just as friends... and we ended up kissi...

Torn between my bf and my family! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - So I dated this guy C on and off for around 4 years..We met when I was 21 and he was 22(was about to turn 23 in December of that year) at the same community college while taking Pre-Calculus.We went on to date,graduate with our Associate Degrees ...

A co-worker sent obscene texts to my man! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5311 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - What should I do if I find obscene texts sent to my man and him replying to them from a coworker?...

Am I too skinny to have boyfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Hi! I am a 15 years old girl and i have shame of my body because i am so skinny/thin and i think i am ugly (some guys say that i am beautiful but i dont believe i dont know if they are telling the truth) and i think that guys will not like me becau...

He has a gf but I can't help liking him a lot! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I really like this guy, but i'm not sure what he thinks of me. He's an actor/musician. He isn't a famous one though. I saw him in a show once with my friend, and he said we could have a drink with him after the show, and he sat on his own with us ...

My gf doesn't want a lot of contact with me and ignores me! What's her game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - I'm in a relationship which is a year and six month,recently everything seems to be coming to an end.My girl friend is acting so strange,she wouldn't come to see me the way she always do.Whenever i call her to come,she would promise,but will not ...

How can I stop his constant arguing and my apologizing to him when it's not my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Im 19, in university and having a hard time in life. Been with my boyfriend for 7 months, he's 20 and hard work on times. Hes gorgeous, caring, treats me like a princess. Only problem is he's like a girl, and if we have a bicker or an arguement ...

Needs ideas on how to get this guy to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Any way so I'm really close to my best friend. He's really sweet and charming. He lets me wear his jacket, we hug a lot and we even hold hands. The thing is I think I'm in love with him and I know that he used to like me in that way and I think ...

Do you think he should break up with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Ok, first of all, I don't want any silly comments like: "you're an idiot, he should dump you, dumb b*tch." I already know. Anyways, so I went to Mexico without my boyfriend (we have been dating for a year and a half) and one night I got really ...

I'm 17 and seeing a 15 year old girl, is this wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - I'm so confused right now, I've been hanging out with this girl for the last few weeks and we got on really well, then we admitted we have feelings for eachother and so I asked her to be my girlfriend yesterday, she said yes which I was overjoyed ...

It seems he wants this girl who he knows is engaged, but everyone was sure he liked me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Hi im really confused. The guy i like is generally a bit shy round me. Well when i say shy, people have said he is. We dont talk much however sometimes he will just talk to me normally othertimes he wont. For example if we go out with friends he ...

Can I receive pictures of my boyfriend even if I don't have a camera phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Hey my boyfriend wants to send me pics of him, cause we havnt been able to see each other in awhile. Well i dont have a camera phone can i still get them? Also i have T-mobile if that can help lol. Thanks for your time!...

How can I let him down gently and keep our friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - i've been told i'm a bit of a flirt aat times and although at times i can control it, sometimes it becomes something i sub-consciously do. It's affected the way i make friends, talking in general, male friends. When i was younger i was a major ...

How do I choose between these two guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I've been causally dated 2 guys but its grown to a time where I must choose one of them. The problem is I can't decide who. On the one hand I have this totally sweet guy who shares a lot of the same interests as me and we have very similar mor...

Stuck between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Right... Well I broke up with my boyfriend months ago and I'm much happier. I've met this lad online who i've now started texting he seems perfect: He's sweet, funny, Gorgeous, Lives Close and He's the real deal. But he likes to talk dirty alot. Th...

Is he for real or just playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - About 4 months ago a me and a guy that i have been friends with my whole life started talking, txting and an occasion would see each other. It was agreed that we didn't want anything serious that we were just friends. two weeks ago he starts ...

How do I find what I'm looking for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - Hello everyone. My question is how do I find who I'm looking for. As in a girlfriend I care about and who cares about me. At least I think that's what I'm asking. Here is my story. I'm 16 and I hated middle school. I was very nerd looking ...

How can I make him text me and hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - okay so i was talking to this guy for about 3 months then he told me we should just be friends. after that he would still kiss me, hang out with me, and all that good stuff. The thing is though, he's been trying to get back with his ex even though ...

Is this guy a creep I should avoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - A few years ago, I started working for a local buisness. I immediately fell in love with the job. The people I work with are so fun to be around and I enjoy going to work everyday. I'm 19 years old. There is an older 25 year old guy who also works ...

Do guys want more when they go out of their way to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Would a guy really go out of his way to be friends with a girl and really just want to be friends and nothing more? ...

Do I owe it to myself to put my feelings out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - There's this guy I have been friends with for some time now. He is very sweet to me and I have recently realized I have feelings for him. I do not know for certain if these feelings are mutual, but he does express genuine affection towards me, ...

Will I regret moving for more opportunity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - I always thought I'd go to college, move to a city, establish myself, go to graduate school, meet somebody along the way, and eventually we'd move to a suburb together and settle down. But I moved in with my parent (due to the economy) in a su...

Do all relationships start with fire and sparks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Do all relationships start with fire and sparks? I went out with a guy that I find very attractive. He treats me with respect and has a lot of the qualities that I am looking for in a partner. We have gone out a few times and the conversation flows ...

Why do girls go back to the guys who dumped them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (M) - This really is just a question having to do with a previous problem. But ill tell as much as i think i need to in order to fill you in. But ill try to keep it short. Well anyways theres is this girl I liked for awhile, i am not so close of a friend ...

How do you chat up a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - hi this guy has been giving me attention lately. he says hi and calls my name but never actually talks to me. he isnt like this with other girls so what does this mean? i know this is embarrising at my age to be asking but how do you chat up a guy?...

He's acting hot and cold so what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - So this boy sent this message to me after I wrote him a message saying that I can't deal with his hot n' cold behavior. We were already kind of separated because he did some dumb things. For example he gave me my first kiss and then ignored for a ...

If I'm not sure she's gay, should I still ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Okay, a girl I was certain I really loved had to move far away. This was back in August and I had been having trouble moving on, but now I feel I can try dating again. There's now this girl at school that I'd like to ask out, but I don't know how to ...