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writes:I have a friend who I have strong feelings for. I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but that we both weren't ready. I said I needed some time away from her. A month later she contacted me and started talking about things like normal and talking about all these guys she's dating and having sex with. I play it cool and act unfazed. Why is she doing this to me? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2010):
She's either really wanting you to run around and fight for her a bit, or she's hoping you have got over her. Unfortunately, her actions are a little too cryptic. I think it's more likely she's hoping you've got over her to be honest, but the only thing you can do is tell her that her talking about her dates and such are making you feel a bit uncomfortable. Hopefully she'll understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): She does it because you act cool and pretend it doesnt faze you, so she thinks its ok to talk like that. Tell her you wanted to date her but she wasnt ready, so youve had to accept that. But you really dont want to hear about the guys shes going with becuase it gets to you. She may be doing it to test the water, see if you get jealous. Not a nice game but some play it. Just ask her if shes thought anymore about you and her x
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