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If she tests me like this, is it a sign she's not the best match for me?

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Question - (29 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2010)
A male Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Before a relationship starts, sometimes a girl will test me by giving me a negative vibe, like she doesn't like me (even though she does). Is this a sign that she isn't the best match for me? I mean, if she were really into me, why would she risk doing this?

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (30 January 2010):

Any woman that play the 'I was testing you' card isn't worth wasting your time with... DUMP HER... she'll be huge trouble later... ask around...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010):

I don't think so. Great relationships are the result of so many other things than the meaningless "games" played beforehand, when both parties are still trying to grasp how much interest there is from each person...

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A female reader, happy24birthday United States +, writes (30 January 2010):

happy24birthday agony auntIt's not a sign that she's not right for you; it's a sign that she wants you to chase her. Girls do this to command your attention. We love attention and want you to give it to us without us having to beg for it.

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