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We had a casual fling, he wanted more, I didn't. Now I want more but he has someone else

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Question - (29 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had a casual relationship with someone but he said he wanted a girlfriend which i wasnt ready for i hoped he would wait for me.He then started seeing other women and we argued.We havnt seen each other since, but i cant stop thinking about him,i want to see him,i feel like hurting myself i want things to go back to how they were so much,im crying all the time,i feel emotional at work,i hardly ever feel hungry and i used to love my food,i dont have any motivation to do anything anymore,im even writing poetry about him,i feel as though a part of me has died.

I think i love him? What do you think?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2010):

I think this is more of a case of you wanting what you can't have. His attention has gone elsewhere, and you miss it. It's not that you love him. Give yourself time, and move on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

You either love him (although you will probably be sure if it is actually love) or have strong feelings for him. Considering that he seems to have moved on you need to accept that and move on. Don't hurt yourself.

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