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writes: Hello Men,I am here working through my own challenges with a man. I question his love for me. I want to be informed before I proceed or reject the man I'm with. For those of you whom have fully loved a woman, or do now, please enter your bullet points of what men do to show they are entirely committed to a woman. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Hello Woman
Hmmm there isnt a hard and fast solution to your question.
I wish there was a simple way to weed out the selfish mena and women so we can get to the real relationships.
There is a few things to look out for though
1. Do you have alot of sex?
1a. Do you really do anything else together besides sex?
2. have you met his family/friends yet? Has he met yours?
3. Do you socialise with him in his/you group?
Even if you do spend alot of time together and really enjoy his company that sadly doesnt seal the deal.
My real advice is to tell him that wahat you really want is a serous commited relationship, that may lead to the big m (assuming thats where your heding with this)
All the best :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2010):
I actually just said to my girlfriend that I would like an exclusive relationship, and she said yes. But a guy who's really into you will make it known through his actions. He'll be there, he'll answer calls and texts, he'll ask you on a lot of dates without pressurizing you for sex, he'll be there when you want to go out on a date. Basically, every spare second he has he'll more or less be wanting to spend it with you. If there is a guy you want to commit to, then it's best to just ask him. That way you don't get any conflicting feelings or views.
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