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writes:my boyfriends mates have let on to me that my boyfriend is going to propose to me on valentines day after weeks of planning. but i don't want to make the commitment. Not because i don't love him, but i just dont want to. How can i let him down after all his planning? or should i come straight out with it that i already know and that its not what i want? plz help x x x cheers (Y) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys x
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (30 January 2010):
There is a chance that you might be the victim of an early April Fool's prank from a bunch of 15 year old boys with nothing better to do. I remember seeing tricks like this centuries ago. Just brush it off. Anyway, a proposal doesn't mean you have to get married tomorrow. I have heard of 10 year engagements. If he really does propose I hope he is not doing it to get you to agree to sleep with him. Either way, to buy yourself some time, just say you would like to see if you are together 3 years from now then you will say yes then. If he truly is in love he will wait until you are 18.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): Just remind him that you are less than 15 and he could go to jail.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 January 2010):
 You present as aged 13-15 and from the UK... You cannot get engaged under 16 without your parents permission. You are far too young for that kind of commitment. If he proposes, then tell him, you can't accept until you nave spoken to your parents. Then come back and tell him that your parents said NO! Your not too young to date, but your much too young to be thinking about engagements, marriage or sex.
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