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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I recently moved out of my boyfriends house (we lived toget about 5 months) and decided to stay together after a week's break. Before we used to talk about a future together and that doesn't seem to be happening anymore. Since I moved out, it's like he's reverted back into being a kid..always on facebook, has release dates of video games memorized, starting to build game models. And we hardly see eachother anymore, maybe twice or three times a week. We've been dating about 3 years and he told me he was being pressured into marrying me (I never brought up marriage, he always did) from everyone. I feel like he'll never be ready to make aserious commitment to me without getting scared away. Don't actions say more than words? Please advise.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2010):
Yes, actions to say more than words. And his actions say that at the moment, he's just not ready for commitment. So you nee to make a decision. Are you willing to wait around for him, or would you be better moving on.
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