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Archived questions from: 10 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I cant decide which boy to date, but I love them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I like two guys and I am going to describe them to you, and yes, their names have been changed. Thank you for taking the time to read this. DJ 1. He is so funny, and always makes me laugh. 2. He asked me out. 3. He loves rap, and hip hop just l...

Met him online 6 weeks ago, he wanted to take it slow, didn't know what he wanted and I ended it because I couldnt be just friends. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Dear all, I met this guy online six weeks ago and it went well. We dated but only once a week. We'd call almost every day or every other day. Every time I am at his house we kiss and hug and touch each other but did not have sex. He never...

He says I never cook for him, but he is never around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have a 6 year old girl for a lovely guy who I spent some of my holiday in the Caribbean with. I made a big effort to be there while he was there as I heard he was going although he did not tell me and that hurt. We spent some great time toget...

He went away for a month and now we hardly talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hi Readers, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, before we got together we were best friends. At the beginning of our relationship, we spoke often, he called often, we saw each other often, communication wa...

He says we don't have a future together, but he won't let me go

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Dear Friends[would really want guys to answer this] I have a situation here. I am dating [3 months now]this guy of arabic origin. He is 25 and we met on facebook. I am a 27 yr old indian girl. Things happened slowly in the beginning. It all s...

Why didn't he open up to me when I opened up to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Ok so I was in a relationship for 3 years with this guy who would always cheat and I would always forgive him. Finally I had enough when we moved to another state. I started seeing this guy(Guy1)behind his back so we broke up. This guy turned out to ...

My friend keeps hitting on my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - ive been going out with this boy 4 atleast a month now and my mate has a boyfriend in a diffrent school and she just flirts with my boyfriend alot and me and my b.f talk on msn and he says he doesnt like her shes a dog and stuff but it really p...

Do you think theres a huge diffrence in age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I Have a Problem . I really like this guy , But he is a year younger than me and also the younger brother of one of my very old friends i havnt seen in awhile . I know he wants to mke us offical but im not sure , even though it seems almost TO ...

Should I believe him? or still worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 16 months i'm 18 and He's almost 20, hes just a jerk now. He acts like my dad... literlly. hes exteremely sexual and I am too but not as bad as he is.. I dont love him like i used too he ...

I've fallen hard, but can't understand the signs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hey i really need some help. Im a 17 year old girl, and i would consider myself quite attractive. I was with my boyfriend for 1year and a half, but things turned rather sour, i stuck it out, until i fell for someone else, he didnt even no i existe...

Should I just settle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I am 29 and have never been married. I have been involved in a couple of serious relationships, but have never lived with any of my boyfriends. I don't put up with a lot of games or garbage and some call me too picky. I have a full social life and...

My boyfriend does'nt find the time to spend with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I need a solution to a reoccurring problem with my boyfriend. Often when I have free time, I will go over to his place and spend time with him. I will get there and he is often multi-tasking. He is a single father so I understand when he has to ...

Why is he angry? he broke up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I slept with my ex boyfriends friend. Me and my ex boyfriend split up four months ago it was his decision to end it and I was crushed by his decision. During the four months in which we weren't together me and a friend of his who I had met wh...

I can't commit whats wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Ok then . . . I'm 26 (almost 27) and I CANNOT COMMIT. Seriously, when I think about it, I freak. Well, I don't but whenever a relationship gets too serious I just bolt. Completely. I'm out the door like a gunshot. All the bf's I've had are really q...

Should I be concerned about our age or the length of our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been going out for about 5 months and he said he was ready to have sex (we're both 18). should i be concerned about our age or the length of our relationship?...

He said he owns me and I'm his property?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has told me that I'm his and stuff before but the other day we were driving and he said in his famous 'joking yet serious tone' "you're mine...your My property and i own you your stuck with me" he said some other stuff pertaining to ...

He cheated..She told me..He's trying to be a better bf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Now I posted this once with a few replies, however a few questions are on my mind that I need advice on... here's the story once again, I'll ask my questions at the end. Story: I met my boyfriend online a few years ago, but we didn't fall for ...

Should I even talk to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - (Sorry this is REALLY long!) Last November I was in a play at my previous college (it was a 2 year and I graduated and moved on), during the play my friend (Carrie) and I met a guy named Brian. Well him and my friend got close and started dating; ...

We had lunch together, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Last week after class I had lunch with this cute guy Dave. We talked about school, sports and home. He told me how he went to his dad's friend's wedding. It was held in a hospital because he was so ill. He was very polite. He asked me if I minded if ...

He has been separated from his wife for 20 years, but still is unsure about divorce.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I'm dating my polar opposite. He's swedish, I'm american, he's 62, I'm 30, he's an engineer and I'm an artist that can't seem to hold a job. He's been married for going on 40 years which isn't quite as bad as it sounds as they've been seperated for ...

He is ignoring my phonecalls, is our relationship over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over two years now. Several times during the relationship - 6 to be exact, he wouldn't take my phonecalls nor answer my texts. I would call and ask him to return my phonecalls, but he never would ...

How do I talk to a guy I fance but have only just met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I've just started college and I really like this guy only after knowing him a few days. I've managed to have a few conversations with him, we like the same music. But there are a lot of awkward silences when we sit next to each other in class, im ...

I like him and want to ask him out but I'm afraid he'll say no!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I need help... There is this boy at school that I really like, but I don't want to ask him out for the fear that he will say no. I have known him for some time now, but he was frequently off school; so we didn't speak that often. Now we are in ...

He seemed to like me, told his friends about me but we never met up and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I dont quite understand what went on here. There was bascially a guy that seemed to like me, i was shy and wasnt ure how to respond and then when stuf started to become ALOT more ovious that he like me and the prolems started with other people as ...

She just keeps hooking up with her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I've been seeing the girl of my dreams off and on for about 2 months now. She was suddenly dumped by her ex about 6 months ago who she had dated for about 2 years. Everyone I know say he is a absolute jerk and hated that she was dating him, but ...

My boyfriend has moved back to France and I'm distraught without him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - i was with a french man for 8 months. we worked together, and lived in at our job. he had a stressful time here, but stayed because he wanted to be with me. one day, he handed in his notice, tellin me he couldnt work here any more, and as a result ...

We hooked up after a wedding - should I suggest we meet for a drink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - A month ago I went to a wedding and met a guy there. After the wedding reception was over we wound up drinking and talking for 5 hours and then hooked up (everything short of full sex, as neither of us had condoms with us). We live in different ...

What can I do to make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - i've like the guy i'm dating for months and just over a month ago we finally got together. everything was going really well till recently he cancels on me without really letting me know. i'll bring up the date we're meant to be meeting and he goes ...

I want him back, but don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Me and my partner of 2 years split 2 days ago, and i am heartbroken! i have always had trust issues to do with my past and stuff, but he gave me the fuel to make me think that something was going on behine my back when it wasnt. We are still living ...

Is it wrong to stay with someone that I'm not sure I could ever love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - This is the second time I've posted in so many weeks, the last time I was given really good advice so thought I would ask you all about a problem that's been playing on my mind for some weeks now. Basically I've been with Sam for 7/8 months... at...

He keeps talking about his ex all the time and it's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I am dating a wonderful man than I just met a couple of month ago. Everything is great except for the fact that he wants to talk about an ex-girlfriend with whom he broke up about ten years ago. He claims to have been in love with this woman. ...

Please help! How do I move on or should I go back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I broke up with the father of my child almost 2 years ago and since that time I have been in a new relationship with a man that I care for deeply. The problem is that I don't feel like I have stopped loving my ex. We were together for 13 years and ...

My situation is a little confusing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - My situation is a little confusing. I met this guy 4 months ago. We like each other a lot. There is a serious possibility of a long term relationship, but no verbal commitment till date. He seems to genuinely care for me and I do too. But, I ...

Help, why hasn't she talked to me at all in a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a while now and I love her. She has told me she loves me too, and we have just been doing so great together. She got out of a tough relationship and has been worried about taking it to the next step. We talk on ...

My boyfriend will stare at my face for at least 30 minutes! Why is he doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Somebody please help me, right now i am so stuck and i dont know what to do. I have this boyfriend of mine whom we have been together for at least four months now. My inner voice is telling me that he loves me and cares about me. Everybody know...

She knows I'm attracted to her and invited me to her house, does she want to hook up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - girl who knows i'm attracted to her invited me over to her house while her parents are out of town. Does this mean she wants to hook up? we usually just hang out at bars, we slept in the same bed once at a party but just spooned....

Her friends are bad news and she won't give them up

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for two months now and I have issues with some of her friends. My girlfriend used to smoke weed every day and she admitted she used to date a drug dealer. This is a big issue with me that didnt come out until recently. ...

Is his sex drive normal for a guy who's 20?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in need of a bit of advise and clarification if its needed. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 7 months and we have great sex. However he is hardly ever in the mood so we rarely have it and least once every 2 or 3 weeks. I'...

I don't know how to explain my love in a way that will get to him

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10 September 2009 (F) - I am dangerously in love with this guy. We been on and off for the past year. And he thinks im cheating all the time. When he's known as the player. And he asks me sometimes how much i love him. I say i can't explain. Words will never explain my ...

I'm used to having barriers, and afraid that the next guy won't like me when I let the barrier down

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - 3 weeks ago i ended things with a guy (guy a)i was seeing (not exclusively)for almost 5 months, he basically lost interest, i had no choice, i didnt want to be strung along, he hasnt spoken to me since. Now, I had just started to really like guy b ...

I love my LDR, but I dreamt about another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I´m in love with this guy with whom I´m having a long distance relationship for almost three years ago. He´s USAF but we are constantly in contact no matter if he´s deployed, etc. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH! But, recently I´ve been hanging out with...

Seems like a mutual attraction, but I'm moving away in a few days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - been in my current job about a year, liked one of my work mates since i started (lets call him Mark), hes so funny we have lots in commen and hes really hot! but i thought i had no chance with him, i dated another guy for a while but now single. s...

Broke up with my girlfriend, and want to ask her sister out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend just broke up with me and I'm almost over her now. I've kind of takin' a liking to her sister. She is 15 going on 16 and I'm 16 and will be 17 next april. I think I know alot when it comes to these kinds of things, I know I can't ...

How can I bring her out of her shell...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (M) - I am 30, my girlfriend is 20, and sex is really boring. We are close, and cuddly, and communicate great with each other, but I feel our psychological approach to sex is incompatible. We've been together a year. I want to flirt, touch each other...

How to prevent pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship and we have had our first baby together. I'm on the pill but I still don't want to get pregnant again. My partner doesn't enjoy sex with a condom so what other ways can prevent pregnancy??...

I love my boyfriend a lot but I don't think I'm in love with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together but for the past two years we have drifted apart we live together and constantly bicker and fight with each other when we are together. I like going out with my ...

Don't know if it was rape.. it was my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and have had sex before.. a few nights ago we were alone at his house and he was drinking. I was sober, and we were in bed. This is so nerve racking and embarrassing to say.. We were ...

Should I tell him I was looking through his cell phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

10 September 2009 (F) - Last night I borrowed mt boyfriends cell phone to text my children because mine was dead and I did not have a charger. His phone displayed several conversations that he has had with several people and one caught my eye. My curiosity got the best ...