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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Bury 6 ft under or go another 6 years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. This past year has been long distance (2 states over). I feel like he does not care about our relationship. He calls once a day normally when he's off work and about to head home so those conversations last ...

50/50 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 weeks. we're both a little quirky and get along so well. we're best friends, and we love eachother so much. well at least that is what i thought. we made a mistake but it was on both of our parts ...

What does she mean by slow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend told me she wanted to take things slow and I wanted a few opinions from other women on what that means. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two months and we haven't done anything sexually intimate other than kissing and making ...

Why does it matter who I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - i'm going out with a lad not my usual type , i like him because he doesn't mither me like previous boyfriends do and my guy mates do. my mum said he looked immature based on his clothes , that by wearing hoodies means he is emotionlly immature then...

Should I say yes to date this boy ?

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8 September 2009 (?) - I really fancy this boy and he likes me. The problem is one of my friends fancies him too. I have only known this friend for 6 weeks and she isn't one of my best friends. She told me she really likes this boy and she flirts with him so much. He...

Confused about ex

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8 September 2009 (F) - Ok hes my ex, but he has a gf whos pregenent, anyway he said he loves her and would be lost without her and would be heartbroken if they where to split BUT why is he still SLEEPING WITH ME and other people of he says he loves her so much Guys plea...

Disgusted with my boyfriends promisquus past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - how do you get over your boyfriend promisquous past .......when you are not at all like that ?i have been in 3 relations so far was fooled and dumped in one and the second guy cheated on me after 3 yrs of engagement we parted....i am now with my ...

How to go about finding out if he is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy for almost 3 years but in the past few months my feelings for him have become much stronger. We get on well. My friends were always aware of my feelings for this guy but I told two of them how my feelings had changed. One of ...

Is it to early to ask him to move in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - am in a relationship for three months i love this man..i get bad mood swings if doesnt want to sleep in my house..i live with 2 of my teenage daughter do you think it to early to ask him to move in with me....

Heart broken even though I never had him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I feel kinda silly about this whole situation but here goes. I had this MAHOOSIVE crush on this guy who lives in my dorm and everyone knew mainly because I was so exstatically happy and in love 24/7. He's sweet, cute, funny, caring, amazing, sens...

How should I deal with my situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Please, no judgment. All I want is a sympathetic advice. I met this man 3 years ago, and it was a love from first glance. Our situation is:he is single, divorced 12 years ago, never got remarried, i am married my wholle life to a wonderfull man, we h...

Should I be worried? I havn't heard from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - I havent heard from my girlfriend for almost a week when we usually talk every night. The only thing i know of what is going on is that her family member at the beginning of the week said that she left her phone at her house after watching her kids ...

Afriad of marriage after he cheated several times before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of eight years on and off just asked me to marry him in january 2010. i'm so in love with the thought of being in love and we have 2 children together, but all together i have five. he has done some things in the past to me, matter of ...

Feelings for a close friend crushing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I feel pretty stupid asking for advice about this situation I'm in, considering I give advice so frequently on here. But it's obviously totally different when you're in the situation yourself, and I would appreciate any opinions/words of wisdom. I...

Confused, upset and desperate for answers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I posted a question earlier on but I didn't get any replies so I'm trying again and really hoping someone can help me! My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago after 7 months together. We are both in our early twenties and we were ...

Should I confront him about my suspicions or am I just overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (?) - Lately my boyfriend has been really moody and becoming more and more aggressive towards me. He says things like "I just want to fight you sometimes" and "do you always have to ask questions? you're so f*ing dumb." a friend pointed out to me that ...

I really like him, but I think he is just using me for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I want to know if I did the right thing: I met a guy at a near by dog park, a neighborhood I am now moving to. His dog was bitten and I made my move offered help (I had a crush on him for awhile). We walked our dogs together and went on a date. We...

Met someone on the internet, but now I think he is gay!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys. I feel really strange typing this, but I need someone else´s advice. Ive been chatting to an english man for more than 2 years. Ive made a big big effort to go to his country and finally we met. I went to the city where he lives. The first ...

Is he trying to break it off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Hi. I posted a question earlier but did not recieve any replies so I'm going to try again and make it more concise I'll start by saying that I'm 31 yrs old and basically in my first "real" relationship. I should also mention that I suffer from ext...

Is 8 years too big an age gap?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a guy who just turned 25 last week and have started dating a brilliant girl who is only 16, 17 in a couple of months. Is this too big an age gap for a relationship? I've known this girl for a few months and she has had the hots for me ...

How do I get this girl to notice me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - there is a girl i like a lot and i mean a lot i cannot stop thinking about her. she doesn't know me but i see her almost everyday. i just want to tell her how i feel but i know i can't because she already has a boyfriend and i hate him so much. ...

When is sex just sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - when is sex just sex for you,dear men (not talking about one night stands and casual hook-ups with women you don't really care about) and when do you know skip over that hill and make love to your partner? How does your behavior in bed change, ...

I want to see him again, but was it too casual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - I dated a guy casually for 8 months, he never committed to me but we spent a lot of time together. He just moved away to another city, and we didn't really discuss what would happen between us. I cried on his shoulder the night he left, and he ...

I can't tell is it's just flirting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Lately, I've been confused by the attention of a personal trainer at my gym. I signed up for him, and we got along great, and he even came to one of my family's get togethers. There's always been a bit of flirting, from him. I play stupid because I ...

Is he in love with me or using me for a home and stability?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - hi i met a man 7 mnths ago all was good we got on great, his never been marred has n kds, he had come out off a 6 yr relatonship when she med another guy into the home, now were i feel insacure is since we met his somehow managed to move in with me ...

Should I hope for the best or run?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - 23 years ago I dated a girl for 4 years. We went are separated ways. WE both got Married .Then i got a divorce. We live in different states. She found out about me and came home to visit her family . We got together and i fill back in love. She says ...

Is he lying so I won't think there's another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - well......my BF Jon dumped me becuz he was getting ready to go bac to skool and he said it would b to hard to focus on his school work and it didnt make since to me cuz i've been in skool for 3 to 4 weeks now and my grade on papers r fine and hes a ...

Does how he signed my birthday card have any special meaning to it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - This is actually a pretty stupid question.But one that I would like some opinions on. Today was my birthday.I spent the day with somebody that I have been seeing for about 7 months.We have not talked about commitment and love and all of that.We ...

Should I ask her out or just remain her friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

8 September 2009 (M) - I'm really confused in what to do........ I've meet this girl almost 2years ago and we have been very close to eachother when i first meet her we both wanted just to be friends(she had a boy friend at the time and she made sure i was aware of this....

I need advice about proceeding with my marriage plans.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid: I have a dilemma. I recently got engaged to someone who I have been involved with for two years. To be honest, the person was involved in another relationship for a number of years when we got together but last year, things were ove...

I'm doubting myself. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

8 September 2009 (F) - Need more advice after another question asked here... I'll sum that up. I had a one-night stand kind of thing with someone. It was an accident. I tried to stop things but he was pretty pushy and each times things progressed it kind of felt too...