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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is something going on, or have I done something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - lately, i feel like everybody at school *including friends* have been ignoring me. Today, at school - me and my friend, Jade* were standing talking outside in the schoolyard. When my best friend Georgia* and my boyfriend Kieran* and some other ...

She's bringing all kinds of men into my kids' lives.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - Hi can you help me? I split up with my partner 2007 we have 2 kids together, 4 and 3 years old. She's been dating and bringing all different sorts of men into my kids life; she can't stick to one man. I want to hear your advice and what negative ...

How can I get talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Okay, I don't really know where to start but.. I've liked this guy for a year and we still haven't spoken he's in the year above me at school (i'm 13, he's 14). He smiles at me around school and looks my way when we're in mixed year assembly...

What is sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Sometimes people think sexy is wearing something sheer and being nude, to me sexy is inside a person anyone can be sexy like what they do, wear, say or just touching me. Maybe nice red roses and candle light dinners are geting played out what you ...

He is two years younger, should I give up because of the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) - Omg plz plz help. I'm 15 and this boy I really really like is 14 but nearly 2 years younger than me. We've known each other for about 3 months now. At first we flirted and talked non-stop. When we went on a school residential we played truth or dare ...

How long to wait around before moving on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating someone for about 7 months, the last 2 months has been less and less...I don't get return phone calls for days, we rarely see each other. We have never argued, when we are together we get along well, although there is a bit of ...

She only wants me forever, but can I really trust her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - Ok, me and her have been together for the last 3 years but for some reason I have my doubts about her. Well, everything with us has always been great and we love each other to death and have had many great times, the only bad thing is it is a ...

My boyfriend is torn between his wife and me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I first met it was love at first sight. Not something I had ever believed in before especially at 28. After having our 1st date, he called and told me that he was separated with a daughter and going through a divorce. Not ...

My first boyfriend wants to get back with me but I'm engaged, how do I tell him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) - I dated a guy in high school for 2 and a half years. During that time I fell in love with him. He was my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first time, my first everything. We ended up being forced apart by my parents from some trouble we got into. ...

Opinions from guys only please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys!!! Well I just want to know when you look at her, stare at her, watch her, when you’re talking to your friends corner of your eye is going on her, when she smiles and laughs you watch her. All this above do you serious like her ...

What does it mean if you are in a used relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Can someone tell me what does it mean if you are in a used relationship? And how do you move out or move on out of a relationship like this? Thx...B...

How cliche, in love with my best friend; how do I get him to be mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I need to know if i should give up or wait for him. I've been friends with this guy for 8+ years and at times i guess we're more than friends we flirt and talk dirty to each other on the phone and through text but nothing physical we've never even ...

6 month anniversary, what do you make of it?

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11 September 2009 (M) - hi, i have recently had an upset with my lovely gf of 6 months, we just had out 6 month anniversary on thursday. the sunday before i asked her if she wanted to do anything for it n she said she didnt mind, so i assumed that she would keep it free ...

I made up my mind that I want to marry him, but he is "forcing" me to have more time! Has he lost interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

11 September 2009 (?) - I have been dating this guy for about three months. He is wonderful, we are so much compatible and am in love with him (he tells me he is too) We we disscussed our future together and agreed that we would get married sometime. After a while, i...

I cant move on because I see her every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - hey guys.. hope u guys can help me out. let me tell u whats the problem.. its something like a love triangle. i moved to this school since 4 years ago. i met this girl. she was a chinese.her name is mary. on the very first day of school i and h...

Is he just scared and will he ever come back around?

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11 September 2009 (F) - This situation is so strange to me, but I come looking for insight- anything- to help me understand his perspective. I have had a secret sexual relationship with this man for a few months now. We have actually only had sex a few times both knowing ...

My ex is my best friend...we dated and now I can't get him out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Hi! My ex is also my best friend. We only dated for 4.5 months, we've been broken up for 4 months. He continues to be my best friend. I love this guy (as best as my teenage brain can comprehend that, hahaha) in a romantic way, yes, as far as I kno...

My girlfriend has decided to get face surgery without discussion, she's considering a breakup incase it goes wrong? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

11 September 2009 (M) - My girl friend of a few months has decided to go for a face surgery without discussing the consequences with me. She has even gone to an extent where she would like to let go of this relationship fearing that I would not lover her anymore if the ...

Is this a sign of the end of us? Or are my own problems to blame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - how do you know when a relationship has run its course?? me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 yrs, its our first proper relationship and i always thought of us as a strong couple. weve had our ups and downs, weve been through alo...

How do couples usually fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend very rarely fight and when we do its a stupid fight over nothing and we make up right after is this normal!...

Found a great guy but cant open up to him. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - What do I say to him? Where do I go with this? I met this guy about a month ago. We went out for coffee and on the first date we clicked instantly. He's actually everything I've been looking for; smart, funny, handsome, a great listener and ver...

I don't feel anything for my boyfriend of 8 years anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - I feel my feelings for my boyfriend of 8 years is slowing dying off. The love I have for him 6 years ago was great. What is stopping me from leaving him is that we have two kids together, and I know it would hurt them to see that their daddy and ...

I really like my Teaching Assistant, I googled him and we have so much in common!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone. I have a question about whether or not to show that I like my T.A. (teacher's assistant for those of you who don't know). I am a senior in college and he is a Ph.d student. I am 23 and he is 28. (Oh, I know this because I Google...

I'm thinking of giving up Uni so I don't have to have a LDR with my boyfriend of 4 months

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

11 September 2009 (F) - Im looking for some advice on long distance relationships as im about to start one, and im not sure if I can cope with it. I love my boyfriend more then anything in the world, and would be more then happy to give up my own university place to be wi...