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writes:I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over two years now. Several times during the relationship - 6 to be exact, he wouldn't take my phonecalls nor answer my texts. I would call and ask him to return my phonecalls, but he never would until many days later. Anytime that he's done this, I discovered that he was doing something that he shouldn't have been doing - getting with other women, but he would tell me that he was having issues with his phone. He would also not follow through on plans we would make, no phonecall or anything. 4-5 days later, I would either get a call, or a text saying "hey baby." He has done this again, and the last time he called I didn't respond. He has decided to ignore my phonecalls, so I'm going to ignore his until I get ready to contact him. By him ignoring my calls, is he pulling away from the relationship, basically saying that he wants out? He knows that I love him, so I don't know why he is acting like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): This behaviour is just as i have experienced over and over,but me and him both know what is behind this and i have had enough and decided its time i took charge of my own life and start living for myself and forget him,move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): I will tell you this he has someone else and wants you to be there incase it dose not work. I have been there and done that do not waste you time or the heart ache it is never worth it. I went over board when it happened to me and the things that I did he knew I did them and did not get mad because all he had to do was tell the truth and to this day we are good friends because he knows what I would do if he lies to me. But i would not do those things because I am much older now and he is married to that women but she knows about me and scared that I will take him back from her but I won't she can have him I just want him for the sex and it is when I want it. But the reason why I still sleep with is because she said I could not or would not have him again WOW she was wrong but I have not sleep with him in over five years why should I he wants me now.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (10 September 2009):
I think he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's showing you no respect and he has a past of being up to no good when this ignoring pattern starts. I think you should pull the plug on the relationship. You two have been together for a couple years and there's no excuse for his behavior, I'm surprised you've put up with it the past 6 times that he's done this. He sounds like a jerk with his "hey baby" text after several days of not saying anything and acting like nothing is wrong, when clearly both you and he knows that he is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): well I'd simply go up to him and be like enough with all the Bull ok. Do you want a relationship or not? because ur giving me mixed feelings and its driving me nutts. tell him you love him but you cant deal with the fact that he does what he does. i'd end it or give him a last chance.
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