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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Three's company or Three's a crowd?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I am not sure if I did the right thing. For the past year I have been in a very emotional love triangle. To make the story short, I had been dating this guy for almost 4 years when we decided to break up because of the different paths we were ...

Should I force him to have sex with another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - This may sound weird but am I crazy for wanting my fiance to have sex with and date other women before we get married? He hasn't taken me up on the offers and says at most he just wants to feel a large pair of breasts but I feel insecure that I ...

He wants space what is that supposed to mean

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4 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and at first things were fine we lived together and he always wanted me around. But now he says he needs like a week of space and doesnt want to be around me as much but he doesnt want to break ...

Please help me, I want to contact him but I don't know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Lately I have been thinking of this guy I know I haven't seen him in a while,I know him from way back from school/college. I have always thought he liked me and I did have feelings for him, I even told him about how I felt in a note to him with my ...

How to be an ideal gf and mkae the relationship better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I just want to know small tips from mature men and woman here on how to keep a relationship working and what all is required? and if i as a girlfriend, could know how guys want their perfect gfs to be like? ...

Crushed Dreams

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Hey, Ive got a problem, its not massive as its effecting me horribly, Im a male 16 year old, and as usual storys go, there is the girl I know to well, I know more about each other than we do about ourselfs, this is the events between us so fa...

Is she too young?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - hey people im 15 and i like this girl that is on the soccer team i help out at she about 12 to 13 and ive known her for two years now i would like to ask her out or something but i dont know if thats wrong because of her and my age i really need ...

I got her pregnant, and we want to keep the baby! How do we do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - hi im 14 and i got my 15 year old girlfreind pregnant . i used a condom but as i saw afterwards there was a hole in it and she got pregnant. i cnt tell my mother cause she will kick me out i dont no my father. we want to keep the baby but we dont...

How Should I Talk To Her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - There's a girl I started to like near the end of last school year. I was writing notes to her and having other people give them to her and then started shouting that I loved her in hallways. Then someone told me to stop, and there was no more of ...

Is she just waiting until the time is right to have a relationship with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Okay so here is the deal I will try to make it short. I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years about a year ago August...it was a really rough year for me...I dated some girls casually between but nothing I was intrested in...April came around and I ...

Did I handle things wrong? I don't want to be labeled as "the crazy bitch"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I would like to get your take on this. I want to apologize but not sure if it’s even worth it. I’ve been dating a guy for about a month ½. Total gentleman, pays all the time, opens doors, can speak for himself and hold a conversation, helps when nee...

Why does he stare so much and contradict himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've liked this man for about 5 years and we became friends about 2 years ago. Before we became friends he would stare at me..watch me as if he's watching every move I make. Now we are friends, we've got into a couple of arguments, one 2 ...

I want to talk to him but get tongue tied

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I feel like I've wasted a golden opportunity. Just over two months ago, the guy I'm after asked me out twice and I told him I wasn't ready just yet for a new relationship. Seven months prior to that, I had gotten out of an abusive relationship that ...

Went through divorce, thought this guy was interested, now he's got a girlfriend! Did I misread him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Two years ago I agreed to allow my real estate broker (single) to join my team even though I thought I was a conflict of interest. I was married at the time but shortly afterward the broker began to flirt with me (i.e. checking me out and letting me ...

How do I stop my feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Okay, there's this boy at my school that at a time I REALLY liked. I gave him a rose for valentine's day and a candy cane for christmas. Of course i signed both anonymous, due to the chicken that I am. Everyone told me he found out who it was ...

How can I stop picking fights and holding grudges against him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - this is a very long story n i dont mean to bore anyone so i guess the shortest way of saying it is this: i met a guy 4 years ago, he was a friend from the beginning and the more we hung out the more friends we became, but for some reason i felt th...

How do I tell my parents his real age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, well this is a straight forward question. My bf and i are in love, there's no other way of saying it. Though we have not yet met each others parents. But I have told my mum and dad that he is 16 but he's really 19. I am nearly 1...

I think my teacher might be interested but if I screw things up I still have to have him for 1.5 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - ok, i´m 20 (people think i´m a bit older cause i look older and i´m very mature) i´m a good looking woman and i´m interested in a guy that is 35 and single (he is totally single so that´s not a issue here) and he gives class in 2 of my classes in ...

Where can I find Mormon girls willing to have sex before marriage?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - Ok, so I'm a 24 year old Mormon guy. I'm not the best Mormon guy, but I do want to get married in the Mormon Temple. It is what it is. I started having sex when I was 20, and I have been with a number of girls that are Mormon as well, and I have ...

He wanted me to contact him urgently, then we spent the night together again but now I havent heard from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I met a guy a couple of months ago and we had a one night stand. I sent him a couple of messages after that but no reply so I forgot about him. Out of the blue he called my work last weekend to leave a message for me to contact him urgently. I sent ...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's uncertainty over the future of our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (?) - Hey, I truely appreciate an honest answer. Two weeks ago my boyfreind went to college. He was very con ldr's and has been since the first time we kissed. we both knew in the beginning we would end up in seperate colleges. A week before he left, ...

I'm dating 2 guys, and one of them has never had a girlfriend before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I just found out that a guy I’ve been seeing (though he’s been interstate for work for the past month) has never had a girlfriend before. That’s a 22 year old guy who hasn’t had even a casual relationship before. One of his friends just let it slip ...

I'm falling for him, but I'm afraid that being so much older I can't give him a child

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a much younger man, (he is 29 and I am 46). He thought I was younger and I thought he was older. We have been dating for 6 weeks and I am afraid of falling in love with him, since I cannot have children. I tried to break ...

I'm 22 and she's 38: can we have a successful romantic relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

4 September 2009 (M) - The love of my life is older than me. I’m twenty-two and she is thirty-eight. She is such a beautiful, happy, and generous woman. Can we have a relationship? What to do? Can we move into a romantic relationship? How? ...

Is this guy just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - well i met this guy on the internet and we talked for while. but the problem is, hes 20 and im 15. he thinks im 16. i invited him over and my mom thinks he goes to my school and is 17. we kissed and stuff and i let him finger me, and then he wont ...

Do outgoing guys get shy or was he just being nosey?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so that other day I bumped into the friend of this guy I used to date friend. My old date name is Joe and his friend is Paul. So after I left my destination, I bumped into Paul in the cafeteria, he started talking to me about a few semesters ...

Why do I have to wait hand and foot for this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I'm sick of loving my ex boyfriend. After everything he has done to me, I still wait hand and foot for him! He has broken every promise in the book. He has cheated on me, tried to control my life, broken up with me, and gotten back together with me ...

Feel tainted because of a player: any tips on how to forget the whole thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - please help. To cut a long story short, I was played and lied to by someone I loved. He was living a double life telling me I was his gf when he already had one. I was the one that never met his family and friends. The only reason I can think ...

He's content, I'm confused: how much more should I take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I've been dating "Craig" for about a year and 3 months. Things were awesome at first we were crazy about each other, couldn't get enough of each other until one day out of the blue, he changed. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore even if I say it ...

I want to get to know him--is my plan 'stalkerish'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I have a crush on a bartender at the hotel I used to work at. The last time I talked to him he was blatantly flirting with me, but I had a boyfriend at a time and I deflected his advances although I was attracted to him. I haven't worked at that ...

So why is it okay for him to ask me what I've been doing, but if I ask him, I'm nosy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (?) - I need help understanding what this guy is thinking. I just started working at this gym and I am very attracted to one of my co workers who is a trainer. The first day we introduced ourselves to each other we were on the computer and he requested me ...

Not even a peck yet! Should I make a move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

4 September 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks...we both have expressed interest in each other. BUT, so far not even a peck! I know he is shy and wants to take things slow. But, the tension is killing me! Should I make a move? Will he be put off ...