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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My situation is a little confusing. I met this guy 4 months ago. We like each other a lot. There is a serious possibility of a long term relationship, but no verbal commitment till date. He seems to genuinely care for me and I do too. But, I discovered a few days back, he is on a dating site. I don't know what to think of it. Please advise.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (10 September 2009):
 He may be inquisitive but thats still not a good sign. You will probably get a reasonable answer if you ask him about it. Still ask him anyway and watch his response then monitor him eg continue to check the computer every so often, if it becomes password protected I'd ask why then I'd become suspicious, but only then.
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reader, Advice Gem +, writes (10 September 2009):
Hi there, first of all ask him about the dating site he may of been on it before he meet you. Also why was you on it to find it? Anyway do you love him? maybe you should verbally tell him and he may tell you the same and then you know and then the relationship can progress from there. If he does not love you maybe its early days still, for me I know when I love someone after about a week or two but thats me lots of other people take a lot longer or feelings gradually grow.You must be honest and open about your relationship/ feelings from the start and everyone knows where they stand then.Good Luck im sure all will be ok, but talk to him.Dont be to egar to settle the early days are the most fun!!
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