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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How to get to know this guy I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - So i really like this boy whos 2 years above me, but i havent really ever spoke to him and i very rarely see him, i might pass him like once a week or somethin withhim been in sixth form. He has flirted with me at a party before but not verbally ...

When do I tell the guy I just started dating that I'm pregnant by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Eight months ago I got a divorce from my high school sweetheart. We started dated when I was 16 and were together for 11 years. During that time we stopped using birth control because it didnt matter to us if we expanded our family. (we have 2 kids ...

Brother? or twin brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I have a problem. About a month ago, after going out and drinking a little bit too much, I made out with this new guy in our grade (lets call him Van). Since then, he has been really sweet and cute and caring towards me, we've gotten to know each ...

How do I dump him gracefully? Ignore him or tell him straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted this yesterday and got 2 replies I am so thankful for. But I need more advise from our dear aunts. I am still confused... How should I turn down my ex without with grace? Here's the background. I have realized now he has played ...

Should I even try to begin to understand??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - Hi, Don't know if anyone else can get their head around this because I can't... I was going out with a girl for 7 years. We got on so well, really knew each other, and had got to the stage that we could openly talk about anything. She even br...

I'd really like him to just walk up and kiss me but..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I wrote a question recently about a guy who I am communicating with via text, email and phone. I am a widow and he is divorced. I have kids, he does not, but mine think he is great. I am so confused right now. After being married for almost 20 ...

Does it turn men off if a woman has alot of gay male friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - This might seem like an odd question but when a straight woman has a lot of gay male friends is this a turn off for straight men? Background I moved to an area last year where being gay is considered illegal and is sort of undercover inotherwords ...

Take him back or leave it???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 we have been going out for 7 months. The story.. It all started at school he was staring at me and saying hi to me and i was like why is he being like that to me? i have not seem him around school before.. so a co...

If he really cares about me and wants to be with me for xmas wouldnt he do anything for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend 21. Its been 1 year and a half we are together but more and more we experience problems and more often we fight. Even if i know it might be early i always keep thinking of the future and imagining my life wit...

Girlfriend's past haunts me every day

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - Ok I love my girlfriend very much but her past haunts me everyday. I know of 6 of her past encounters. She has told me about all of them. One she had slept with the lead singer of a band. Another she told me recently that she had gotten so ...

We don't spend as much time together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, from the day i met him he has always been very busy with work, and i have always accepted that and more or less taken a back seat to it. i would see him at weekends, sometimes fortnightly if h...

I love him but what can I do to help out our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years now. We've had issues in the past but for the most part get along. He is an alcoholic but I have accepted that. I guess I've come to terms with it because he only drinks excessively at ...

My boyfriend wants to date another woman to make sure that I am the "one"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for over four years and are now living together. Yesterday he opened up to me that he might want to date other people, to make sure I am the 'one.' By dating he means, take someone else out to dinner just ...

Did I get abused sexually?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm just your average 14 year old girl. I've been going out with this guy for a couple of months. He's been fairly decent with me all this while.. but all of a sudden, sometime last week, he started asking me to have sex with him! I wasn't and am ...

I asked a girl out and she said no!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - well i asked a girl out and she said no. i am distraught what should i do i feel crap. my friend ruined any chance by shouting we are talking about sex so it put her off the topic of going out....

Terrified of losing him... advice needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past year and a half and we have split up a few times but we have said this is the last time we are going to try because its hurting us both to much splitting up all the time but now it just ...

I fell in love with a friend that slept with my good guy friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I am really losing my mind here. Here is what's going on with me. I have a girlfriend for about 5 years now but our relationship is extremely dysfunctional and we are never intimate nor have I had sex with her in over a year. She has been ...

How do I pursue this relationship further without seeming desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - A new guy has just started working at my place and I have noticed I am interested in him. He is in my age group and he has been around me and chatting to me when ever possible at work. Our conversations are flirty and also he has filled me in on ...

Have we got too intimate too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - i and my bf are in relation for nearly 4 months. last week we met in a park and got very romantic!! we had our smooch for the first time .he kissed me on my neck and licked it very fondly....now i am in a fix whether its very soon for us to get so ...

My best friend is dating the girl I have a crush on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I have a problem that I know I will have to wait to act. I live in a rural town and i'm in a class of 50 students. my friend is going out with another one of my girl friends. i have a major crush on her but i cant make a move cuz its homecoming ...

Why is he doing this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - i have liked this guy 4 a long time and we recently started dating,we havent been 2gether a month yet,he said hes liked me a while as well..at 1st he would call me every nite and then we started spending alot of time 2gether(hes my neighbor)if he ...

Should I hit him up or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - im soo sad. this guy that i have been talking to for over a year, has decided that he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. we always argue and go through the same conversations about me not listening. he wants me to do everything he says and when i ...

My partner doesn't want our baby.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 30yrs old and I just found out that I am pregnant 3 days ago. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years he already has 3 children and his reaction when I told him I was pregnant was like I ruined his life. We did use birth control ...

Is she flirting, playing hard to get or just trying to annoy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - So, theres this girl that i like in 9th grade, and im pretty sure she likes me, but two days ago she asked if i had a myspace, and i said no(and it was true, i didnt) and she said "liieerrr you just dont want me to message you on there" and she ...

How to get more pleasure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Omg sooo me and my bf are very sexual i love given him b.js and stuff but when it comes to him doing itt to me like eating me out or just having sex ....i kinda dont even feel any of it at all i need help..i get wettt and horny and all of the above ...

What can I do to get him out of my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I really need help guys, I'm Ethan, gay and brokenhearted. My boyfriend ended up our relationship like 3 months ago but I still have a lot of feelings for him, he was very rude to me that night, he said really bad things that I'll never forget, I ...

Will he want to get back together, or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - So right now I find myself in a situation that I've been in before; and I don't like it at all.. I was with my most recent ex for only about one month (he just broke up with me two days ago). Now I know, this is a really, really short time that I've ...

I cheated, she broke up with me, but I really want her back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - Please help me Its my Junior year in high school and im really cracking down on my grades this year. and at the end of last year i met this girl that thought i was cute. i saw her around the hallways and she always looked great. her hair is real...

He's never been good at relationships but what is your opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Ive known this guy for 4-5 yrs - Lets call him "Robert".We were friends and some point jumped into intimacy. He was a drinker who expressed his naughty feelings for me and would be touchy feely in public,get jealous when I was w/ other guys.We ...

Should I risk our friendship by asking her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - Hi there, Okay, so... I've been friends, really good friends with this chick going on 4 years. I've liked her in the past, at the beginning, for about a year, asked her out... no dice. I got over her, and had a relapse. I've like her for th...

This guy has me confused! He doesn't want a relationship but wants to hang out all the time...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 4 months and I need help to figure out if it is going anywhere. We don’t live in the same town but are close enough that it’s easy to see each other. When we first met he was the one who would text me all the time ...

How do I give good phone sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have phone sex with me. I would love to try it but an not sure what to do to make it enjoyable for him. I know to moan and breathe heavy and that kind of stuff, but what else do guys like. What are some things I can say to him ...

Falling out of love or running out of things to say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I have been feeling very disconnected and withdrawn from my partner. Because we are what would be termed as an 'opposites attract' couple, I have found that NOT having certain discussions w/ him is a way for me to avoid - what I feel - are the ...

Did she just use me sexually and will she ever come back to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - I know this is a long post, but I feel all the information in it is necessary. A year ago in August, I started my second year of college. It was at this time I met her. I had known her from when I was in elementary and middle school-she was a gr...

I'm shy, she's shy..how is this going to work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

24 September 2009 (M) - i'm a shy guy, not a whole lot of relationship experience. I met this girl at a dance last friday, and we were grinding and dancing most of the dance. Ive phoned her a couple times and we've hung out a bit during lunch, but shes really shy around me ...