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He says I never cook for him, but he is never around

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Question - (10 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2009)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I have a 6 year old girl for a lovely guy who I spent some of my holiday in the Caribbean with. I made a big effort to be there while he was there as I heard he was going although he did not tell me and that hurt.

We spent some great time together and I did not want it to end. He stayed on in the caribbean for an extra 2 weeks while we came home (me and my 2 younger children).

Our relationship has not really been going any where, I have spoken to him about living together nad marriage in the past and he never answers clearly. I stopped becoming itimate with him for over a year the first time was on holiday as I was feeling used.

I really love being with him. He is supportive to the kids and me (the youngest is his) I realise how happy I was on holiday with him and I want it to last. He came out with a statement that I have never cooked for him - this is true. My confidence has been knocked my my ex partner in relation to my cooking. I can cook. I may not be an expert in Jamaican dishes but I do try. My boyfriend is vegetarian which makes it difficult and he loves fish which I dont and do not eat much of.

How can I cook for him when I hardly see him. He never came round at meal times.

I plan to speak to him but any suggestions would not go a miss.

Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):

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Thanks for the advice. I willl try knocking up something and plan a date.

I will let you know how it went.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009):

Throw some lettuce, Tomatoes, cucumber, and other fruit and veges onto a huge platter with a sexy hot/mild sauce or dip or fry some rice with mixed veges (add eggs some vegetarians don't eat eggs) so instead add fresh fish pieces and serve it up. Why not invite him and give him a date time to be there. Vanilla Ice cream with melted hot chocolate makes a great dessert. Then maybe you would like to talk to him whilst you both have a great meal together.

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