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*tephanie09
writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a baby together but for the past two years we have drifted apart we live together and constantly bicker and fight with each other when we are together. I like going out with my friends and when I get male attention I feel great and am thinking what I'm missing. I'm only 23. I love my boyfriend a lot but I don't think I'm in love with him any more but don't think I could manage a house and baby without him. What should i do... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): I really think you should try to reconnect with your boyfriend. Just try to do some of the old things you two would do together. Spend some quality time, get a nanny, and have a romantic evening together. Try to get those same feelings you had for him before you two started drifting apart. Also see how he feels, tell him you miss how things used to be and you want to be really close to him. Always make sure he knows you love him and care about him, but just try to spend some good quality time together and work things out without fighting or bickering at each other. If things dont work out and after time you find yourself drifting even farther from him, than you need to tell him. Try to maybe get counseling or see what you can do to make it work. If worse comes to worse you need to move on. Its not fair to you to be with someone and dedicate your life to them if you arent happy. And its not fair to him to give you his heart if you arent in love with him anymore.
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