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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She says her sides hurt right after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. and all 3 years we have been having sex. Just recently she started complaining that right after we're done having sex her sides hurt really bad... Can anyone maybe enlighten me on why that can ...

How do you know when a dude likes you?

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7 September 2009 (F) - Well, this question is more aimed towards males. Its very simple, how do you know when a dude likes you? I cant seem to tell if a guy likes me or not!...

He won't give me his phone number but calls me his property...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - 4 months ago, a much younger man I met in real life came after me full guns. He won't give me his phone number, but doesn't call me either. We mostly communicate by chat or email. He claims he is divorced with shared custody. He claims he...

He likes to cuddle but not have sex. What's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Long story short... 34 year old attractive female, divorced with kids got into an amazing relationship with an incredibly attractive 37 year old man over 2 years ago. Amazing sparks in EVERY area and life was great....no, no...PERFECT. We are now ...

First man ever to not want oral sex! Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I'm obsessing over this the whole day. I am in my early 30's, and by all accounts a skilled lover, so when I was with a man last night with whom I had been intimate with before and with whom we had simply amazing, mind blowing and most intimate lo...

Why am I single? Can anyone shed some light on this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hard to say this. I broke up with my ex in Feb 2005. Yes that long ago! I have been single pretty much since then, no significant relationship since. I moved location mid-2007 (but a non-English speaking country). When I go out with my frie...

Does her story make sense?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend who I have been dating for over a year came into town this weekend. We have not seen each other for over a month. She came into town with her friend a gay guy I have never met. She told me she would call me when they got into town and ...

Am I trying to hold on to a heart that no longer belongs to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm struggling with myself so much right now. I've been dating this guy for 3 years. We had ups and downs. Broke up once and got back. He used to care about me and like me only. He had a first love that he always seems to keep in his h...

Why do you think we keep getting back together?

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7 September 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Around 3 years ago, i was with a girl which i didn't know. She was a friend of my friend in school, I ended up talking to her, and we met up. A few days later we were still meeting up, and going out for the day. I asked her out an...

How do I get her to admit her feelings? She says they are mixed.

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7 September 2009 (M) - Ok here's the deal: about 5 minutes ago i was an a** to my girlfriend. we got into a big discussion about stuff and she said she had started feelin these mixed feelins that she didnt wanna state. well bein me, i had to keep persisting she tell me ...

How do I not push her away when she's on my mind all day?

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7 September 2009 (M) - Hey Ive been in a Long distance relationsip for a year now and its going fine altho I find myself a little dependent on my GF that I have to txt her or call her most days ... recently she for no reason stopped contacting me and it did worry me a bit ...

Why doesn't she want anyone to see us being affectionate in public?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

7 September 2009 (M) - I have been dating a woman for over a year, she is a mom of three. Her kids are 17, 20, 25. In the beginning, she would show affection in public, in the car, anywhere with no mind to anyone, thing etc. We even got busy outside her oldest daughters ...

Should we give it another go for the sake of the baby?

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7 September 2009 (F) - Ok here's my question. I recently found out my boyfriend of two years cheated on me. We split up but now I have found out I'm pregnant. I still love him and I know he wants me back. Should we give it another go for the sake of the baby? Please h...

Is it worth telling him how I feel?

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7 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so here's my problem. I've really liked this boy for about 6 months now. We're good friends and we talk to each other almost everyday. I think he might like me too, I think he's shown some of the signs (Looking at me alot, getting nervous,...

I don't know how to act around him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Long story short, I like this guy that is a few years younger than me and that I have known for the past few months. We went out once years ago and liked each other. We would have still been seeing each other if I hadn't moved away. Four years ...

Is he ending it? Very confused

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - I got an email from a guy I have been seeing briefly saying that bad things have happened to him lately with his job and other things. He didnt go into detail. I have only seen him 3 times (the last time we had sex), we both are in other relation...

Is it worth contacting him again?

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7 September 2009 (F) - My b/f and me split up 5 months ago after 3 years. He said he 'couldn't do this anymore' and I was so hurt. I still love him and he was also a big part of my 8 year old daughter's life. I received a parcel last week with a few objects that I left ...

How do I choose between friends?

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7 September 2009 (M) - Hey.. so recently ive been going to my friends house often and he has an older sister (called celine) who is almost 15, my friend and I are 13. While I was there his sister had a friend round too called catherine who is almost 15 too.. so basically ...

Really want to know whether he genuinely cares about me!

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7 September 2009 (F) - Hey everybody,Sorry in advance as this is a little long but there is a lot of important details. I am 'seeing' a guy but in a confusing situation. I keep overreacting when there is no need to be. I am wondering if I am scaring him away. This guy ...

Does he regret breaking up with me in the heat of the moment?

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7 September 2009 (F) - My ex bf broke up with me a month ago. Since then he has been messaging me quite a few times throughout the week, calling me etc, saying how he I am beautiful and how he still cares about me and that he is wanting to see how I am etc. And just ma...

Can't stop thinking about my crush!

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7 September 2009 (M) - What Should I do Now?? I like this girl and I cant stop thinking of her. I really miss her badly when we are apart. She treats me like a friend although I dont have her number. Everytime my phone rings I rush to pick it up to see if its her, I la...

Am I right not to want her at my wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hi I am getting married next may. Next week we are having our engagement party. We have been together for 2 yrs. I have not met his 2 best friends yet as they live interstate. They will be coming to the engagement party. One is his best mate who...

I can't cope with all these new feelings!

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7 September 2009 (F) - Im having mixed feeling about my bf. We knew eachother 3 weeks before we became a couple. Now weve only been a couple for 2 weeks. We clicked from the first minute. And fell for each other before we were an item. He treats me like gold, spoils...

Am I pregnant and paranoid?

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7 September 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for some time and we are expecting a baby. I dont know whether its horomones or me just being paranoid but im scared that im gonna lose him forever. I dont trust the girls he talks to since there is a girl who ...

Am I asking for too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Are my expections from a relationship too high? Or maybe too low? What I want is, someone who respects me and accepts me for being who I am- conservative, quiet, shy and reserved at times. Someone who accepts my values of wanting to wait for sex ...

21 year old in need of wise words!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - So here's it is. I'm 21 years old and have never been kissed, in a relationship, or even asked out. As weird as that seems, that's not the problem. The problem is that, although I "fall in love" everytime I leave my house with some random guy or ...

I just want to try and understand my girlfriend!

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7 September 2009 (M) - Hello, I guess I should start with a bit of background. . . I am rather new to published material forums etc relating to relationships. I used to think therapy, counseling, etc, was for people who could not handle things themselves, but now ...

He doesn't want to be "restricted" by writing to old girlfriends

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7 September 2009 (F) - I have been seriously dating a man for two years. I love him dearly and we had been talking about spending the rest of our lives together. However, i have some major trust issues and we both feel differently about boundaries with the opposite sex. ...

I want to dress HOT but not overdo it, any ideas?

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7 September 2009 (F) - so this is kinda a relationship question but i dont know where else to ask it. halloween is comin up and i think im gonna spend it with this guy that im kinds dating. i wanna dress up as somethin HOTT but i dont know where sexy turns into skank...

What signs should I look for to tell whether he is interested in me or not?

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7 September 2009 (F) - Im an aries woman, and I met a very withdrawn scorpio guy @ work about 3 1/2 months ago. We've become friends and talk in person, text and on the phone. I like him a lot. Some days he will share his deepest feelings with me, but I can't tell if ...

Do you think the relationship might not be progressing because he is inexperienced with women?

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7 September 2009 (F) - I had given up on this guy liking me, but now I find out he hasn't dated anyone before, it may throw new light on things. I thought he wasn't that interested because: - he sometimes wouldn't reply to texts or call me for a week or more, then he'd ...

How can someone go from lusting after you to not even contacting you anymore?

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7 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have this male friend (or I thought we were friends). We used to talk quite a bit by phone or text. Then in May he told me that he has not been dating anyone for the last year and a half because he has been wanting me. We decided to have ...

Whats up with this guy? I'm not sure if he is interested or not!

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7 September 2009 (F) - Okay so , I've known this guy for a year . We're 'friends' . But last year , he'd always pick on me , but in a kind of flirting way . Like , calling me things that aren't exactly too offensive . Or randomlly poking my arm . Stuff like that . But ...

He took me to prom and he seemed to really like me, but ever since he has been acting really distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Hey, guys; I met him at my mom’s job a year ago. From the beginning he would make conversation and smile and look at me a lot. Sometimes I wouldn’t talk much and he would as my mom if it was cause I didn’t like him. Time went by and I had to go to...

Why am I so desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - So I have been on two dates with this guy. We seemed to really "click". We have spent the last two evenings together and I want to spend tonight together too. I know that if we do I will probably look desperate or clingy. I also like to ...

Is there something wrong with me or just the situations?

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7 September 2009 (F) - I am 22 years old and I have never experienced a seriously relationship...okay, I do not think there is something wrong with "ME" just the situation. I can never be with the guys I really want and I have some guys friends tell me that they are ...

Do I take the risk and start a relationship with my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

7 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so, my best friend and I have known one another for 5 years but have only been best friends for two years, after starting to talk to each other and realising we have a lot in common and also a lot not but that builds conversation and a healthy ...