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writes:I've been seeing the girl of my dreams off and on for about 2 months now. She was suddenly dumped by her ex about 6 months ago who she had dated for about 2 years. Everyone I know say he is a absolute jerk and hated that she was dating him, but I've never met him so I'm not sure. Anyway, almost every time we go out, particularly when I think things are going rather well, her friends/family/my friends/everyone tell me that within 48 hours of us going out she calls him up in tears and invites him to spend the night or goes and stays with him for a couple days and won't answer my calls or txts during these times. When I ask her about it, she lies and tells me that she hates him and would never go back to him and doesn't even want to see him. She says there is nothing wrong and that she can't believe people are tell me these lies. As I said she is exactly what I've always wanted to find in a woman (well except for this part.) Should I just cut and run or should I try to work on this and weather whatever is going on here? ...Or maybe there's another option I'm not seeing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Look. She is still attracted to her ex. She may not want to be but attraction isn't a choice. No amount of logic will convince her otherwise. You made a huge mistak telling her she is everything you are looking for in a girl. When you said that she became more valuable to you than you are to her. One thing that attracts girls is guys of higher value. I ran into your situation before and actually am having the same issue. The difference is she always calls me to hang out with her because she knows I have more value than she does. However she keeps hooking up with her ex and not putting out for me. What do I do? Easy. I use the bitch. When other girls see you hanging out with other attractive woman, they wonder why you aren't with them. Everytime I have hung out with this girl in a bar setting I leave with 1-2 numbers from other girls wanting me because they percieve me as having high value because I am hangingwith attractive girls.
Shoot me an email at [email address blocked]. I have a pretty decent amount of time under my belt of being a player. If you think it's not for you then go ahead and keep doing everything you can to get the girl and getting rejected. He'll if I care. Just trying to help people in situations where I used t have problems.
In the end, if you had lots of girls interested in you, this one girl would mean nothing to you. Don't you want to be the ex the girls keep coming back to? Email me if you have any questions.
Oh yah. My answer at his point. Delete her info off your phone and pick out a nice outfit for this weekend. You are going to meet lots of girls this week because you are a cool ass dude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, I guess I just had to see it in writing so I knew it wasn't just me. I actually haven't talked to her for almost a week now because I've been trying to think of what to do, (until now when I've found THIS wonderful website!) and it turns out that today she's been going around telling my friends that I called her drunk this weekend and was saying extremely nasty things to her and that she has no idea why I am being so mean. -- THIS IS ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE! First of all, I rarely drink, secondly I am not a person who gets out of control like that, and thirdly I have my phone log to prove it. ...So what are your thoughts with this developement?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): It sounds like you're getting played.
Of course she seems perfect right now because she is only showing you what she wants you to see.
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (10 September 2009):
oh honey theres options you can keep being aa fool for he theres one. theres nothing worst than a blind man that doesnt want to see... you know that pain you get in your gut? its telling you shes a lying snake and you know it. how can you say she evrything you ever wanted? did you want this? do you love what shes doing behind your back? or how she looks you dead in the face and says who me? you already know she doesnt answer the phone text messages you know the deal is... get rid of her
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