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female
age
30-35,
*urple_girl05
writes:HiI'm in need of a bit of advise and clarification if its needed.Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 7 months and we have great sex. However he is hardly ever in the mood so we rarely have it and least once every 2 or 3 weeks. I'm 18 and he's 20. I asked my friends and they all say that their guys are always wanting sex.I'm worried he's starting to not find me sexy any more. I'm not sure what I should do as I lost my virginity to him.Should I ask him if their is something wrong or is his sex drive normal for a guy his ageSarahX
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reader, CoolAndCoolest  +, writes (11 September 2009):
hi all and especially the one who raised this,to tell i had lots of drive while in between 15-25. but i never had sex till the age of 27. so i am not sure i am enough to guide you. but i can tell you all what goes in my mind.every human are unique by himself. it is normal that at his age a guy will have lot of feelings than ant other period of life. but we cannot command a person to tell you are in this age and you should have this much sex drive. at the same time i understand your feelings too.just find out by talking more between you both. what are his likes and dislikes about this. and as his very close friend it is your duty to bring him up. a woman can control a guy. use your powers of lust by speaking more. be more supportive. understand him. and both you enjoy.for eg: he may want you in some way which you are not and he is unable to tell you for the reason that he feels you may feel it bad. assure him that you will listen and be enjoying with him all the reasonable things...as u had the question in you, you have the answer also. sure, believe. work it out and all the best y sister
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reader, purple_girl05 +, writes (10 September 2009):
purple_girl05 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionat the beginning of our relationship he used to call me gorgeous and sexy all the time but now its rare.
thank you for the help so far
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): I would say that is not in the normal range! Perhaps he has a medical problem or a psycological issue or even a porn addiction. The only way to find out is to talk to him and ask what his assessment of the situation is.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (10 September 2009):
 That is certainly well outside the range of what I would consider normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): All I can tell you is that at 20 I was *far* more interested than what you describe. You really need to talk to him and find out what's going on in his head.
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