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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

4 months and he still hasn't kissed me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - My bf knows that I want to kiss him..and he told me he wanted to kiss me too..but he doesnt kiss... We havn't even hugged each other and its almost 4 months we have been in this relationship...what do I do..?? And yeah he also says that you...

I want to be with a man I can't have. How can I get over it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I have a major problem that I hope someone can help me with! Its driving me crazy. I have the hots for someone I cant have! He's one of my good friends and my ex's friend and for complicated reasons, I know I cant have him and even if I could I ...

Should I tell this new guy about the abortion I'm about to get?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - A little over a month ago, I had a one night stand. Unfortunately, I did not use correct judgment and we used the withdrawal method. As it turns out, I can attest it is not as effective as I'd hoped to believe. An Abortion has been scheduled for ...

Becoming more than FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I see a lot of questions on here about people who are stuck in the FWB situation and often they want to know if there's a chance of becoming more. Most of the answers tell them that no, there isn't so I wanted to share my story. When I was in my la...

Should I wait for this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I am 19 yrs old....i have been in relationships before...but as of my previous relationships.....i had committment issues......now i am in love with this guy....he is an year younger than me.....i am pretty sure i want to date him...but i am not ...

Is this relationship a lost cause?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - How far does the rabbit hole go? I don't want to give up but I don't think I could handle finding out a past situation got any worse. Read on to understand the whole situation. The following ended up being very long! But it is only in an attem...

My ex is sleeping with his cousin how can they get away with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - i fingerd out my ex is sleeping with his 1st cousion. i woz goin out with him till i found out but i cant seem to be able to get it out of my head. his whole family thinks im sick and then to just act like thay wouldnt do that in front of every1. ...

In a black hole of emotional distress

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - Theres this girl that i hang out with and shes 18. We spend a ton of time together and ive fallen in love. But im 16 and that could be a problem. Also just recently she got a Bf they were kissing the very first day. That night i told her how i ...

Is it OK to date my former sister-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - I've been divorced for over a year now. My former sister-in-law (who was married to my oldest brother) is also now divorced from my brother. We both divorced the same year. We've always gotten along really well. We live in different states, but I ...

he needs time to think about dating me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Im really close to this guy at the moment. He knows I like him and we have talked about our feelings. When I talked to him he said that he is worried about ruining our friendship as we are really good friends, but I kind of feel like we are more...

M I being melodramatic over him not getting me a b-day gift?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I'm still hurting over something my boyfriend did a few months back, even though i know it will sound trivial. Here goes: on the lead up to my birthday, he said he really wanted to get me something nice, pretty much bombarded me all week for hints ...

Woman like bad boys??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - Hi. I was wondering about all the myths out there about women love a "bad boy" or a "jerk." Can this possibly be true over someone who is down to earth and nice instead of cocky and rude?...

My girlfriemd says she wants to be a one man girl but I don't think I'm that man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been in relationship since 9 months. SHe is the first love of my life and i want her to be the last love and i love her more then anything in the world. so I'm ready to compromise on all fields. but talks about her ...

My mum has poisened my boyfriend against me, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - about 5 months ago me and my mum had a masive fight and she kicked me out, my boyfriend of 4 years still wanted to keep in touch with her, what i was fine about. not too long ago me and my boyfriend had a argument my mum had told him my dad didnt...

I love him, but he has aspergers, and he finds it hard to show how he feels about me. I really need to know if he feels the same!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I have a real issue just now with this guy i'm seeing. We met about seven months ago and since then, things have been good but not exactly plain sailing. Its very important for me to say firstly that he suffers from mild aspergers and even though ...

Part of me wants to give up on her but my love for her won't let me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - I was married for fourteen years and got a divorce and stayed gone for seven months. So we got back together for another year and a half. I left again due to her going to bars with her girlfriends two to three nights a week. Now we have started ...

How do I get closer to this girl in my class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - there is this girl i just met in one of my classes in college, during that class we were the only ones talking and i am not sure of what she thinks of me. how can i get closer to her?...

Size does matter to me! Should I just be honest and tell him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid,I met this guy last September(2008),and we dated for about 3 months.The first time we got intimate with each other was kinda weird for me.It was unexpected yet great.He performed oral sex on me,he is the pleaser type guy.I was enjoying it ...

In love with a girl who already has a boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - I think I love this girl who has a boyfriend. What should I do???...

How do I tell my friend that the guy we both like has asked me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - me and my best friend have both liked the same boy for ages last night he asked me out and i dont no what to say! i want to say yes but my friend really likes him as well and i dont want to upset her, she is my best friend so i dont no what to say ...

How do I cope with being back in the dating game? I feel like a teenager again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Hi I am seperated 3 yrs and have meet a few men on and off, nothing serious, but now I have a longing to share my life with someone. I was on internet sites and made a decision recently to go off all the sites It didn't feel right and decided to ...

What should I do when he comes back from his 2 month holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I like this guy who gets back from a 2 month holiday tomorrow. I'm really nervous about seeing him again! We've stayed in vague contact while he was away, just the occasional short email. We'd been on a couple of dates before he went away with some ...

How do I initiate a conversation with someone I don't know, with the intent of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - I am a reasonably good looking guy, not being arrogant. I am clever, funny, Polite and have had a few girlfriends in the past. This girl is absolutely stunning. And everything that I would like in a woman.How do I initiate a conversation with som...

We know each other too well and too long to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - My last relationship has ended and i started thinking about what to do and who to try to move on with, ive always had interest in a girl since before i even really liked girls I liked her in kinder garden lol, and have known her since but we had a ...

If a line has to be drawn then something is up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - Okay, this is kinda hard to explain, but I'll try. My girlfriend lived in the same town. I recently moved. It's been 2 days now. A best friend of mine, a guy, came over last night to her house, and she was in the bathroom straightening hi...

How to get him to chose me over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - hi there! i have a problem with this guy who two months ago broke up with his girlfriend. the thing is that i was with with him for three months before that(our break up was a mutual agreement) girl (he was with her for 10 months) and i saw him ...

Am I misreading the signs?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 3 years ago. I remember him being slightly friendly, polite even, but we didn’t really hang out or anything. Over the years I’ve gotten to know his parents really well but I haven’t seen him since. Recently we had a brief ac...

Met up with ex girlfriend, please please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 September 2009 (M) - hey guys, so basically tonight, me and my friend went to see a show and my ex from 3 years ago was there, we bumped into her and ended up hanging out with her and her friend all night. however, my ex was just hanging out with me most of the nigh...

I'm shy does anyone have tips on talking to guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and am always getting lots of random guys smile at me and even say hi when I just walk past them. This could happen at lots of places whether it be at work, uni, the shops, supermarket, cafe, beach etc... The thing is though ...

We both cheated I don't know wether to forgive him or forget him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - Well I recently found out my bf had been cheating on me a couple times with another girl. They never had sex but got close to it. I found out and broke up with him. But I also cheated on him once, only I just kissed the other guy. But I feel its ...

Does he still like or is he just using me as arm candy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - So all summer me and this guy have been talking nonstop and we knew we liked eachother so we started dating....about a week later he broke up with me and said things were moving too fast (even though all we did was kiss and i was definately NOT ...

What is this behaviour should I just forget about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - My brother had a roommate over the summer who I met the night before we left to go home. We had a good connection while at dinner, and he made an effort to understand more about what I was saying and the like. Nothing conclusive, but I felt this ...

He makes me feel lonely

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

15 September 2009 (F) - I been with a married man for almost six years. He said he loves me but when we had a chance of being in the same place , i feel invisible ...i tell him what i dont like and he keep doing it , he said i fight too much , but i just want him to ...