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writes:I am dating a wonderful man than I just met a couple of month ago. Everything is great except for the fact that he wants to talk about an ex-girlfriend with whom he broke up about ten years ago. He claims to have been in love with this woman. Although he has had several girlfriends this is the woman that seems always to be in his mind. A few days ago, we were in bed together and out of the blue he starting telling me a story about his relationship with this woman. I could not take it any more. I think it is very insensitive of him to bring this woman's memories at a time when we are being intimate. I got so upset and started yelling insults at him. I told him he disgusted me and I didn't want to be with him any more. Now he is very upset and I don't know what to do. Help!
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (10 September 2009):
im so happy that you told him off.. if hes upset tough tittie as they say . he has no right to be talking about her with you in that type of setting or period. if she was so great than why isnt he with her. obviously maybe he wasnt good enough. maybe he did to her wht hes doing to you. hes an idiot next time maybe you should bring up one of your ex s see how ot makes him feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Next time don't bottle up your feelings. If you listened to him ramble about his ex his 1st time then he'd do so again. A lot of women do it too. In any case try to not bottle it up or else you will explode like did. And I don't mean explode in a good way. If you get a chance to talk to him, calmly explain to him why you got angry and apologize for exploding like that. Tell him what you think of the situation without trying to be insulting. Good luck, I hope it works out.
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