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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been talking to this girl for a while now and I love her. She has told me she loves me too, and we have just been doing so great together. She got out of a tough relationship and has been worried about taking it to the next step. We talk on the phone a lot and the last time I called her it went great and we both said I love you and goodbye. Since then its been 7 days and I havent heard from her at all. I left her two voice messages and she never called me back. I called her tonight and after I sent her a message I saw she signed online but she didnt even send me anything. Why is she avoiding me? I dont know what to do, she wont even talk to me. I am scared maybe she met someone else and doesnt want to be with me anymore and I have wasted my time. I am just so lost and confused. I thought we loved each other and now she wont even talk to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Sorry bud, but actions speak louder than words, and there's nothing like pure ignorance to suggest that somebody's no longer interested. Further more, you have learnt that she doesn't even respect you enough to tell you, and let you know where you stand. Women expect a men to be able to read their minds, but in my view thats just a cop out on their part. She's only one person, i'd take my chance's and forget about her, the worlds a big enough place, and there's more than enough people in it, so i'm pretty much sure that you'll find a half descent person who will treat you correctly, and not waste your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2009): Like you said yourself she came out of a tough relationship. Not to mention she is worried about taking it to the next step. For her, it is maybe moving too fast and she can't seem to process everything altogether. For women everything is connected to everything to ya, a lot of stuff to process. I know its hard for you, coz you have all these feelings and want to share it but if you really love her as you claim you do, then wait a bit longer, give her a little space. Don't text, call, just relax. If you do message her, just make it short and wish her well. Maybe one more week. If she doesn't contact you by then, just move on and try to meet someone who can give you back the love you are willing to share.
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