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writes:I've just started college and I really like this guy only after knowing him a few days. I've managed to have a few conversations with him, we like the same music. But there are a lot of awkward silences when we sit next to each other in class, im scared he's gonna get bored sitting next to me and move to another table. What can I do to make sure he doesn't stop talking to me or move tables?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, LauraWindy +, writes (10 September 2009):
Hey. Have you thought of trying to get into a conversation with him while not being in class? I'm pretty sure both of you could be more open then.If he randomly moves to another table as to show you that he isn't interested in what you're saying, then he's honestly not worth it. However, if you really like him and want to get to know him, you should make small steps and try to talk to him while you're outside class, during a break or so. You don't have to come up with the most fascinating thing to say, because with time it might make it obvious that you're trying to impress him, and I'm not sure whether that would make things better.The fact that you like the same music is great. Since you've found you have that in common, why not proceed and talk about it some more with him, while trying to get to know other facts about him? Talk to him regurarly, just don't make it seem like you're desperate to come up with something really interesting to say. If you get to know him more, maybe you could give him your number when you feel that it's safe to. Maybe you should make it seem like a friendly gesture, not like you're immediately trying to gain a date with him. If he also gives you his number, then it's up to you to decide what to do and how to proceed. But remember, getting to know the one you're interested in before dating them is really important. You wouldn't want dating someone who'll appear to be a complete jerk later on, will you?
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