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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is he worth keeping around? He doesn't spend any time with me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has been going through a complete transformation: i have known this guy for a while and he used to always text me. about 2-3 times everyday from the end of my sophmore year to the end of my sophmore summer. when i found out ...

Does the gorgeous boy I like actually like me now that he has noticed me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I was at a party the other night and there was this boy there from my school who is 2 years above me. I have always thought he was gorgeous but he never seemed to recognise me. But at the party he was looking and flirting with me all night, heres ...

really like this guy, but is he just using me for a bit of fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Well i like this guy, we have been out as a couple a few times and we just starting seeing each other more again but not in a relationship kinda way - just as mates. We have been kissing and cuddling (NOTHING ELSE) as well but then i just found ou...

I'm scared I won't find anyone to be with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I am 25 and at the stage where I am afraid I wont find a partner to spend my life with. I have been in four relationships, the first 3 I ended because I dind't see myself with the person and the last 1 broke my heart. Finally when ive been through ...

My girlfriend works with her ex lover(not boyfriend) is it wrong of me to ask her to quit that job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - After my girlfriend and i got together, i got her a job at a bar i work at. during a short breakup, she had sex with a co worker of ours. We are back together but i hate seeing them interact on a daily basis. Is it wrong of me to ask her to quit her ...

How does a shy 40 year old meet people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Hello Everyone I am a 40 yr old single female with a good job, independent and people have told me I am beautiful etc. I take care of myself, play tennis, eat right and as a result was able to maintain my youthful figure etc. The reason why ...

My friend has changed since he started dating this girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Okay, so, about a month ago one of my best friends started dating a girl. Ever since then, he's changed: -He skips our band rehearsals. -He ignores my other best friend and I when she's around. -He skips classes. -He all of a sudden hates skat...

Was he just keeping me warm, or does he like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - had a sleepover at my friend's house (lots of girls + guys sleeping in a big tent in her garden) her twin bro was there im good friends with him but nothing more but i was sleeping next to him + was shivering and he was SO nice like got me loads of ...

I've never kissed anyone. Will I look like a fool when the time comes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

13 September 2009 (?) - Hey, I don't really know where to start but i'm 15, nearly 16 and I have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or anything. It's not that I don't want to it's just that nothing has happened for me. Yes I have been asked out but I have said no ...

Should I give her another chance, even though she has lied to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Okay so ill make this as easy as possible to understand. Im 18, and my current girlfriend is 17. we dated for about one year and then had a nasty breakup. Hours after I broke up with her, I was calling and texting saying I was sorry and that I ...

I like this guy, but I don't think he even knows I exist! How can I make him notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - hey :) I go to the gym every Monday and I always see this boy, I think he is 17 and he is georgeous, I don't even think he knows I exist. He always smiles at me but that's about it and i want to like speak to him but I cant ramdomley just go...

Does he actually like me? Or does he just like hooking up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I just got out of a 3 year relationship a little while ago, I felt it had been over for awhile it was just a matter of someone stepping up and making it official. Recently started hooking up with this guy I met 2 years ago in college. I really like ...

How do you get over someone you truely love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - How do you get over someone you truely love, and have loved for more years than you can remember? I am in love with this wonderful man, but due to circumstances, I doubt we will ever be together. My heart aches for him, he makes me laugh, smile ...

My boyfriend doesn't care who I go out with. Does he really love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - My b/f loves me but is not at all possessive about me. I can go out with anybody and do whatever I feel like. He doent mind. On the other end I am extremely possessive about him and he respects it and feels really good about this . Then why he ...

In love with my best friend’s fiancé, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Here is my problem; I’ve fallen in love with my best friend’s fiancé. I’ll try to give you a little background about the situation. I’m currently a 22 year-old college student, during my freshmen year I meet a lot of new people, including my now ...

I love her, hate her b/f but I know he makes her happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - This is still about the same girl. One year later she is still with the same guy.... This summer i called her because one of our friends said that she wanted to talk, when i called her she wasn't even the one to answer the phone, it was the friend ...

Am I making a decision based on rationality or am I just fed up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We live together in my home and have children from previous relationships. He is still married and trying to get custody of his children. The children live here 1 week and at their mother's for another ...

I'm in love with a married man...HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I started interning for this company about a year ago. That's were I met him. He was my boss and a solid 18 years older than I am. There was no immediate attraction. I knew he was married and the thought of us being together never ever evvvverr ...

Becoming obsessed with g/f in LDR

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 11 months now and now I'm in college. We're staying together because we really do love each other. I find myself staying home and waiting for a call from her when she promised she would. For example, there ...

How do I find out if I'm his type?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Okay , so theres a guy . I asked about him in another question . He calls me names that aren't really that offensive ... kind of like he's flirting . He'll talk louder if he sees me , i guess to get my attention? He tells me how I should go out with ...

I'm always wondering if he's lying to me about doing drugs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - hi everyone im 21 and been with my boyfriend since i was 16 now i know it may sound stupid but i was lied to about drugs... Serious drugs... Now he claims he isnt doin them anymore and i wanna believe him but cant let the past go that he lied to me ...

Dated a girl, then her sister, now I want to date the 1st sister again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Ok when I was in 7th grade I was 14 going on 15 I started to date this girl who was 14 and in the 8th grade, we'll call her BB. I dated her for maybe 4 months and then the summer came. Over the summer I never saw or called her once, needless to say ...

B/f and I can't stop fighting and don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - hi im in need of help see me and my boyfriend have been having trouble lately we can not stop fighting and i dont know how to tell him my problems because he get every thing out of order well see we where having sex every day and night until i got ...

I can't do family functions with my girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Ive been with my girlfriend for over three years now. She is a recovering alcoholic, and has been sober for 19 months. At EVERY function with her family, (bday, fundraiser, visit, etc) the entire family is drinking. Somewhat heavily i might add. ...

He was trying to hook up and have sex with a girl on Craig's list

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - I need help with my relationship. Here's a little about it. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. He is my second boyfriend. I was with my ex for about 3 years. I conserve myself until marriage and I did not have sex with my ex; however,...

She has problem going from friend to girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

13 September 2009 (M) - Okay me and my friend started going out but before we did she told me she has a problem from going from friend to girlfriend. and I just said ok well now that we have been together she still acts the same and its kinda weird, and i guess bothers me ...

I don't love him but I love his son!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

13 September 2009 (F) - Ok heres the story short. I,m 17 and i,m talking to a guy ( 17 ) who i used to date we,ve lost contact over the past year and now he,s back and he has a son who is 9 months old. He says he wants me and only me. I want to say no to him but I keep ...