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Archived questions from: 27 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does this boy have a crush on me as well?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 June 2009 (?) - sorry for the length but i need a little help i have this crush but i dont see him often only when i go to my friends house his sister calls us love birds and we both laugh at it but when i see him we play b ball and it seems that he is showing of. ...

I know I love him but would I be better off without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - well i love him so much, and i know he loves me, but i am really confused. ok, so it is teenage love, but it does mean a lot. i spent ages trying to get him and went through a lot. now i finally have him. he was different in school and out of ...

How do I stay in touch with this boy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, Right, there is a boy who I have met who I really like and would just like some advice as how to keep contact with him. I saw him for the first time at a debating group I am part of. I didnt speak to him but added him on fac...

He flirts but there's no action! Is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Ok, I have known this guy for years, but we lost touch. We found each other again before Xmas, and have been chatting regularly via email and text message since then. He texts me every day, good morning, asking me how my day is going etc and often ...

Where did I go wrong? Everything was great at first and now he has me in limbo....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - what is happening??? I met this guy in january, he has the most bright smile i have ever seen, we just click, or at list a thought, he ask my help for a project he wanned to start, and we start to spend a lot of time together, he call me for what...

Loads of people say likes me so does he? I can't tell.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have a good friend and i never know if he likes me or not. we always slag each other, as he does with most of his girl friends though, but we tend to mess around a bit more than i've seen him do with others in the way that we'll pretend to try t...

How do I clear things up with the guy I've been leading on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - This guy who really likes me and I have been flirting a lot recently. My boyfriend hasn't been there for me in a long time, and I'm considering breaking up. The only problem is, I've been flirting with this guy only because I wanted to replace the ...

Do I say something to the girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - There's this girl who ive liked for a while and i think she likes me. Thing is she doesnt know i like her because i dont know her well enough to make a move. she is now going out with another boy. do i say something to her?...

Is he being polite or is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - There is a guy I like and I think he likes me too. He is always asking me to go to places where he and his friends hang out. The only thing is that he ALWAYS says to come if I have nothing better to do. I have heard guys say that to girls before. Is ...

Girls: would you stay with a guy that's so cheap and shallow?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - see i use to like this guy when he was studying with me i use to look at him in class because he's so cute well he asked me out and we've been going out for like 4 months and in this period i've never hated any one as much i do not like him when i ...

Confused about my sexuality. Could it be hormonal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm sixteen and I live in Cardiff, I've had boyfriends but it's never felt right and therefore the relationships have never lasted long. I'm not sure of my sexuality but not just because of the boyfriend thing, I think, well I have been attracted to ...

Any tips on how to meet men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Does anyone have any tips on how to meet a man (not online dating please)? I broke up with my long-term partner over a year ago and since then I have had one failure after the other. There has been Mr emotionaly unavailable; Mr I really like you ...

Is it good to be friends with a married colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I met a colleague at work, he was cute and cool to me he told me he lived alone and had a son who lived in another city. He flirted a bit with me and I thought he maybe was divorced or something so I did try to know him better, he looked really ...

Do Jewish men have some sort of weird sexual rituals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - ok I feel completely rediculous asking this question..I am dating a jewish man and is there some kind of funky sex thing before anyhting or I mean I dont think he is orthadox..well he is not so do they have some weird sex ritual or somthing...

Should I suggest we reconcile our relationship, while both of us are on a holiday in Jamaica?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I recently found out from my hairdresser that my child's father is going to Jamaica for the summer to do voluntary work. I saw him last week and mentioned that I willl be going on holiday to Jamaiaca. I did not mention that I heard he will be. ...

Having a baby-should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Should you stay with someone, just because you are having their baby? Hi, me and my ex boyfreind broke up late last year. We were together for a very long time, and i truly loved him, however i broke up with him, as i wasnt happy in the relations...

Why do I never orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 June 2009 (?) - I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we've had sex many many many times. He comes every single time but I've NEVER had an orgasm. Why is this?! Is there something wrong with my vagina? What am I doing wrong? The foreplay is AMAZING ...

What way do MEN act when they're in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hi guys, this question is for you men. I was wondering the way you act when you are in love, like do your hearts beat so fast when she calls, do you feel bad if she didn't call, do you keep remember her voice, her laugh, what she had said when she ...

Should I worry she's cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girl for 6 months now and things are great. But lately she has acting a little shady. she hides her myspace page and has been keeping her phone to herself a lot lately. she just recently confesed that her ex of 5 years has been ...

How can I save my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Was wondering if you could help... Been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months. Up until the last couple of weeks things have been going so well. We both agreed it's the first time we've felt proper happy and comfortable with...

Our first date tomorrow, should I kiss her or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I am going on a date tommorow with a girl from school, weve only talked a couple times but i asked her if she wanted to get lunch sometime and she said yes, so we set up a date tommorow. My question is at the end of the day when im dropping her ...

Am I cheating on my real boyfriend with my online guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hello, well i have a boyfriend in real, and i have maybe 9 guys online. i just wanted to know is it considered cheating on my real bf? and one guy i met online and know is planning to come see me!! im scared i will try to avoid it. am i che...

Help! He wants to have sex with me but I'm not ready. What shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and I have a boyfriend (16). Until yesterday, we were only kissing each other sometimes. But yesterday evening he wanted to have sex with me. I said i didnt want to, but he didnt listen and started to rape me. After I started crying ...

Help me understand what he is thinking. (BOYS help me with this one!)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have currently been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the last 8 months. We struggled but we made it work. Yesterday he moved back to my home town, and we had a great night.. I finally remembered why I loved him. The long distance was making t...

Should I fly and see my ex, who has a gf, or should I wait for him to come to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My ex and I dated for three years, one of those years was our freshman year in college. After that, my family's business was suddenly not doing well, and I needed to come home, as there was not enough money for tuition. We broke up and since, he ...

I don't want to push him away?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Hey. So this is going to be kind of long. But I am really stressed out right now. I usually tend to be over analytical, but please, I need some help. So I met this amazing guy on an internet dating site. I know, I NEVER imagined that I ...

He's stopped texting me -- have we broken up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - he just stopped texting me and im assuming we're broken up. its painful to just act like nothing happened and move on. i know it will not be a good idea to contact him. all my friends say wait for him to contact you, but im in pain. what do i do?? ...

He says he's over being bi-sexual, but ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy who used to be bisexual, he says its in the past and that it was just a phase in his life and i believe him when he says it but sometimes i feel that its not in his past, like when we try to be intimate with one another, he ...

Which one to chose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend just broke up and im ready to me move on. its between three guys.1 matt hes always been there i have been with him multiple times and iknow he will always be the one ill go to. He is tall and has dark hair and tan skin wit...

Why doesn't he just leave me alone and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. When we first met he was a sweetheart and would do anything for me and made me feel very special. He was proud of my medical studies as I am a med student and he was very encouraging but after ...

Confused and hurt! Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 5 years. Our relationship started out sexual (bad start huh?). Then it grew to love. He was my first love and I lost my virginity to him also. I was 20 years old. He later, after a year, decided in his mind he didn't want ...

Will he marry me? I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was perfect for two years. suddenly he went back in his hometown and after come back he stared ignoring me and didn't want to talked with me too much and one day he said , he don't want to be with me anymore and after one week I heard ...

I know that I'd like to try dating him one more time. Should I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so I think I realized i'm either a) in love with my best friend or b) in love with our friendship. We've been best friends for about 4 years now. We've dated once for a period of 3 months. Our relationship didn't really go anywhere because ...

How do I get her to warm up to me but at the same time keep it casual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Hi i'm asking this question because i'm in a situation that i've never been in before and i'm not too sure on what to do or steps to take. I met this girl, who I took to my formal and she took me to hers, we were just friends, and had a mutual ...

I'm a great guy! Why cant I find love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Hi I am a athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with someone els...

Should I really move on? Everyone is telling me I'm in denial.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I'm so confused cuz I love a man who has been abusive with me and the last incident was yesterday when he tried grabbing me by my hair for trying to get out of his car. I broke this relationship off cuz I'm so tired of his bullshit and excuses on ...

Is it wrong to go for it if I'm not 100% sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - I've been talking with a girl a year younger than me for about two months now. I think she's a very kind, attractive and interesting person, but I just don't know if I really like her. I've flirted with her a lot in person, over text and on the ...

Is he in this just for sex? Why would he message another woman? Does he really care? Do I dump him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have a pretty big problem right now. My bf and I met through an online dating website. We have been together for about a month and have decided we are exclusive. Anyway I decided to log onto the website we met just to see if he was still using it, ...

Having problems with my girl - I need your help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - My girlfrien has been acting funny, we went from talking and texting like crazy to no it seems like she is just talking to me, to make me happy. She went on a 3 day trip for work and said "don't know if I will have time to call during the trip" What ...

Ladies: Are the flowers and chocolates I send making her distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Here is a question for the women. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. In that time I always sent her flowers and choclates. Which I know she loved. Because of her hectic schedule I never knew if she would be there to get them before ...

I think this guy really likes me but I cant tell for sure! I don't want to seem desperate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - I have a guy friend who I think is mad with me! How would I know! I can't ask him because he won't talk to me. He likes me so much but it kills me that he won't talk to me online or text. I will not see him at all this summer and thats the only way ...

For the guys: If you were showing all the signs of being into one girl, would you be likely to see others too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Out of curiousity for all you men out there- If you met a girl and are seeing her for a month, and you text her everyday and you ask all your friends (that are friends with her) about her and you mention her to your close family, are you likely t...