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Archived questions from: 23 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He is sooooo controlling! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend reformatted the computer so I lost all the pictures of the last two years of my children and very dear things to me. I tried to find other software I used and needed and nothing works. I need some private corner of my world to go to ...

Can anyone help me make sense of this behaviour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race c...

How long was your first kiss with a new person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - This is just a general question. But when you had your first kiss ever, or even a first kiss with a new person, how long did it last? Because I had my first kiss ever a few weeks ago and it lasted for over an hour. We obviously broke apart t...

When is it that friendship starts becoming destructive and harmful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I have a very complicated situation with a girl... I used to work with her, and we would talk all the time at work. After a few weeks, I was completely smitten with this girl... and it was around Christmas at the time, so I bought her a really e...

I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpo...

My friends are advising me to cut her off but I'm not sure what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - So I am currently seeing this girl... we both expressed our feelings towards each other recently and she really adores me and she admitted that she found happiness with me, honestly she is everything I ever wanted, but she has some problems in her ...

Do you think I need counseling? Or do I just need to let more things slide??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years now. Living together for a little over two years. We recently broke up because he said his family thinks im not treating him right. Let me first say that I love this guy with all my heart and I go out of ...

If love were easy everyone would do it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I need some help sorting out my feelings right now so I'm hoping you will have some insight. Here's the story: I've been dating the same guy since high school, which means that now we've been together for 11 years (and married for the last 1.5 yea...

Caught watching porn by my brother's friend... help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - earlier today i got caught looking at a pornish video and im really embarrassed about it. let me explain... ok so i was talking to my friend on IM and he linked me a video that was supose to have a funny ending, i told him i didnt wanna watch it b...

He is so selfish and has really hurt me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My heart is breaking, my partner and i have not been getting on for a while and we have had a temporary seperation. We have been living apart for almost 4 weeks now but he is here all the time, but yet he wont commit to the things he promised.. ...

Do long distance relationships survive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful...

Dilemma over morals.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both musicians. Recently, I applied for a position at a church along with him and was hired.. When I looked on my title, It said music minister. My boyfriend and I live together and the Church from what I gather thinks we are ...

He wants me to sleep with another woman but I'm not sure...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I know this is probably going to be a stupid question in the long run and i kinda think i know my answer i just want others advice also, good or bad i will take. so my fiance of 3 years has asked if i would be interested in sleeping with another ...

Ghosts of past relationships are eroding our trust

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over the past year. I love him unconditionally and the moment we started dating, I have been nothing but faithful. Before I started dating him, I had a past - as all relationships do. I had had sex with one...

Help! What can I do to make my boyfriend feel really special?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone! I'm still stuck on how to make my boyfriend feel special, we both live with our parents thus limiting some of the things we can do, we're also both students (im in college, hes about to start uni) so i dont have much money... Does...

Why kiss like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi. I asked this question a few weeks ago but things are still no different. My boyfriend when he writes/texts me tells me he loves me and I am his rock etc etc. But when he kisses me his eyes are HALF OPEN and his tongue never really enters m...

Should I ask my yoga instructor out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Hello, Last week I took a yoga class at the library. The instructor was quite pretty. I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if it's appropriate. The reason I say that is because I mentioned to her I was going to send off an article about he...

Help me get over this crush...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - i have a big crush on someone but i dont know how to handle it. i know that a crush is a crush is a crush and a part of me doesn't want it to go away but i know i have to get over it and i dont know how to please how do i get over a crush...

If you're in an LDR and it's working, PLEASE respond!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I need to know if Long distance relationships work. So for all of you in happy LDR's, please respond and tell me that they work and you're happy. Also, how often do you see eachother? the guy i like is 6 hours away from me and we both are broke ...

I have a boyfriend but I may just have feelings for this other guy! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - okay, Dilemma. I have a boyfriend, a past guy hurt me and now he is trying to come back into my life. the story: I moved schools and met a really nice guy (he had a gf). So at first it was really nothing, at least to me it was just a fr...

I'm confused about my feelings for these guys and need some advice...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - - broke up with the "love of my life" (1) - string of bad experiences with lads - started seeing a boy(2) i have known for years, we're good friends, used to really really like him, however, managed to then keep it at just a sexual and close friend...

How do you approach a girl while at the gym?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I go to the gym about 5 times a week and lately I've been noticing this girl who always seems to coincide with me in the ab workout section, I'm kinda shy and I just wouldn't know what to say to "break the ice" sometimes she glances my way and ...

He loves me...asks for number...but didn't call!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hi there I was wondering if a man said he loves a girl and he can't stop thinking of her, then wants her number very much. She gave it to him but he rarely calls her. How come?...

Scared about meeting my guy's friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - So tomorrow I'll be meeting my boyfriends roomates for the first time. He lives with his best friend of 10 years and his fiance, so it's a little more important than just meeting his friends for the first time, more like family. I'm completely...

Ugly old man doesn't want to seriously commit to attractive younger woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I am a young woman who is currently dating an old man. He is 24 yrs older than me. He is not very attractive at all, most of my associates find him kind of old and creepy. I chose to be with him because I thought I would at least find real love. ...

I need more confidence but I don't want to be like my mouthy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - hi aunts and uncles i'd really like to know how to be confident i've never really had the confidence in myself and i've never known how to have it either. everytime i think positive something knocks me back so i fight back and try again. i'v...

What would be the best way to get answers without making myself look like a idiot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - hi all, i posted a question yesterday booty call vs feelings and got some grate replys now this bloke seems very kind an likes to please me he likes it when i say iv enjoyed something he has done for me and he makes me feel safe, something i have ...

I'm a 22 yrs old virgin who has never been kissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Some background might help you all understand this predicament I am in. Right now I'm in the toughest place I have ever been, went into the Navy from high school, got out semi-unexpectedly after about 3.5 yrs, no idea what I am going to do with ...

How do I ask her out?...I've only been with men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I’ve only been with men, but have always had crushes on women. Nothing has ever happened as I’ve never acted on them. They are getting stronger as I get older. I feel like I need to explore this. My current crush is on a specialist (think ...

When would it be right for me to tell him I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have found the one! I'm madly in love with him! I've known him since high school. We've been best friends for 6 years. Then dated for 2 and a half years. But for the past 6 months he has been stressed out. (Not by me- with work and family) ...

I'm not fond of ruining relationships, but she is amazing...what should we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I've been talking to this girl I work with a lot lately and we've really hit it off. I get along with her better than I get along with my best friend. Well, I'm really into her and I just recently found out she feels the same. But here's the catch: ...

My girlfriend hasn't told her kids about our relationship, it's bothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now. We had a long distance relationship and we finally met this past January. She lives in another country, and we have talk about a future together. I love her very much, but it bothers me to kn...

Will he still pursue you if you want more than a casual relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 2yrs now, and we've had the talk abt our future 2gthr where does he want 2 take it from here, I've told him that I'm n love w/him and would like 4 him to b apart of my future. He says that he wants to be w/me as ...

Boat betrayal.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My very committed boyfriend has a best friend who is another girl. They have been best friends for years and had a sexual thing once (despite her feelings for him which lasted much longer) but seem to only hangout and talk when I am not around. He ...

She was my best friend as well as my girlfriend but now her parents are sending her to a different school...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so this is what happened: I am a girl and about three months ago my girlfriend and I started going out without telling anyone. Then he parents found out and her mother especially wasen't to keen on the idea of us since we're both girls. For ...

My boyfriend treats me like a doll!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend treats me like a doll. He loves to hold me and carry me around, and he's always telling me how adorable I am. He treats me like I'm his to protect and love, like a flower he's trying to get to bloom, why do some guys do this?...

Is it wrong/silly to end a great long term relationship to be alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I am 28 years old and I have never been single. I adore my boyfriend but I often feel like I am missing out on the time alone to learn about myself that everyone else but me seems to have had. I can never seem to make decisions about anything, I am ...

Is it normal for me to have doubts about our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and we love each other, we lived in the same island at first, but then he went back to the states and we haven't seen each other in four months, I know we have a strong relationship, but ...

Help! There MUST be a way to get him back! Suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 1.5 years, and along the way I met another guy. We started talking and to make a long story short, I dumped my ex for the new guy. I still loved my ex, but I was learning to letting him go.. but I was very much in love with my ...

I love my boyfriend to bits so why do I keep thinking about other guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Let me start by saying that I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now and this is the only relationship I've ever been in. My problem ...

Why do I stop his advances?

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23 June 2009 (?) - Hi! I have a friend, and he's somewhere in between a friend with (limited) benefits and a boyfriend to me. Our relationship is odd, but that's not the focus of my question. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to say this right: If ever we're kis...