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Archived questions from: 2 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm in love, but I honestly wonder about him...

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2 June 2009 (F) - Help. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months but we were friends for over a year before we started dating. We know EVERYTHING about each other and I love him more than anything. He means absolutely the world to me. We don't fight or argue ev...

Flirting problem

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2 June 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with an assistant manager that I love a lot. So, in order to keep this going I have to keep it a secret from the head manager and other co-workers. So I started flirting with another assistant and his friend that is a cook and ...

Is there the slightest possibility that I could be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I don't have sex with my boyfriend, though I give him a blow job and he fingers me. But there's no erection going on, no sperm or whatsoever. Sometimes we dry hump with clothes on and still, whenever I ask him if he has an erection, he'd tell me, ...

He never turned me on. Were we doing something wrong???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend a little while ago, it didn't last long (about a month) but by the end of it we had gone to 3rd. I wasn't all that into him, but I liked him enough. Thing is, when we did anything, it didn't feel all that great. My nipples never go...

How can I persuade my boyfriend to get closer to me?

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2 June 2009 (F) - I really like my boyfriend Kyle but the thing is we have been going out for a month and a half... I reallly want him to hug me, kiss me, hold hands, etc but he wont. I am his first girlfriend too but I dont think he'll do it to me when I ask for one ...

My girlfriend is in PA and I'm in NJ

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2 June 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my gf, started out as friends and then decided to go out. we've been going out for about a year and a few months. and she lives in PA and I live somewhere south of NJ, by Trenton. I dont drive and neither does she, I feel like I need ...

After I told her I love her, she hasn't been chatting to me anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 June 2009 (M) - i told the girl that i like that i liked her and she thought it was sweet and the other day she managed to make me say that i lover her which i do but i knew that i shouldn't say it to her because i may freaker out and i still want to be friends but ...

How do I become attracted to her again?

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2 June 2009 (M) - Basically, been with my girlfriend for a year and i love her to bits but i'm totally unattracted to her now, she lost her job and has went WAY down hill, she just sits around all day, today i got offered a job and she went mental, but the thing is ...

When should I tell him? Before we meet, or in person?

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2 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I have asked a couple of questions before and want to thank firsthand for the good answers. I met this guy by accident, over the phone, it was a work related conversation that led to talk about us and exchange phone numbers. I called him a co...

I don't want to feel like a cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I DON'T WANT TO FEEL LIKE A CHEAT! I am visiting my LDR boyfriend who I love dearly this weekend. As coincedence has it - there is another guy who I know from the same town who I havn't seen for ages but he desperately wants to meet up with me. Ther...

Do I have a chance with this 40 year old bachelor? Or is he too set in his ways?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I play bowls each week with 2 guys who are mates. They are both 40, never married and not had girlfriends for at least 10 years. They seem to be terrified of dating women. They are attractive and I have noticed women come on to them but it seems to ...

I really fancy him! How do I get to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - Okay, I've fancied this boy for a year. We are both coming to the end of year ten~i am fourteen and he is fifteen. Last summer we both fancied each other but neither of us did anything about it and now I think he might be bored of me. I still r...

Is it love? Or head over heels in love?

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2 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have an amazing friendship, and there is so much passion between us, we enjoy each other emotionally and physically so much. I live somewhere else and spend most of my time with him at his house. Im even finding myself sleeping ...

Its hard for me to take things slow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (?) - I have only been dating this guy for a few weeks but i had such a chemical attraction to him from the very beginning. He says he is interested in seeing where our relationship will go, but he wants to take things slow. I am intellectually 100% OK ...

Does this mean my hymen isn't there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - hey, im not exactly planning on rushing into sex just yet, im 17, and im proud to still be a virgin, ive been with my boyfriend now for almost 6 months, and im not stupid.. i know sex is going to happen soon, and ive heard most people bleed on their ...

Want to increase my libido, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - How do I increase my libido? I really enjoy sex but latley I've just not had any drive. I feel bad because my boyfriend, bless his heart, is always horny! And I'm not. It upsets me because I don't have the urge like I used to. Any Suggestions would ...

What could be the reason my girlfriend does not like oral sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

2 June 2009 (M) - My GF won't let me go down on her. We are 23, been dating for almost 2 years, and live together. I'm just trying to figure this out. I really want to go down on her, it is such a turn on, but she won't let me. Sometimes, rarely, she'll let me...

My girlfriend needs a break, I complied, what can I do to keep her?

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2 June 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of 5 years has told me she needs a break and have agreed only because i love her so much i do not want to lose her and after reading some of the other replies here i guess i know what it is i need to do. I just needed to vent but if ...

His drinking , non-interest in sex or communicating is destroying our relationship, suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I would really appreciate some help with my dilema. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. Things moved along quite quickly and he told me he loved me quite quickly. The feelings were soon recipricated on my half. We only see each other at...

Made an off-color joke about her mom's cancer, apologized many times, she is unresponsive, should I move on or is there more I could do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (M) - Hi thanks in advance for your advice. My brothers girlfriend has a female friend who I have met a couple of times and she apparently likes me. Well this weekend she had planned to come over and stay with me at my house at uni for the sat and Sunday ...

I feel like I've lost The One

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I met a guy on the internet almost a year ago. We got chatting over msn, and the first ever time we spoke we spoke for something crazy like 12 hours. We spoke this much every day for a month. We never ever ran out of things to say, it always kept ...

I like him but I need time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - What do you do when you are in a rebound relationship after your divorce 6 months ago, you like the man but he's in love and wants to know whether you love him the same way or not right away? I like him but I need time. He seems to know that he ...

Talking to a girl I like for weeks, but we've run out of things to say! What can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (M) - Hi, I've been talking to a girl for a little while over MSN. We've gotten closer over the past few days, and we've arranged to meet in a week or so. Trouble is, we seem to be at a point where we can't think of anything to talk about. It's like we've ...

I want him to know this is a bad idea

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I'm worried about my friend because his foreign exchange girlfriend is coming back for the summer. She was sent back home for bad behavior, being disrespectful to her host family, and smoking. He claims to be in love with her but this really upsets ...

Stay until time comes, or go where the military takes us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - Okay so here it is: I've known my best guy friend sense we were both 7 years old.. which makes 10 years. I've secretly liked him ever sense we started going to middle school. He still lives right across the street from me. He called me last F...

Shy and long distance, why should I do?

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2 June 2009 (F) - I recently met the oldest son of a family friend. We've seen one another only twice (different schools) but I have heard many things about him from his brothers and it seems like we'd be compatible. We've texted several times and it's going well, ...

Am I ready? And how do I let men know?

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2 June 2009 (F) - I am afraid of becoming a dating reject. It's been almost three months since my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. I can't tell whether I am ready to date or not..and if I am ready to date, then why is it that I have no male interests? All of ...

Wiait for him to sort out his life, or see someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I met the love of my life just over a year ago now, both felt an instant attraction to each other, but he's engaged so we became "friends" instead. Over 6 months we fell in love with each other, very deeply, without even realising it was happenin...

Dating, but not going anywhere, should I split?

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2 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 6 months. We were good friends before we started hooking up and He doesn't get with anyone else but he still has not tried being serious. He tells people we are together but we arent official and I just don't ...

I like this guy and I need gift ideas!

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2 June 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year now, and he's bought me a shirt from Hawaii and a cute cell phone charm from Japantown in San Francisco. I want to get him something, and I know he likes metal roses. I'm not sure what to get him though. A cell ...

I want to travel, he wants to save for a house, shouldn't there be a middle ground?

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2 June 2009 (F) - My bf is hellbent on buying a home before he turns 45 next year. Of course as his girl I am being sensible and saving with him, but we never DO anything. In 5 years we have been on 3 holidays, each one less than a week long and 2 of the 3 were ...

Promising relationship off to a rocky start

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I'm facing a difficult problem. The guy I am currently with slept with someone else. He did NOT "cheat" because we weren't committed to each other at the time. But we were involved, and he knew I had been cheated on in my past relationship, so I ...

Molested as a child and she is not open about sex, strain on relationship, any advice is appreciated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

2 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating my gf for 6 months and she told me about her childhood molestation 2 months into our relationship. She's very shy about sex and would not let me do oral on her...so I've not pushed her and gave her as much time as she needs. I'm not ...

I walked out after 3 years, he talks with, dates other women. proclaims it's nothing, is he just a cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I walked out on my boyfriend a few days ago after learning that he had been talking on the phone with a woman that I asked him not to talk to. I had an altercation with her and thought that they stopped talking but they have been talking lately ...

I am so afraid of losing him but I guess I never had him anyway....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

2 June 2009 (F) - I went out with this guy a few months ago. His girlfriend was away for about a month the first time we went out and I told him I didnt want to get hurt and that I trusted him because he was an old friend of my family. Anyway, he told me he was so ...