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Archived questions from: 5 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have a boyfriend I care about, but a friend I prefer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - hello, i'm Shadow Tears, i have a problem. you see, I've been dating this guy for a while now, (a little more then 2 months) and i care about him, (i'm not madly in love with him but I've known him for like five years, so i care) but i ...

I should have told him in person that I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Okay well, i'm in the sea cadets and recently i went on a training navy course on a ship called ts royalist.. and on the ship .. i met this guy .. who is the perfect guy for me.. i can barely breath everytime i think of him.. but he lives in wales ...

Do I love her? Should I get her back? I need help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - So, I started dating this girl in HS. She was my first g/f and we dated 2 yrs. I broke up with once after a 1 1/2 years then asked her out again for another 1/2 yr and then broke up with here again. Soon after I started dating another girl for 10 ...

Don't want to push him away, but don't want him to seem I don't care.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I met up with a guy i use to go to school with in February of this year. He was so loving and did everything he could for me. He txt several times a day and rang until the beginning of May. I was on a night out with friends and at the start of the ...

I hinted that I wanted to be his girlfriend and now he's been distant

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5 June 2009 (F) - Hi everybody, I started seeing a guy I've known through work for about 2 years 6 weeks ago. He's absolutely lovely as in paying his way, taking me to the cinema and generally looking after me. However, this is when we're together. We live about 45...

I'm afraid that boys will only see me as a friend. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hey =) I'm 13 years old, and alot of people call me weird,stupid, dumb even my friends haha. I am always laughing and happy, although I can be serious when I need to be. I laugh at alot of things that people don't and I am always friendly towards...

Should I risk being too forward, or risk losing her to someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I've known this girl at my school for a couple months now. We sit next to each other in history class. She is pretty flirty with me. We make jokes, poke fun at each other, etc. We talk a lot on Facebook; we've spent the last couple of days talking ...

With my girlfriend, but still in love with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I first met her at my high school. I was in the 11th grade and she was a grade below. She had just transferred to my school. She was single,I was in a long distance relationship with my present girlfriend. We met up alot because she was friends ...

I don't want him to know I am inexperienced

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I'm don't know whats wrong with me, I am so uptight when it comes to guys. I have never had a boyfriend but this really good looking guy hit on me and we kissed and it was great, he was very upfront and said that he doesn't want a girlfriend he ...

I'm really interested, but I don't know how to approach him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I'd love it if someone could help me, I'm being driven insane! There's this guy that I like and I've only seen him around for about a year, and up until about 2 months ago, I never really paid much attention to him. But now he's all I think ab...

Love triangle among friends - what would you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I want to know how different people respond to situations like this. Heres the issue. Guy A, Girl A and Girl B are both your good friends. Good as in the few of your always hang out together. whether it is a gathering, group studies or parti...

Is he interested or not? It seems he only wants to hang out at the gym!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Hello, I was wondering if anyone could offer some insight into my problem So I meant someone at the gym I go to, a couple of months ago. We exchanged phone numbers and we would talk and text daily. A little over a month ago, he, finally, a...

I'm worried she thinks I like her...I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - okay so here it is, Yesterday was our last day of school, we were all taking photo's and things, and anyway things quietened down, i'll cut to it, me and this girl ended up kissing, i think she's really hot, but i dont fancy her and i think sh...

He doesn't want to see me any more, but I know he cares?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - i have been seeing a guy for the past 4years.its had its up and downs. he has felt that i have put constant pressure on him and am probably guilty of it. when we are together we normally get along fine. lack of time is the problem and i put pressure ...

He always says how wonderful his ex is, I worry they might meet while I'm away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I think is going ok. He talks about his ex since ive been with him and always says how wonderful she is, he split up with his ex when he was 22 years old, now he's 34. He keeps a photo of...

Snuggling...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Does anyone have any tips on how to 'snuggle' with a girl? And maybe while 'snuggling' lead onto other stuf? thanks,...

A mother's advice needed - I'm a father who needs help understanding women.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I truly feel I have to explain a little background. I just got out of a seven year rocky relationship with the mother of beautiful baby girl who is the true holder of my heart. I was in no way inocent in all our problems but definatly not the only ...

My friends say he might like me. Any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - So i really really really like this guy more than anyone i've ever liked before i can never stop myself from staring at him, i think about him every single minute of the day and my heart beats 3894723847829374 times a minutes when im near him im ...

Now that I found my true love, why is it so hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a few months now. The time span seems to be short and new yet so many things have happened already. Infidelity (on both parts), hitting (I will explain this further), and just disresp...

It's been a long time since we dated, should I still try for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and she's 18 now. We dated for a short time starting in December '06. Every few months she still reminds me that she loves me and would like a second chance, but I always said no because since then she has dated around 22 guys (not even ...

How to get over first love after years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - Hello, I'll try to explain my story the best i can, i guess i can be considered to be someone with a tough time getting through an old love story and, i guess, some self-esteem issue. I'll just tell you my story a bit so, i don't know, it...

She got feelings for me and our friendship is ruined!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

5 June 2009 (M) - so im 16 years old and my teaching set changed this year and there was this girl that i didnt usually talk to, but this year she sits next to me (alphabetical) and i got to know her and i was nice to her but as a friend and she started to get ...

There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...

I'm dating someone who my best friend also liked...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just started dating but the problem is my best friend likes him and she liked him frist. At first I didn't feel the guilt because I was happy but now I feel sooo guilty and for some reason now I hate him. Please help me with my ...

How can I improve my self-esteem so I can enjoy my relationship to the fullest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - A few years ago, I was involved in an unhealthy relationship. He cheatd on me, though I took him back only to have it happen again. I tried so hard but he just let me down, while trying to keep me running after him. I got out of there and got stro...

I have major trust issues with men. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I think I have a problem with men. And, I think this problem originates from the way I was taught to perceive men as a child. My father is not a bad man, not compared to a lot of fathers. He provided for his family and gave us the things we needed ...

How can I tell him that I actually do like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I like this boy a lot and I want him to know. I also think he likes me too. I have liked him since September and it's now June and we have 1 week of school left. He has asked me many times before did I like him but I have always said no thinking the ...

He was perfect...and now he's married. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - Ok so here's the problem: 7 years ago I met my dream guy, as close to perfect as a man gets...only thing is, I wasn't ready at the time. He tried to help me get into college...he was always there for me, we talked for hours, he was just amazing, but ...

My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - I am 62 years old, my partner is 40. I am tired, she wants to party. I understand that, I was there. WE ARE GAY. My mind still wants sex, but my body says no. I am scared of the future. Help me. ...

I bought a vibrator...should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I love each other very much and have tons of sex, and I enjoy it a lot. He has been trying REALLY hard to get me to orgasm, but I just can't ever seem to get there (haven't ever had one). We've gone to visit our families...