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Archived questions from: 13 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Help me understand my boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - Right, well i've been with this guy for nearly 9 months now, and it's the most serious relationship ether of us has ever had. We've both had kinda rough childhoods tbh I've just gotten over a really rough time in my life, and for the first time i'm ...

Is our relationship a recipe for disaster?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

13 June 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for over two years with a girl who recently said she needs some space to think about things and to think about if she can be romantically attatched to me again. She admittedly believes that we had an incredible sex ...

My boyfriend seems so selfish and only cares about himself! It's making me ask myself... should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - In short, I've been with my boyfriend for just over five years now. We were due to get married at the end of march this year, but I called off the wedding because it didn't feel right and he banned my brother from the wedding. My family don't ...

How do you know when your in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) - How do you know when you are officially in a relationship? I'm new at this dating thing and don't quite understand. Is there a "talk" that you have so it's known as exclusive? Do I ask this question or wait for him to bring it up? If have been ...

My boyfriend of over a year may be moving to new york what do I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf Matt have been together since april of 2008 and I love him more than anything else .. And I can't see myself without him now .. He and his family may be moving to new york and I couldn't stand the thought of him leaving .. He says he'd ...

I cheated, she met another man, should we stay together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - My gal was a virgin when i met her and unfortunately i was too. I say unfortunately coz i had a fuck buddy sometime after i met her. After i broke up that really had a toll on her and i made up after realisin i made a mistake, about 3weeks after we ...

Did the poem scare him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - Feel a bit silly asking this at my age - 43 - but I started seeing a new man about a month ago. Although we've only been out three times he has been texting me a lot in between and so it feels like we've been out more. He is in the process of ...

Am I stupid for being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - hello. I have been dating a guy for about a year and we agreed that we would be exclusive. I have many male friends who I've known for 10+ years. And, he has many female friends who he has known for a very long time. We are both fine with this. ...

Why is my gf acting so strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (M) - hello dear readers:) i'm at my first year at the university i was dating a girl for 4 months, we've been even leaving together for a month, because her parents took a long vacation.And some days ago , she practically doesn't talk to me, even ...

Guys, are erection (or lack of) cases like this common?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - My guy has had sex with only one girl before me. Lately he claims he can nolonger get erections for other girls other than me. Yeah, he realised that coz he has tried to cheat on me severally :-( While am happy he cant erect for others am worried ...

How can I stop my friend coming between me and my gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

13 June 2009 (M) - I have a girlfriend which we’ve been together for some months now, and till now every thing seems to be just going fine. She is sweet, mature and fun; she’s the girl I’ve been looking in my life. But I do have a problem and I really would appreciate ...

Isn't it wrong for a guy to tell a girl that his feelings for her are merely physical?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - There is this guy whom i really like actualy love. I've known him for almost a year now. am sooo attracted to him. like his the only guy on my mind.his the type of guy am searching for.to the point where am not giving a chance to any guys because ...

Should I forget about him or offer him a shoulder to cry on if she cheats again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - for the past few months i have had a crush on a boy that i know. we used to be friend and he even said that he liked me as more than a friend but a month ago one of my mates asked him out and he said yes. ever since they started going out, he hasn't ...

I love her yet I hate her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 June 2009 (M) - well now. here I am again. I have been on here a couple of times. it started wit a girl I fell in love with and we became a lot more than just friends. I've bent over backwards for this girl and then some. I want nothing more than to make her happy. ...

Is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) - hi, erm well firstly this lad... he's not a bad lad in the slightest really. but back in february i got one of my friends to ask him out and he said no i am not ready for a relationship (he has had other girlfriends before though) i on the otherhand ...

My bf is always slagging women off!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - This all started a while ago, me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and I used to be able to just ignore it but now it's getting ridiculous. My boyfriend has had a bad past with girlfriends, cheating, stealing, using etc and he...

Lost my virginity to my brothers friend, who has a gf and I'm starting to get attached to him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) - Ok well I'm 18 and the guy im secretly seeing is 22. Yes we have sex and what not but the problem is he has a girlfriend. Oh i lost my v card to him and he's my brothers close friend. but obviously no one knows that me and him are messing around ...

I cant make up my mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I can't make up my mind!!! I dated this guy for 4 years, nothing happened, we talked about marriage apparently only when he was drunk and feeling emotional. Anyways. I lost my job, he offered me one and now I am working for him making barely 1...

Not sure I should commit to any one of these guys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm caught in an odd situation--I broke up with my best friend/boyfriend a month ago. I loved him so much. Bad breakup. Long story. I was heartbroken (please don't tell me that because I'm 15 it's not love... I've heard it before)....

If we keep spending time together will it change his mind about a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I still like my ex boyfriend, and i know now that he doesnt want to date me. When we talked about it, his exact words were "i dont want any relationships, i just wanna fuck." Do you think if we kept sending time together that he would change his ...

Should I tell him what's bugging me?

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13 June 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do. I have been dating this guy for 4 months and things seem a little weird now. we used to talk everyday and last week we never talked at all then he texted me and asked if he did anything to make me mad he thought I was mad at ...

So lonely my heart hurts.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I'm a 21 year old female, I have style, class, intelligence and am always warm to others. But I am so alone my heart literally hurts. I moved around allot in my high school years and ended up being home schooled. I have no real friends outside of ...

How could he not know that I wanted to see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now. Thought it was going really well. Talk to him every night on phone and meet up with him when we both can as we live 2 hours away and both have kids. Last night we had planned for him to come ...

His facebook activitie worry, irritate and annoy me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - My guy has dumped me uncountable times even on facebook (blah blah ended their relationship) He flirts with almost every gal, and some of them have a crush on him. He inboxes his ex fuck buddy that his loins burn for her and he misses her, he even ...

I haven't had a relationship in ten years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (M) - Man, I haven't been with a women in ten years. I've moved to house to house at least three times in those ten years. I spend most of my time looking for full time work; and hanging with friends; but no girlfriend or Women. I'm African American and ...

What is so attractive about the bad boys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I'm perplexed at the number of women who tell me they want a man who is nice to them, but in reality, the men they are attracted to and form relationships with are "bad boys." Then they spend their time complaining about how the bad boy behaves and ...

If my parents find out that I have a boyfriend they will freak!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - Please someone help, I am in so much trouble, And I hope I can get the answer in the next couple of days... Okay, I'm 14. You know how most teens like to hide their relationship from their parents? Well I'm one of them, and if my parents find out...