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Dating: Help and advice

How do I stop his horrible habits?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for nearly 9 months and love him to bits, but over the last month realised he has a lot of horrible habits. They've gotten to the point where I just get really frustrated and p'd off. He gets too comfortable, ...

Get involved with someone my own age?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I am 17 and have recently been on a few dates with a really nice guy Only thing is he is 6 years older than me and has a 2 year old kid I am in the middle of my A Levels and come from a well off bacgkground and am planning on going to university ne...

Why aren't I good enough for him any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend flirts with other girls... but not just any girls. My best friends... while I'm there! We've been going out a while, few months and we're both the same age really. I'm almost 14, he is. He is also kind of pressuring me into sexual ...

Sex 101

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

1 June 2009 (F) - Hello all! I am really looking for some male help on this one. My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are pretty open to trying new things but lately things have been a little boring. We have done the role play and used the products, ...

New man, new house, New life??

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1 June 2009 (F) - Cupid readers, this is my question. I am 21 living with my parents. My 3 year old also lives with us. She was raised with my mom and dad around every day! I am now in a relationship and we're getting married. This man is not her father, he was never ...

This other woman seems to be getting too close to my boyfriend for comfort!

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1 June 2009 (F) - Ok, first off... I do realise how silly this is going to sound, I just wanted other peoples opinions on it to help get a better perspective. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship while he's at Uni. We both have myspace accounts...

Could I ever become more to this guy?

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1 June 2009 (F) - Hiya! My name is Kate, I am 21 and I have been chatting to this lovely man who of which is 44 via email for the past 1 and a half years! I met him on a dating site, as I joint it to suport my friend who wanted to meet someone (I was forced to lol) ...

How can I stop feeling so insecure in this relationship?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I first met my boyfriend through my cousin. My cousin was dating his brother at that time. my cousin, her boyfriend (my boyfriends brother), and him brought me to some house... Well at that time we were just friends. He brought us over to a house ...

How can I stop her depression from dragging me down?

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1 June 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 months is going through some depression. I've tried all i can to be nice and supportive but she keeps shutting me down, and snapping at me whenever I offer support or anything. She also has been very distant, it takes her hours ...

What is Love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 June 2009 (?) - I wrote this for someone else in a discussion about what is love...this is my 1000th post. Salutations to you all, its been a fun journey. Hugs Star.x. What is real love... Love, has long been studied by artists, the clergy, scientists,...

How can I fit in with my boyfriends lifestyle?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I am 21 and he is 26. We are serious about each other. He is in a full time heavy metal band. Ive recently moved into the city with him, and I dont see any of my friends anymore. So I hang out with his ...

Is it ok to start dating before a divorce has been finalized?

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1 June 2009 (F) - If one spouse is unfaithful to the other in marriage, when is it right for the honest one to date? Is okay when they have decided in thier heart they do not want to continue with the marriage, but are still married or when they finalize the divorce?...

Is liking my best friend's ex wrong?

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1 June 2009 (F) - i might like a boy who is a year younget than me. i told my friend but it happens to be her ex from 2 years ago. she got mad and wont talk to me... she turned every one against me and its been like this for 4 weeks now. and its getting to me reall...

I'm at a loss and I don't know how to handle the situation

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1 June 2009 (F) - Just looking for opinions. My BF has been living with me since last November. He had recently divorced and was paying off some things so I didn't ask him for much. He kept saying things like, once I sell this or that, I can pitch in. He does help ...

Is this guy a fake?

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1 June 2009 (F) - hi friends im(19yrs) in a relationship with a guy(19yrs) for past 4months and i really love him. Many a times we get into situations where if he wanted he would have used me up (sex) and i even dont have any problem with it. But he always say th...

Does he just want sex or something more?

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1 June 2009 (F) - Hey friends, I am in a unique relationship with a boy since last 4 years, though for the last 2 years i have not met him. We were just friends but were involved sexually. Now i am living in a different city and have not met him since last 2 yea...

Should I dump him for the boy I hardly know?

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1 June 2009 (F) - im going out with some boy but i dont really like him, i dont really know why im going out with him, i think i just wanted a boyfriend because my bestmate had one. He likes to touch up my leg especially when im wearing a skirt and im too scared to ...

I'm constantly wondering what could be between us..if anything?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I was seeing this wonderful guy on and off a couple years ago. He was always the one to "let me go". He actually made the effort, though, to meet with me. He apologized for not giving us a chance and told me what a great girl I am and I'd make a ...

I'm head over heels for him!

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1 June 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. There's this guy i really fancy- he's got it all- looks and a great personality. We have been friends for a good while now and he is always asking me to walk with him and he makes an effort to talk to me. He was talking to my ...

I like my mate's girl and she likes me! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 June 2009 (M) - i really need some advice. i have fallen in love with my friends girlfriend. They have been together 6 years. Ive liked her for a while now, and last week i was out drinking and i saw her out and we had both lost our friends so me and my fr...

How do I make him keep "wondering" about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

1 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. We have already slept together. The first 2 weeks... he was doing all the cute texting, phone calls, etc. This past weekend... I sort of got the feeling that something changed... not s...

How do I win her love for marriage?

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1 June 2009 (M) - I am a single youngman,never married. I want to marry where as the girl I wanted to marry insist that we wait for 5 more years. She is 25 years old and I am 32 years old. What do I do to win her love for marriage without further delay?...

Every time I ask a girl out I just freeze!

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1 June 2009 (M) - i'm 18 and single because every time i ask a girl out i just freeze, she then asks if i'm ok, so i lie to her and say "i'm fine, just forget it" and walk off, i feel like such a failure and it's tearing me apart on the inside, how can i be more ...

My feelings are so messed up!

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1 June 2009 (F) - I have been meeting up with this guy for a month now, with both have issues on either side which is making it hard for us to both be together as a normal couple, he has kids i have a boyfriend, we text, email meet up once a week, my feelings have ...

I'm tired of doing all the chasing..what do I do with this guy?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I would just like a bit of relationship advice from anyone that has been through a similar situation. I met this guy about 3/4 years ago just after I came out of a relationship. He had just come out of a relationship too. We started seeing eachother ...

Heartache, crush, and being second best

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1 June 2009 (F) - i like this guy, alot in my college. he knows i like him. he asked his friends things about me and everything and several times he came to talkto me. but i was too shy to talk. however, i discovered that he was heartbroken by someone he liked ...

Gift for boyfriend?

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1 June 2009 (F) - hey guys i need abit of help. its my boyfriend's birthday nxt week and i would like to suprise him i got max £200 if u can give me clue wat to make for him, take him out, suprise at home. anything that would help. thnx...

I don't have any faith or confidence in myself since the breakup

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

1 June 2009 (?) - Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me some good advice, I really appreciate it. Im sorry for the length, I just want to make sure you understand my situation. I am now in my second year of college and just getting over alot of really h...

Is he just shy or is he just not into me?

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1 June 2009 (F) - Okay, well instead of writing out the long version, I'll just give the important details... There is this guy that I work with, and I like him, and I am almost sure that he likes me, in fact he told my friend that he would go out with me....well ...

Head over heels..... Now What?

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1 June 2009 (M) - Hello, Thanks for reading my post. I met a gorgeous girl that i am falling hard for. We met about 6 weeks ago, and every moment we have spent together has been perfect ever since. Very romantic dates... and We've had amazing conversations, amazing ...

Is it easier just to end things since he's moving away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 June 2009 (F) - I just turned 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 21. We have both been attending college locally, but at different schools. We live about 30-40 minutes away from each other and the drive is not bad. Recently, I found out that he is thinking ...

Is it too soon to ask if he is dating other people?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy I met on-line for 3 weeks now. We talk everyday, text and have gone out a number of times... Everything is great! I really like him... he seems to really like me... the problem is, I recently logged in to the website we ...

I am 18, need advice on winning over a girl, who has an awful boyfriend?

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1 June 2009 (M) - OK this girl i been talking about in my previous questions? I am kinda nervous and i don't wanna be turned down she has a boyfriend who is on drugs smoke weed pcp take zannies perks oxy's and he screws all her friends and im trying to win her over...

Love her, told her, now she's playing hard to get, what gives?

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1 June 2009 (M) - well hi im knda new to all of this but i need help with my girl. im in love and i told her so. she also said t back we both really like each other and it seems like everything going my way until she started playing hard to get a couple days ago. i ...

Now that I'm over my ex, guy that was interested doesn't want a relationship, what now?

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1 June 2009 (F) - Okay so back in September 2008 this guy wanted to date me but i was in love with my ex still and could not date him. Now months later i'm over my ex and starting to like the guy that use to like me. I talk to him everyday and a couple nights i told ...

Why would I be so dry during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

1 June 2009 (F) - I have a problem with getting wet. I am very attracted to my boyfriend and we have been dating for quite some time, but nevertheless Im always dry as the sahara desert. I know using lube is an option, but I was wondering if anyone knows why this is ...

Want a relationship, but I may have intimacy problems, any advice?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I think I have some sort of commitment or trust issues because i start to like a boy and when he likes me back i start to get uninterested. it's not the fact that he likes me back that pushes me away, it's all the flirting and calling. when a boy ...

Should I be jealous of my long distance boyfriend's ex?

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1 June 2009 (F) - I'm going to try and keep this brief. My current BF (LDR) exGF contacted him. She needs surgery to help control her seizures. She requested that in the event anything should happen to her, would my BF take her daughter (which is no relation to ...

He's 30ish, I'm 14, is it illegal for the two of us to date?

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1 June 2009 (F) - Well i like a guy who is about thirty years old but im only 14. would it be illegal for u s to date?...

We both are involved with others but want to take our actions further

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1 June 2009 (F) - Hi all! I hope you can help guide me on an issue. There's this guy that I've worked with for over 3 years, and he and I have flirted with each other for that long. He's had a g/f and I have a b/f but it seems now that this guy and I want to take ...