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Archived questions from: 20 June, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I am stuck in a routine of Solitude because of my financial difficulties!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - I was in an unhappy marriage from which I got divorced over a year ago. It was a decision that took a lot of thinking about at the time but i knew that it was the right thing to do in the long run in order to one day find some happiness. I held no ...

Should I put up with her denial ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - My g/f And i have gone out or 7 months. She has Now told me that she loves another guy and Always has throughout our relationship. I had asked her before but she said she didnt, which is lying. The boy dislikes me and is trying to get my g/f to b...

I want it to be the way it used to be but some trust is gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - hi, me an my boyfriend have been 2gether for 6 months and were really happy together. then the other night he went 2 a party and the nxt day there were photos on myspace with him and another girl holding hands and their arms around eachother...

I felt like I did the wrong thing even though things were not working out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - hey guys. i finally dumped my girlfriend and we are both breaking down. it was horrible, she wanted to try and make things better but i said i didnt believe it could until we got our heads right (we both are messed up). we have agreed to stay bes...

Love then hate...but I love her now so what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - i love a girl in my college .when the college opened she was loving me . but after some misunderstanding created by some other students in the college she just started hating me. from the beginig i hate her but now i am in love with her after ...

He has never had a job & is not very into getting one soon, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - Hi there.. so i have a boyfriend of 2years and 7months. i'm almost 16 and he's 17.. i tell him he is going to be an "adult"[18yrs old] in a couple of months[January] and that he should start looking for a job because he is not a child anymor...

What should I do? Leave him because he's an asshole with anger problems?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 9months and Its been ups and downs from the 5th month. When we use to go out he would stare at females and not hear a word I said. I finally got him to understand but it didn't last long. My b-day weekend we went out ...

Why couldnt he have just told me he was not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-wait-or-make-the-next-move.html i wrote this question back in feb after id met this amazin guy! i thought it went great. he text me after we'd met, he said he liked me, he asked me if we were meetin a...

Maybe I should persist. Maybe I should give up. Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - I’m discouraged. This is really disheartening… After giving up on online dating a while ago I recently got a message from a girl that surprised me. She’s great and meeting her like this was really unexpected. We chatted, we met up, and after ea...

Why hasn't he dumped her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - I really like this boy and he has a gf , but keeps telling me he loves me , and asking me to wait until this girl he's going out with dumps him until he can go out with me (which he thinks wont be that long) And ive just dumped my boyfriend for him ...

I want to make her mines!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - There is a girl i like pretyy much n she knows it too. but she is givin me lots of confusions. i dont know wat to do to make her mine. i need her at any cost. Dont wanna lose her as a friend also. wat should i do?? ...

I need to know whether she has emotional feelings for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - My long time friend which is a girl we've always being chatting certain times in class.this continued? in such a way that my classmates mistaken us to be emotionally attached.sometimes we like making funs together sits together in class .i brought ...

The sex is great, but he's selfish. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - I am 37 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for 3+ years. We have been living together for a year. We both have previous unsuccessful marriages and aren't in any hurry to get married (if ever). My problem is, he is self-proclaimed selfish ...

Girl flirting with me but I can't bring myself to let anything happen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - ok so I recently posted on here. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-pain-from-my-past-has-numbed-me.html for those of you who suggested therapy unfortunately I cannot afford it. although I truly don't feel anything still I wait for time to pass. ...

I never dated him, but how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - dear cupid, theres this guy that i was kinda on and off about for a while but finally started liking for two weeks he flirted with me and i genuinely though he liked me back. then a week before school ends when i finally bring up enough courage t...

If there is definite chemistry, why no follow up communication to the initial meeting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - If there is definite chemistry between a man and a woman, why would the man back off? What causes a man to feel scared or is it some other emotion? After nearly 8 months of communicating albeit online, on phone, texting, whatever, the day came to ...

I'm stressed out about my Mom, her b/f, my b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - my life is hell! im 16 and my mom treats me like a child. she wont let me leave the house unless she knws there's going to be an adult there and she has to know them. her boyfriend lives with us and all he does is sit on his lazy doesnt pay bills ...

Is it truly possible to be in love with 2 men at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - is it possible to be truly in love with two men at the same time or am i just nuts..... i met a man 2 1/2 years ago and was totally crazy over him even though we only went out a few times, needless to say he had commitment issues and i just figured ...

He hides his past relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! a few months ago, i wrote to you guys about this boy, who i just can't forget. The thing is that he kissed me, told me he really liked me, we were together day n night for exactly a week, it was the best week of my life, until he told ...

He stood me up, I feel rejected and hurt and I'm wondering what went wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - Hi, everyone - hope you can help me. This guy and I have communicated to each other that we want to make love with each other so I left him a note to meet me and he didn't, nor did he explain why. So now, of course, I feel rejected and hurt that ...

It's driving me insane not hearing from her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - So I met this great lady 1 year ago through work and we have been in touch every so often. Recently I have asked her a few times to see if she would go on a trip with me which she has done (to celebrate a new car) but she made it clear that she ...

How can I get her to like him? How do I deal with being in a relationship which she doesn't approve of?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old, just started going out with my bf who is 25. However, my mum doesnt really seem to approve. Its not because of the age gap though. I think its more to do with a few other things. My mum can be pretty judgemental and she assumes ...

Do you think she'll be disappointed when she sees it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - ok this might sound stupid but please let me know wot u think. need a girls perspective. I was changeing into my swimming trunks one day to go swimming in a river. as i was changeing one of the girls that was with us caught a glimpse of my pe...

My boyfriend looks down on "housewives" and it really bothers me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - My bf looks down upon 'housewives'. This really upsets me because my mum is a 'housewife', as she doesnt work, she chose to give up a career and stay at home and dedicate herself 100% to our family and our house. I cant explain how much I appreciate ...

Experiences with online dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - I've gone through a long, difficult break up. I learned some things about myself, have been learning to move on etc. Now, I really would like to try again at another relationship. I'm quite shy and haven't been in the area for that long, so I want ...