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Dating: Help and advice

I'm so confused, just what is he playing at?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start, please bear with me. I've had a rocky road with my boyfriend over the last few years. He left a relationship to be with me and we were living together, a problem became apparent in our relationship regarding my sis...

He is such a complex character and I want to be there for him to help him through all this.

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8 June 2009 (F) - I'm hoping for some advice to help me through all this. I've been with my partner for 9 years, lived together for 5. We're not married as he always told me he 'wasn't ready' but he would be one day. Anyway a few weeks ago when we were cuddling ...

Hearts not in it, but don't want to add to the pain

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8 June 2009 (?) - I have been dating a girl for the past 3 months. We have gotten along fine and have actually never been in a fight, but my heart is just not in it any more. I struggled with the same thing at the beginning of the relationship, but I thought I have ...

Why do only older boys like me?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm a 14 year old girl and i've never had a boyfriend. So now i want my 1st boyfriend cuz i'm starting high school this fall. I'm wondering how i could get a guy to like me. I'm overwieght and i think thats a reason. I'm 5'5'' and 180 lbs. But i ...

I'm in one big lonely mess...

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8 June 2009 (F) - I'm in one big lonely mess and it is getting me so down I spend nearly every night crying. I used to have a really close circle of friends, and even though we went our separate ways after school, we still kept in touch and went out together at the ...

Did my masterbation habit ruin my sex life?1

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8 June 2009 (M) - Ok I have this big problem..I'll try to make it short When i was a kid(8-9yrs old) i use to have sex with my neighbor daughter(she was 11). We continued this for 3 years and then they moved. When i was 8-9 yrs, strange thing is I use to be horn...

My negativity is pushing her away and I cant lose her!

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8 June 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend/best friend for close to a year. She is, by a long shot, the best thing to ever enter my life. Im 28 and I just now found love. The problem and my question is I get so paranoid that she will find someone else. I used to ...

She doesn't want to consider me more than a friend. What to do?

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8 June 2009 (M) - I've liked this girl that goes to my school for a long time. We've never really had a serious relationship..but i can't get my mind off her!...we are good friends and she's always nice to me and stuff. She just doesn't seem to want to consider me as ...

We've broken up but he still drives past my house! Why?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend and I broke up, he started dating a friend of mine (we are no longer friends) but yesterday I caught him driving by my house. I live on a remote street, the only reason for him to drive down my street is to drive by my house. ...

I know this is going to end with me hurt...He always does but I cant get over him!

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8 June 2009 (F) - This one boy is driving me insane. I havnt been happy for over two months. It all started when he had a girlfriend and i had a boyfriend. We realized we were in love with each other and dumped the other people for eachother. Then he got back ...

Do you think I scared him into NOT liking me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I think he likes me and sometimes I'm not so sure. He is the brother of one of my friends on my soccer team. He is also my soccer coach’s son. At the e...

When it comes to girls I strike out! Should I make the first move

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8 June 2009 (M) - This is a question that is more directed towards the ladies. I am a nice guy, the funny guy, etc. I do not consider myself bad-looking and I am always hanging around all of the jocks. I myself run track at my school and I went to regionals my fre...

I like two spoiled guys and need to choose one of them, please help?

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8 June 2009 (F) - i am a 20 years old girl and I have a problems of having two too loyal boyfriend..both of them doesn't want to let me go, while i'm just trying my best to not hurt any of them feeling.. i have try several times to break off with both of them, but ...

Want to do more with my boyfriend than making out, what is the next step/

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8 June 2009 (F) - okay, like i wanna step up in my realationship, but what do you do, my boyfriend and i only make-out. what do you do to have him do more with you? thanx. [:...

What kind of game is he playing with me?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Dont understand my ex broke up 2 months ago. He came to my rescue a few days ago with a family illness. He acts like he wants me back but yet has not called for 2 days. Not even to see how my father is doing in the hospital. So why did he offer ...

He has no job, he doesn't go to school and I am so annoyed with him! Why am I like this?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much...we've been together about 4 months now...but recently I've just been getting really angry at him..he doesnt have a job or go uni, so this annoys me as i work very hard so he doesnt understand why i like him to be on ...

Want to know if he still has feelings for me, what are the signs?

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8 June 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up about 2-3 weeks ago because we never knew what to speak about. but now we're really close and speaking now. i think he still likes me but im not sure. what things would be obvious that he likes me? the other night me and ...

He and I have always been close before..so what's happening now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Im pretty young to be in the situstion im in. Falling in love at 15 wasn't my plan nor my parents. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2. I commited my self at such a early age. My parents both love him dearly. But he's older then me which ...

My gf is not very sexually minded and I feel only like a friend to her! Any advice?

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8 June 2009 (M) - right here goes.....I’ve been with my girlfriend for half a year now and whilst I am absolutely head over heels for her, I’m finding that we don’t have much sex. Roughly once a week at most usually, more than once a week (and not much more) on very ...

He does not want a commitment and it's driving me crazy, please help?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Help how do u get over someone. And stop feeling shit bout giving your all being totally inlove. Them saying they love u back. Then just deciding that actually the cant give u what u want. 3 yrs i gave my all to someone who i was totally in love ...

I haven't snogged a boy, should I do it when I'm drunk so there's less pressure?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Hi my names Leigh im 15 and i havent yet snogged a boy. im too worried ill do it wrong. so many boys have wanted to go out with me but i always say no because im too scared about snogging them. i always get drunk on the weekend, should i just snog ...

Any ideas on how to deal with an angry, abusive ex-boyfriend, that you want nothing to do with?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Hello, I am in need of advice. I was in a 4 year verbally abusive relationship and have been out of the relationship for nearly 2 years. My ex and I have had angry and painful communication over the last 2 years and we recently talked on the ph...

Why is it that black boys prefer white girls?

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8 June 2009 (F) - this is a random question i need answering but i want everyone to know i am NOT racist in anyway as you will see cos i have a black boyfriend i love very much. so no hate mail please. i was just talking to my boyfriend the other day im white and...

Don't really know how to 'do' a relationship

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8 June 2009 (M) - :( ok..I'm 14 years old and I got a girlfriend two weeks ago.The day I asked her out.. I sat at her lunch table feeling weird and not knowing what to say and... neither did she. I can understand that (might) be normal on the first 1 or 2 days but...

Is it worth risking all we both have because of one silly, drunken mistake?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friends boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good ...

Does he have feelings for his ex gf..am I 2nd best?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Im kind of a bit worried that my bf still has feelings for his ex? These are the reasons why I think so. When talking about there past relationship, he goes on about how they were so in love and how he made her so happy etc. They only broke up ...

Still confused..do I give him my virginity?

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8 June 2009 (F) - i have wrote a series of questions about this boy but im still caught up with it :( i am 15 and i like this 16 yr old boy and im still a virgin and he isnt. i have known him for about a year now and i still want to lose my virginity to him...

No time for sex with me as he studies too hard!

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8 June 2009 (F) - Me and my bf are in a relationship 7 months now. He loves me an all but he is really into studying and i hate it! He never has time for me! but its ok... i try to handle it. i tell him sometimes that he should relax a little, but it's no use... but ...

Communication problems with my stressed out boyfriend! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship (LDR) for about 19 months now. Things were so good in the beginning and he quickly swept me off my feet. He did what he could to relocate here, but his life was pulled out from under him. Since then, it ...

I have difficulty talking about my past! Could it be fear?

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8 June 2009 (F) - hii all.... i have a major problem i find it really hard to express my feelings towards people... i get too shy. i've been through some stuff in my life which could be part of the problem... but when it comes to talking about things that ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend want to add me on her facebook?

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8 June 2009 (M) - I invited my girlfriend to my facebook 3 days ago she still hasn't added me. I noticed after inviting her that her ex is on there. I asked her why she said its nothing. Well she still hasn't accepted me and I told her I'm going to delete ...

My 6 year old daughter doesn't like me dating

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8 June 2009 (F) - Am i wrong in making my daughter the centre of my universe?I have a 6yr old daughter,she is my only child.I spilt up with her dad just over a year ago.When i was with him he wasn't around much as a partner or a dad,so basically it was just me and ...

Is this an affair that should go further or is it over?

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8 June 2009 (M) - So i had an affair. lots of reasons, no point getting into it, but rest assured there were reasons. First/last time I'll do it. But i realized i waited for as (held out) long as i did, because i wasnt really looking for an affair but to move on (...

He's socially awkward, what do I do?

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8 June 2009 (F) - hi my man is not very social. he is awkward in social situations and around my friends. when we are alone he is so nice and chatty and outgoing. it feels like he has a split personality. its especially hard when my friends etc are like "why are you ...

He was my first love so should I talk to him or not, now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - When i was fourteen i had a massive crush on this boy from the first time i met him, One day i found out he moved in by me and i was so excited. He was my first crush, first kiss, basically he is my first love. We hung out all the time and things ...

He's clingy and insecure! Need dating HELP!

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8 June 2009 (F) - OK.. So there is this guy i've been dating for two years this September.. I love him to peices and i think he may love me a little [too much] I'm seventeen and he is twenty so i can see where some of this comes from.. he proposed to me in february ...

We're just friends, but I love him so much! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F) - hi. I have a friend i met him through e-mails. its been a long time. we were in the crew e-mails but he just send e-mails to me as individual. when times goes on, i noticed then i send back so we become friends. we arrange to meet as friends so our ...

How to find men that want to settle down...?

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8 June 2009 (F) - So, I am 22 years old and I am wanting to settle down. The single life style just isn't satisfying anymore. It seams that more and more of my friends are getting serious, engaged, married, etc, where I clearly am not. I could use some advice ...

Is it a problem that I have only been liking taken guys and guys that I don't talk to?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I have been best friends with these two guys for a long time... one's taken and the other got asked out by 4 girls... I hate the fact once the other gets a girlfriend he won't talk to me but the taken one only talks to me when he's not talking to ...

I can't trust my girlfriend because she lied to me. She turned out to be a slut. Should I break up with her?

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8 June 2009 (M) - My cousin went to skool wit this girl that was litterally known as the skools whore. even tho she had never slept wit anybody at that school, e. I had my eyes on her ever since I saw her at the movies one day and I got her number from my cousin just ...

Wrong kind of love crisis!!!

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8 June 2009 (F) - i am in a big dilema here..i have a boyfriens of 6 months today but there is a guy who ive known for alot longer than i have my current boyfriend. i'm starting to have feelings for him again and i don't know what to do. but the only thing is..the ...

How long is long enough to expect marriage?

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8 June 2009 (M) - I've been seeing a woman for over 10 years. Due to her family issues we didn't always spend every week together and the relationship was not public to most people. I've been thinking of asking if she really will get married, not just "in a few y...

Guy 1, Guy 2, Guy 3, which one is best for me?

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8 June 2009 (F) - I am stuck in the middle between three guys. I am going to give you all a piece of information and my feelings regarding each of them. The rest is up to you my Aunt's to help me. Thank you for ALL that take the time to actually read this, and thank ...

My traditonal indian parents do not accept my American boyfriend! Help!

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8 June 2009 (F) - this is very long. im an indian girl and i have been dating my american white boyfriend for 2 years now. im 19 years old. We are deeply in love and have been ever since we met. all my life, my parents have been extremely overprotective o...

Is he holding on?

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8 June 2009 (F) - Welllll.... I been with my boyfriend for 8 months now... and besides normal disagreements and such we're great.... but lately I have been finding out more information about his last relationship (the one that ended a month before we began) and I'm ...

Advice needed! I don't know whether to stay with him or just move on...

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8 June 2009 (F) - ok ill try and make this quick me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 3 years living together as well. he goes out every weekend with his friends while i stay at home i never get to see my friends and if i do then it has to be during the day, ...